Why girls today dress like sluts?

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Everyone talks about how women have the right to do what they want with their body and all that feminist crap but why noone talks about the other side of the coin? for me, summer is the worst period. i'm sick of seeing all these semi naked women walking around. i've been told i have a model body, but still i never wear revealing clothes. i just find it insulting. i've noticed that despite what one might think, many men are annoyed by that as well. have you ever thought if your attire is "intruding" into the other person's life and aesthetics? are men oblidged to walk around with naked women with no sense of class and self respect? can you really force them to have your naked skin shoven in their faces? Why noone talks about the responsibility and ethical dilema of women walking around like that, but everyone talks about if they should be allowed to strip off more or not. why won't they take some responsibility? cause lets be honest, there is nothing else than sexually provoking and attention seeking in that practice. and dont mention heat. its hot for me as well these days, but i have to dress nowhere like that... .

And these jean string- shorts (!) and the non-existent skirt dresses teen girls wear today... omg.. what pervert even started this... "fashion"... ?

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Oh and i'm not a "prude" or "bragging about me virtue or whatever" either in case you want to use such adhominems against me. i'm just genuinely against this insulting, unclassy, and uthoughtful of the others' feelings and values practice... .

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and i also dont like the message that this conveys about us that women can attract men only scantily dressed, not with their smarts, character and a modestly dressed manner. and that we are sheeple copying what the masses are doing... .

Answer 1

Anonymous

Here's an outrageous idea: How about we let people do what they want with their own bodies?

How does what some random girl wears, whom you may never even see again, affect you in any meaningful way? If you don't like it, then look away. It really is just that simple!

Thing is, men walk around shirtless in the summer. So should we scandalize them too? Or is it only women who get to be scandalized? To me that is a double-standard. Yes, many women find men's abs sexy, so how is that not the same as a woman walking around in a bikini?

Oh wait, are breasts too sexy? Why don't we stop sexualizing them then. I mean they have a real purpose, to feed babies. The only reason they are considered sexy is because we have objectified them.

Plus it's summer time. Should we all just wear snowsuits in the middle of the summer to appease the few people who are offended? Is not being offended by watching people walk around in summer clothes more important than people's own comfort?

I didn't realize a few people's ideas and opinions were more important than people's autonomy over their own bodies.

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i dont like your sarcastic tone and your "arguments" where well expected and mentioned in the description.

i agree with the whole objectification thing though. BUT this still is not an excuse for us to walk around like cheap and needy prostitutes.

as for the heat, there are wonderful, light summer clothes to cover that need without losing any of your class and modesty.

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Asker

i dont like your sarcastic tone and your "arguments" where well expected and mentioned in the description.

i agree with the whole objectification thing though. BUT this still is not an excuse for us to walk around like cheap and needy prostitutes.

as for the heat, there are wonderful, light summer clothes to cover that need without losing any of your class and modesty.

Answer 3

Mydnite

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You need to just chill and worry about yourself instead of what other people are doing in their own lives that have zero impact on yours. You dress how you want to and let them dress how they want to. I do not see how women dress today is any business of yours. If you have a daughter, then take it up with her, otherwise it isn't any of your concern. If you or anyone else can't keep it in your pants and control yourself at the site of a woman who is wearing what you consider questionable, then that's your problem.

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i'm not attracted by women. your point is invalid. why not respect other people's values, cultures, religions etc? i might be an agnostic but i can understand their discomfort with the whole thing. and not only of those people, these clothes are really questionable in the sense of aesthetics and humanity. thats really how we developed as a civilization? plus how do you know it doesn't affect me? if it makes some guys into horndogs and then they attack me to rape me does that not affect my life? how can you say that?
Mydnite

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you are being a HUGE hypocrite. you are not respecting people's choices. People can dress how they want without you butting into their business. Your "ethics" or "morals" are not any more important than other people's. I don't know where you live, but I don't live in a dictatorship and you have no business shaming people for how they want to dress. It has absolutely zero to do with you, mind your own business. Would you like people getting in your business that have nothing to do with you? i doubt it, so don't do it to other people. It's extremely disrespectful.

And what you said at the end of how it makes guys into "horndogs" and they can attack and rape you because of what you wear? Is possibly the dumbest thing i have ever read in my entire life. You must have absolutely ZERO respect for men to make that asinine statement. To say that a guy suddenly becomes a criminal at the moment he sees how a woman is dressed? are you even for real or are you just trolling?
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it was an exageration but... is it? how do you think all these rapes happened in germany etc by the illegal imigrants? do you think they werent provoked by the females' attire? plus if you want "democracy" start thinking outside of your egotistical little circle of "YOUR rights" and start putting your self a bit in other people's shoes... .
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Mydnite

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i can't believe you are making me even explain this to you, but rapists don't give a shit what you are wearing and it won't suddenly make a person into a criminal at the sight of some skin, if someone has that ability in them to rape another human being, it won't matter if that person is naked or is wearing an armored suit.

You seriously need to grow up and mind your own business.
wagsingle

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If you know anything at all about rape you would know it's a crime of violence and how a woman is dressed rarely plays a role. You really need to wake up and educate yourself on women's issues. WOW! Now she's attacking immigrants! Judgmental hypocritical about as knowledgeable on women's issues as women in the typical polygamist cult, and now Xenophobic too. Your one piece of work.
wagsingle

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Asker- Muslim extremest (not all Muslims, or even a majority) are offended by women h their heads uncovered. Are you worried about offending them too? No one should feel the need to limit their own freedom just because it may OFFEND someones religion. Those kind of religious people need to be more focused on being offended by our countries abysmal state of social justice and less on being offended by the freedom of others.

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Asker

i'm not attracted by women. your point is invalid. why not respect other people's values, cultures, religions etc? i might be an agnostic but i can understand their discomfort with the whole thing. and not only of those people, these clothes are really questionable in the sense of aesthetics and humanity. thats really how we developed as a civilization? plus how do you know it doesn't affect me? if it makes some guys into horndogs and then they attack me to rape me does that not affect my life? how can you say that?

Answer 5

Mydnite

you are being a HUGE hypocrite. you are not respecting people's choices. People can dress how they want without you butting into their business. Your "ethics" or "morals" are not any more important than other people's. I don't know where you live, but I don't live in a dictatorship and you have no business shaming people for how they want to dress. It has absolutely zero to do with you, mind your own business. Would you like people getting in your business that have nothing to do with you? i doubt it, so don't do it to other people. It's extremely disrespectful.

And what you said at the end of how it makes guys into "horndogs" and they can attack and rape you because of what you wear? Is possibly the dumbest thing i have ever read in my entire life. You must have absolutely ZERO respect for men to make that asinine statement. To say that a guy suddenly becomes a criminal at the moment he sees how a woman is dressed? are you even for real or are you just trolling?

Answer 6

Asker

it was an exageration but... is it? how do you think all these rapes happened in germany etc by the illegal imigrants? do you think they werent provoked by the females' attire? plus if you want "democracy" start thinking outside of your egotistical little circle of "YOUR rights" and start putting your self a bit in other people's shoes... .

Answer 7

Mydnite

i can't believe you are making me even explain this to you, but rapists don't give a shit what you are wearing and it won't suddenly make a person into a criminal at the sight of some skin, if someone has that ability in them to rape another human being, it won't matter if that person is naked or is wearing an armored suit.

You seriously need to grow up and mind your own business.

Answer 8

wagsingle

If you know anything at all about rape you would know it's a crime of violence and how a woman is dressed rarely plays a role. You really need to wake up and educate yourself on women's issues. WOW! Now she's attacking immigrants! Judgmental hypocritical about as knowledgeable on women's issues as women in the typical polygamist cult, and now Xenophobic too. Your one piece of work.

Answer 9

wagsingle

Asker- Muslim extremest (not all Muslims, or even a majority) are offended by women h their heads uncovered. Are you worried about offending them too? No one should feel the need to limit their own freedom just because it may OFFEND someones religion. Those kind of religious people need to be more focused on being offended by our countries abysmal state of social justice and less on being offended by the freedom of others.

Answer 10

blunttalker | 93 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

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I agree with you. People should be more modest. We women have beautiful bodies, it's good to be proud of our bodies, but there's no need to show it off or to prove people that we love our bodies. If we show too much skin, it looks vulgar, it looks cheap. It gives a bad message. Some girls like it when guys stare at this boobs or ass. But it's disrespectful, and guys will stare more at your ass if you were revealing clothes.

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Anonymous

Well considering the way society is going... just don't care. Women wanna do anything and everything under the sun... whatever

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wagsingle

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And they have every right to. What things do you want to prevent women from doing? ruling their own bodies? Control their own reproduction? Being your boss? Being president? Perhaps you feel threatened by strong women.

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wagsingle

And they have every right to. What things do you want to prevent women from doing? ruling their own bodies? Control their own reproduction? Being your boss? Being president? Perhaps you feel threatened by strong women.

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Anonymous

Well it's very simple...
Sluts dress like sluts :-)

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some are jusr affected by fashion icons and peer pressure or mass psychology
Opinion Owner

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Hmm yeaa that could be true too
wagsingle

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Slut is a often a term employed by sexist to belittle a woman who is self empowered to control her own sexuality.

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Asker

some are jusr affected by fashion icons and peer pressure or mass psychology

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Opinion Owner

Hmm yeaa that could be true too

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wagsingle

Slut is a often a term employed by sexist to belittle a woman who is self empowered to control her own sexuality.

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wagsingle

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Here's a better question. Why are you so judgmental of people who don't share your view? Odds are your a self righteous fundy Christian who thinks everyone who dares to live life by there own standards instead of yours is violating your rights and persecuting you. Here's an idea! Mind your own fucking business!

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Anonymous

Lol i agree, it's like they think being a slut is attractive to men which is false. We don't like sluts.

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