What Women REALLY Want? Cutting trough the nice guy, alpha male, "confidence" bullshit... (Part 1) (Page 2)
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They want Elon Musk.
Rich, youthful, witty, risk taker, innovator, smart, revolutionary, self-made, highly ambitious, well known and most importantly, desired by millions of other women.
Nothing pleases women more than making other women jealous about her man.
Read Sex at Dawn , this my take is not based on science
That book is theoretical bullshit with no backing in real-life human behavior.
At least evolutionary psychology I read had some relation and reason for current behaviors and needs of humans today. And if you take all the evolution out of the picture, behaviors are still observed and reasoned enough to stand on their own as verifiable facts. (regardless of being backed by evolution or not)
That book is almost just guessing for guessing's sake. It's annoying as fuck to try and read it.
Are you kidding? I suggest taking a second look. It explains perfectly why we are where we are today, and why it is wrong.
It is backed up by facts as much as evolutionary psychology could be. Try reading it again.
This take is absolute bullshit.
The book is backed up by facts as much as a tinfoil hat conspiracy theory.
Except there are sources on nearly every page and it provides counter examples and theories too... Sounds like you don't know what you are talking about to be honest. No use continuing. People here seem to agree anyway so there is no need to beat a dead horse.
Yeah, "sources" and mind numbing gaps in reasoning and scrutiny for every new source.
You have described that sex in exchange for resources is the base of human monogamy, thus women are whores, only dating a women richer than me crew checking in.
There is part 2 to this.
I read it, it still explains how men have to do while a women just has to be, an exaggerated stance of both parts would be that men buy women, and pay for her services as a perpetual prostitute.
Submission allows a woman to fulfil the man's needs. She can't just be. She is programmed to reciprocate. All he has to do is learn to demand reciprocation from her. (Yes submission serves her too by creating order, but it primarily serves him... Because he'll make sure she does.)
She is programmed to desire a man who will make her serve him. It will make her happy and not feeling used.
Same way a man is programmed to serve her, making him feel fulfilled and manly, without feeling used.
Women are not prostitutes. They don't even want to be prostitutes.
A prostitute would not desire to reciprocate. She'd just like to be payed for sex.
If women were prostitutes biologically, they would be attracted to nice guys who don't ask for anything but sex in exchange for their efforts.
yeah whores serve their pimps, are women sexually attracted to resources? if so, then they are whores.
o and we are programmed to like women who are half decent looking and not a crazy bitch, that's literally all a women needs to be.
You're a moron.
are women sexually attracted to resources? answer that
No they are not!
You're not taking the whole picture into account. They aren't giving sex in 'exchange' for anything. The choose their mates based on a multitude of factors INCLUDING resources for the sake of their children and themselves. Raising children is VERY time consuming especially while they are young. So evolution conditioned a division of labor where women focused more on the children and the home while the men went into the wilderness for resources.
It also isn't the ultimate decider and even if it was it's pragmatic. You can't survive if you don't have access to the necessities. And the difference between a whore and a wife is that a whore is ultimately a business transaction that ends at sex. A wife has your back and [helps] raises your kids.
what a bunch of pseudoscientific, "evolutionary" pseudopsychology nonsense.
plus you are sexist against women too with your nurturing and "when women dominate a field it becomes obsolete" bs... .
It's true tho.
its not. waste of time for you that wrote it, and us who read it.
It is. Medicine is a prime example. Childcare, education as well.
Women overwhelm it, it drops in quality, it drops in "prestige" and it has less and less interested men, because they aim for lucrative professions and more "challenging" fields.
After reading this I've discovered I have no chance in the dating world. I need to just focus on other things.
Why?
I have no qualities women are attracted to.
You have no brain, no muscle, no backbone?
You do realize that's not something you "have", but something you GET, right?
Men are made, not born.
All I have is my intelligence. But that will only get you so far.
Again... Made, not born.
You don't sound that intelligent if you can't grasp this to be honest. =/
I understand what you're saying. There's just nothing that can be done.
Well also keep in mind that not every woman will have the same demands, while male leadership is the scarcest commodity in existence right now. Say you're crippled, or that you can't ever be anything but poor... Just learning to lead a woman would put you on par with more "prestigious" guys in female eyes and you could find a girl. Trust me.
I've seen women commit to poor, ugly, fat, weak guys, only because they were authoritative and that's hard to find.
To me that sounds crazy, but if it's the truth then there's nothing to argue.
I think most women have the same demands. A male model with lots of money.
You'd be very surprised in my opinion. I had a similar hangup you have until I realized that confidence and your mindset are largely influenced by your choices. People can and are conditioned to believe certain things whether it be true or not because belief is ultimately a choice.
You choose what you accept and what path to follow but your emotions may lag a little behind. I'd suggest you learn more about psychology and philosophy. It will open your mind to things you didn't think existed.
I'd also suggest you look into brain chemistry, hormones and what not.
Women have no idea about what they want actually
Holy moly this take. Mind blown.
Very good take!
Thank you. ^^
Women are still shallow
@blackeagle007 No one is arguing against that. There's a reason it was and maybe still is in humanity's best interest for women and even men to be shallow.
Nice I like it the normal women
Didn't read *dances off into the distance*
Great post!!
Excellent take.