I’ve never gotten the “rave” some girls have over having kids. I’ve never felt the desire to have them, and I don’t think I ever will. It actually pisses me off when people expect me to have kids and then act like I’m crazy when I say I don’t want any.
Any other girls (or guys) that don’t want kids?
- I don’t want kids.56%(30)57%(64)Vote59%(34)
- I do want kids.37%(20)36%(40)Vote34%(20)
- I’m not sure yet.7%(4)7%(8)Vote7%(4)
Most Helpful Guy
If Im honest, I never wanted kids. I was too afraid to have them for several reasons so I was dead against it. I thought this would always be the way but when I hit 30 I decided otherwise. Call it cliché but I have 2 now and couldnt imagine life without them. I believe that if you dont want kids, you won't have them. But that said I also velieve that some people aren't ready for kids and must reach a point in their life when they are. Until that point is reached, you will always feel like you dont want them. It may click one day, it may not but its your choice at the end of the day. Peer pressure is pathetic. Having kids because people say you should or because you see everyone else doing it is a bad reason to want or have them. I can understand why it pisses you off. I found myself constantly amused when people couldnt accept my refusal of wanting kids. Its not a law. It doesn't make me weird or stupid.2
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Most Helpful Girl
I want kids, but I 100% understand people not wanting kids. Kids are a lot of hard work and require a lot of tolerance.0