Whenever you ask any girl “Do you need a man?” the answer's always going to be "NO"- not a single girl'll answer "yes". There is definitely not a single woman alive in the Western world who needs a man. While in the past a woman had to put forth effort to obtain a husband who would help her survive, today she is protected by a welfare state that ensures she will never go hungry, or spend one night on the street. Even a child she has out of wedlock, from a drunken night out, will not have to suffer from her mistake, and that’s in spite of the fact that many nations already provide her with free contraception to compensate for her lack of judgement in selecting worthy mates. Anything required for a woman’s survival or pleasure can be easily achieved without her having to put forth commitment, sacrifice, or labor. She can shave her head, become morbidly obese, disfigure herself with tattoos and be a batshit insane sociopath, yet she'll still have many suitors to- at bare minimum- have sex with her on demand. No matter what, their food and shelter will be provided for them, by a welfare state which has embarked upon an extraordinary effort to out-compete men, and masculinity itself, for womens' devotion and loyalty to the leftist, socialist cause.
Even if you ask them “do you want a man?”, you'll only ever get the flakiest of hesitant “I don’t know” answers, or hostile aggressive "Why do you wanna know?" counter-questions at the very best- the only ones who'd ever say "yes" are the prostitutes and gold-diggers, who DON'T want a man at all, but merely whatever wealth she can extract from him before tossing him aside. From an early age, here in the West, girls are brainwashed to believe that they don’t need men and that the key to their happiness is self-empowerment by sleeping around and becoming a corporate wage slave. It’s hard to dispute the notion that a woman who believes she doesn’t need a man won’t make as good of a relationship partner as one who does. At best, she will treat you as a distraction to her more important 'job'- girls’ nights out, and "happy time" self-validation through social networking. Women don't have an ounce of respect for us any more- because men have become an utterly replaceable and expendable commodity in a girl’s life.
Her interest in a man is not unlike her interest in a new app, streaming service or smartphone; as men, our only hope now, even with the seemingly kindest, most loyal and pure-hearted girls in the world, is to have sex with them as many times as possible- either until her attraction diminishes and she moves on to the next guy in line, or until her own attractiveness has diminished to the extent where she's no longer willing to 'plumb the depths' with those third and fourth-rate guys whose standards are low enough for them to still keep standing in line for her, no matter how ugly and haggard she gets. Women don’t seek out comfort or stability in men anymore; they only seek entertainment, distraction, and hedonistic pleasure. This is why those traditional men, ready and willing to provide and put their lives on the line for their loved ones, are so hopelessly failing today to secure the commitment of any beautiful women in their prime; and this is why even many of the manliest men have already accepted that it's pointless to even bother with entering relationships with women any more, beyond Friends-With-Benefits & Fuckbuddy relationships, casual sex and one-night stands.
Once the entertainment or novelty which any man provides any woman with declines- and it inevitably will- she'll just move on to something or someone else. In essence, the only way you can keep a girl is if you adopt the mentality of a soap opera writer, adding a cliffhanger to the end of each episode that keeps a woman interested- because being a good man, or even being the singular best man she's ever met in her life, no longer can. When I look at myself in the mirror, even as a fairly accomplished, handsome man in peak condition, still in the prime of his life, who's improved himself over the years to be the best, strongest and most capable individual possible- I'm forced to acknowledge that, in the eyes of any girl, I'm going to be dehumanized and objectified in the same manner as a glittery skirt that she might encounter in the mall.
Is it too expensive, or is it on sale? Is it trending on social media, or is it 'soo last season', out of fashion now? Is there only one left in her size, or is the rack full of them? Does she already have something similar, or is it totally new and different from everything else in her 'collection'? Does her friends think it’s cute, hot, or just alright? After trying it on, does it flatter her body or make her look fat? Either she makes the impulsive decision to buy the skirt or not, because odds are she'll leave and never spare a second thought on it, let alone come back for it. There are so many stores, with so many fashion items, that she will soon forget it, forever, no matter how wowed she is by any single one in the moment. We are nothing more than fashion accessories to women—items that she truly doesn’t need. Not only has she already collected so many of them, but she can easily obtain more within walking distance from where she lives, wherever she lives. She can even browse online from home, while in her pajamas, through a nearly unlimited selection.
We are no longer men in the traditional sense- this society, and the welfare state, has usurped that from us, forever. And we'll never get to be men again, for as long as this society endures. We've been reduced to nothing more than mere entertainers, forced to resort to creating drama and excitement in a girl’s life, just long enough so that she'll spread her legs and makes sexy noises. And that's all we can get- even though she did commit such an intimate act with us, she will soon lose interest or simply get bored, and then move on to the next shiny cock that catches her eye. The other side of this coin is that we no longer need women. We don’t need them to maintain our home or cook good meals for us. We don’t need them in an age where having children is no longer important or valued- where children themselves are reviled and despised for "overpopulation", and where aborting them out of existence before they can be born is seem as a "divine mercy". Whatever natural connection once existed between the sexes, and between parents and their children, has now been severed. Neither sex needs each other, and absolutely no-one needs children, so we dedicate ourselves to corporations, entertainment, and base pleasures instead. And somehow, this great tragedy is something that most self-proclaimed "progressives" believe to be the foremost sign of progress, and hold aloft as a great cause for celebration.
I've given up on women, given up on expecting anything more from them, given up on repeating the tired old mantra I've been repeating to myself for all of my adolescent and post-pubescent life- that "they're not like that, it's just THESE ones, girls are good people, some day I'll finally meet the right girl, just one girl- The One who'll treat me as a human being, who'll be capable of respecting me as a person, who'll be capable of appreciating something, anything I do for her, who could some day just maybe treasure me in the way I'd be willing to treasure any woman". So, with the next girl I meet, I’m not going to ask her if she needs, or wants, a man in her life, because I know she doesn’t. Instead I will simply ask her if she wants to have a good time, and if the answer leans yes, I will perform like the good clown I am so that she is entertained enough to have sex with me. Either she or I will eventually get bored, and the relationship will end, before I'll simply repeat my performance on a someone new. Because that’s all that the Western women today still want men for- to provide them with hedonistic short-term entertainment, for their "quick fix".
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