I love people and I'm a really empathic person I don't hate men I love my father and all the male friends that I have. But when I meet a guy and I start to have interest in him I suddenly get really annoyed buy everything they do and I loose interest quickly. I've only loved one guy ( still do ) but I was like this before I met him but it wasn't this bad. Its like I want a guy but I don't want him and, if its like that I can't see myself having sex with someone I can't stand. I'll have a crush on a guy and then when its finally mutual I can't stand him.
How can I stop feeling like this?
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I dunno, got no direct answers for you. Rummaging through various things I've learned over time, I can see a couple that might be halfway useful:
-We can change how we think about things, but I don't think it's ever very wise to try and force yourself to feel a different way because you think it's how you *should* feel. Don't judge yourself for feeling something, judge yourself based on what you do about it.
-It's totally human to want something more when you can't have it. Solution there probably starts with self awareness.2