If I knew that I would have had a girlfriend by now...
You've never had one?
Nope.I keep looking due to Hope, Faith and Spite.Hope, because that's how you move forward.Faith that God has something important planned for you.And Spite is me saying: F-You life! You don't get to win.I mean life may win, but only when I'm dead, and I'm not making it easy.Besides, love comes in many forms, such as friends and family.Just keep improving yourself and looking.
I don't see why you've always been single... I guess some people just aren't lucky in that department, and unfortunately we are those people.
No, to hell with thinking that.My being single is due to a lot of reasons, that I'm not really going to get into.However, it's important to try to identify why you're single and then work on improving yourself.Maybe it's because of your body, then work on improving that.Maybe it's because of shyness, or something similar. Then work on that.Or just the guys that you encounter are the wrong guys. In which case find places that have the guys that you want.And sometimes do something drastic, just to prove to yourself that you can, and that it's not as bad as it seems.Like my dad suggested at one point when I was having trouble finding a job, to back and become a teacher. But I hate speaking in groups. But I did it anyways, and hated every minute of it. But it helped me to grow accustomed to speaking out more.I forced myself to talk to girls I've been interested in (usually by finding excuses to.) I've asked a girl I was talking to for awhile to come to a party I was having.
Which, she said she was interested in, but never showed. (I still don't know if she was busy or not interested.)Recently I sent a letter to a girl I was interested in, but more than likely wasn't in me (mostly because of an age difference, but I'm assuming.) I partly did it because I think she may have been going through a hard time, but I could be wrong on that.I talked about myself and how I've never been in a relationship and whatnot. You know, things you don't tell people. Plus some other stuff.I sort of concluded it with saying that if I can tell her that, then she shouldn't have an excuse to do what she needs to do in life.Plus, I did it to prove to myself that I could tell someone that, even if just in writing. I have trouble opening up to people, so what better way then to do it to someone who isn't interested?I wanted to show myself that I could, and that it wouldn't end up bad.I mean, don't do something that drastic, probably, but keep trying.
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How do you plan on giving up?
stay single and not bother looking around for one tbh I've had enough of trying
Because I'll never be successful, and I'd rather spend my time thinking of other things... things that may give me a reason to be happy.
I would say for whatever has happened, let it go because hate only hurts you and not anyone else! I would also say that you work on yourself, whatever that dream man is, make sure your on the same standards you set for others! One day Mr. Right will come along! Maybe your just waiting for the right time. If you had the perfect man at the wrong time, it wouldn't work out! In this time of waiting, better yourself! Your profile says your 18-24 which is quite young! You still have plenty of time! Maybe now isn't the right time, and the right time will come when your ready for the man of your dreams!
I have nothing to hate. I'm just trying to figure out how to work on myself... but for me, not for a possible future guy.
Could you elaborate why there is little chance?
Little chance for what?
You said you have no chance of finding a guy
Well, it's just based on experience and the kind of person I am... I've never even kissed a guy and I'm 23 years old. I don't go out much at all, and I don't make friends easily.
You can always practice and change. You may not like the season your in, but that doesn't mean it'll stay the same forever. I mean you mind as well try? You can change yourself to be who you want!