look this is what I actually look for and very few on this list are a compromise thing
1. DOG. you have to like my dog thair will be NO compromise if I feel you're a danger to my dog you need to leave if my dog is extremely aggressive toward you and don't calm down when you around will I trust my dog's judgment.so if she doesn't like you, there must be something wrong with you. so yah best be leaven.my dog's grandma and mother saved my grandmas life once and my life twice and she is my protector and my friend.and let's be honest if who wouldn't love this face if yah don't you're a monster. ps no she is not under feed she has access to food 24 hours a day its just how she looks.
2.HOMESTEAD. if you don't want to feed hogs, milk cows trim hoves work in the garden bail hay castrate get covered in amniotic fluid tan leather shear sheep fix fences and work you ass off all day then yah might as well be moving on because it won't work out with us im living on a homestead with or without you .
3.personality. must be carrying not a pussy and not an agent. must be respectful to people manners meaning yah don't stand in a room full of people and fart. respect your elders doesn't mean everything they do is right but respect them have manners. and a little bull-headed is cute. 
4.drugs/alcohol. i will not tolerate drugs there will be no getting high in my house or coming home high I will not deal with it and yes that means the cigarettes and chew to it will not exist in my home. as long as you're not a mean or stupid drunk a drink from time to time with the guys is not bad and that doesn't mean o so i can drink a bottle every night no I live my whole life like that and will not live any more of it in that way.
5.loyal. look bud yah will only cheat on me once because you won't be around to do it again yah get one chance one round of my trust you brake it you done so better getting on up and getting on out of my life.
6.ABUSIVE. if I see even the slightest sign you are abusive in any way rather it be to my mentality or my body to children or animals yah better get on down the road you will hit me once and only once before I knock your teeth down your throat and you will be one lucky dude if im not fast enough to keep you from laying a hand on child after you hit that kid once you better move fast as lightning because I will be coming for you and I guarantee you won't make it far. I won't put up with abusive people and I won't fight you unless you make me i never throw the first punch 
7.FUN. if yah can't let loose and have fun from time to time yah might as well get ongoing because im going to ride horses im going to get down in the mud a jump off the edge so a stick in the mud will be no fun for me 
8 color. ok this one can be swayed but it be a preferred thing if we were the same color
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