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many times yes, but until they show they're personality is when you decide whether or not to continue liking the "attractive guy"
Well, if you're awkward about it, it doesn't matter how hot you are. Believe me, I'm saying this from experience ;)
Maybe you need to work on being more suave? Or maybe you need to be more persistent
Maybe so. I was a social late bloomer due to bullying. But I wouldn't consider myself awkward around women. I've had a few partners in the last several months. I could probably use some more confidence though.
If confidence is the issue, then practice on some girls that are maybe not so good looking to you. And also realize that there are many reasons a girl might reject your advances and thinking that you are not attractive enough is only one of them. She may be having a bad day, may have a boyfriend, may be gay, may be intimidated by your good looks, may think you're a player and can get any woman you want, may think you're trying to be funny for your friends, etc. Many, many reasons.
Il try that. Thanks! I have noticed that a lot of women have giving me the "you're not interested in me line." Former girl I dated always was insecure that I was using her for sex because. I was out of her league in the looks department. I'm not shallow like that but women think I am.
Of course. Beautiful males are diamonds, and beautiful females are graphite. There are so many them us, and so few of you, that mere 8/10s are obsolete.. You have the power to fck us and chuck us as you please. And unlike many insecure pretty girls, hot guys KNOW they are hot, so they don't EVER reduce themselves. They are ruthless... They will GUT YOU ALIVE. They aim for only the highest.
Well, speaking for myself no i'm not ! I love hot guys and they don't intimidate me at all.. They are almost always nicer, less creepy and less butthurt than the ugly dudes. You just gotta be condifent and you're all set :)
In your case yes and no. I don't stare at good looking men because 1 I'm not thirsty 2 I want them to pursue me 3 if I'm checking u out and most girls are guilty of this we do it in a fashion u would never know. Sometimes I don't bother because if he's not looking at me he's not interested and I keep it movin.
Yes for sure, sometimes when I see a good looking guy that look like models I automatically think that they want nothing serious and too cocky
Lol unfortunately its true with me. I'll fo anything not to make eye contact, really handsome guys make me paranoid and uncomfortable lol i just want to leave the area as soon as i can
Do* lol
So you go out of your way to not look?
I sometimes or i just try to position myself in the opposite direction it's more of I don't want them to see me I have severe anxiety so maybe the girls you're saying at all these places maybe have severe anxiety also
Seeing fucking auto correct lol
Haha maybe so. Thanks for the input. I should probably smile more to ease the anxiety
Might work. I never smile and get labeled with RBS. Lol
With that attitude, I'm not surprised that you haven't gotten a girl yet.
Do you mind telling me what makes you think that?
At 21 you've just started your life. This early, I'll tell you, being pretty isn't the only thing you need to worry about. You need to talk to the girls you're interested in and make it just obvious enough that you are. Get their number. Smile. Be nice. Don't act like an arrogant dick and say 'Oh I have a nice face but women don't date me so they must be intimidated' no no no no no. Not good.
We aren't intimidated, we just don't want you to pretend to be interested just to get sex.
Thanks for the input. I kind of feel like your assuming I'm arrogant because eof my looks. But that's not the case. I think more so I'm a down to earth guy with a lot to offer.. What I was getting at and frustrated by is, I've been turned down every now and then because women assume I just want sex. or that I'm a player. I just find it hard to approach or go forth with interactions because some seem intimidated.
Just be friendly and persistent (but not in a stalker way) and respect is an important factor
there's no way in hell id ever be intimidated by someone of the opposite sex. thats just weird
im not. i find it a 'challenge' if u will.