Girls, did you ever kick a boy in the balls growing up?

Question

I've seen girls do this, mostly during middle school and early high school. I've only been kicked in the balls twice. First time was from my sister, I used to annoy the hell out of her as kids. Second time was from a girl I had a crush on during middle school. I slapped her butt one day, she returned the favor by kicking my balls and laughing. We were dating at the time but I guess she felt like kicking me. Was just curious if most girls did this growing or not.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Once. I was 14 and babysitting some kids in our neighborhood. I often supervised them in their swimming pool. They were 2 and 3 always wore kid's swimming suits that keep them afloat of course. But all the kids in the neighborhood were always welcome at their pool. So this 18 year old guy in the neighborhood came down to swim. I never liked the guy. He was always strange but I knew he had a rough childhood so I passed it off as that. Well the kid's mom came home and we got them out of the pool and I told the mother I would get all of the kid's toys out of the pool and meet her inside. As soon as she was gone the guy came up to me in the water and grabbed me. "Playfully" it seemed at first. Like a water wrestling, rough housing kinda way. I kinda laughed it off and pushed him away. But then he pushed me against the wall of the pool and tried to take my bathing suit top off. I started to panic and kicked him in the balls and pushed him under water. Then I climbed out of the pool, fixed my bathing suit top and never told a soul. Just went in the house and acted like nothing happened. I would only ever kick a guy in the balls as self defense when I really feared for my safety. Not just playing around.

jul4a · Accepted Answer

Nope, I have not. Don't think I have actually ever hit or kicked a boy hurtfully, probably only playfully. I would only do so if someone was attacking or touching me in a way I was not okay with.
With the sister thing, it is not nice, but it's a normal part of being siblings.
With the girlfriend thing at middle school, I feel like she didn't necessarily wanted her behind to be slapped & she probably got mad - you didn't ask, and it was kind of taking 'advantage' of her. If a guy did that out of the blue to me I'd probably get pretty mad & maybe even do the same.

amabc · Answer

I never did, but I was raised in a strict enough way that I knew if I had, and my parents had found out, I'd be in really big trouble. I didn't reach the point where I was actually nice enough not to do it outside of self-defense just because it would be wrong until around high school sophomore year. So... it's possible if I'd known I'd get away with it that sometime before then I might have.

LindsayRB91rds · Answer

No, you can cause real damage doing that. I would do it in self defense but I would never do that unless my own safety was in question.

Kiwedin · Answer

I never have, nor have I ever had a desire to. I have done it accidentally though, by swinging my arms in a hallway or something like that lol.

pureplane · Answer

my motto is do unto others as you would like done to urself. i wouldn't want my non-existent balls to be kicked so i wouldt do it to others

Lilianna3009 · Answer

yes though he did say something very offensive to me first... i will not repeat it

ericareanne · Answer

hell yes still do the guy who sits next to me pissed me off all the time i hit and kick him and he returns the favour we leave with bruises

Ashleyc333 · Answer

I never have simply because I've never been in a situation where necessary. I've accidentally sacked guys by throwing stuff at them if that counts

RedMatch · Answer

I know i did once in primary when there was this one boy who was being a jerk to my friend. And i have threatened it to my boyfriend as a joke when he said something i found a bit too over the top.