When he says I love you during sex?

Does he mean it if he looks you in the eyes?

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  • 1. Maybe. No one knows... Since this combination of words (I, Love, You) is probably the most manipulative of all combinations.
    2. If you know the right timing and the right woman to tell her that...
    You could easily stimulate her more, thus creating a better "sex".
    Women love to hear that.. I personally said that hundreds of times.. It always creates a "great" moment where women could be "closer" to an orgasm. Funny thing is that most of them play the game, and give themselves to the "Love scene". After the sex they are pretty much aware to the fact that it was just a moment of passion, nothing more.
    Tell them these 3 simple words on the right moment.. and they will never forget you. Regardless of the fact that you dont love them.

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  • only time will tell. can't say yes or no bc there's no ay of knowing. sometimes it means i love this feeling, it an also be a rev elation that he's not feeling inhibited saying bc he's high on sex chemicals. who knows.

    does it really matter? i mean if things are going ell meaning it or not won't change that-likewise if things fall apart it won't matter if he 'meant' it.

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What Guys Said 44

  • Yes he means it. Guys are not verbal. They are - as a general rule - lousy about talking about their feelings. If he said he loved you, he probably means it. Indeed, having sex with you probably made him feel safe enough to say it.

    There is a rule in evolutionary psychology. "For a woman, they won't have sex until they think there is love. For a man, there is no love until there is sex." I'll spare you all the evolutionary, biological and psychological reasons for this, but it is very real.

    Now it is not impossible that, if he said it while having an orgasm that it could have been a verbal reaction to the heightened excitement. Only you were there and can know for sure. Also, sometimes a man will say it to get sex. (You know him better than anyone else. Is he that kind of a guy?)

    However, the way you (very briefly) described the situation, it sounds to me like it was heartfelt. Certainly there is enough to suggest that you can give him the benefit of the doubt. Sex is important to a man in a different way than it is for women and your sharing yourself with him probably gave him the confidence to say what he was thinking.

    A few other signs if he loves you: If he is doing little favors and chores for you. (He may not SAY I love you very much. Guys are not verbal. He may DO a lot of I love you in the form of chores and gifts. Oh and the more you praise him, the more he will do.) If he has you meet his friends and family, that is a big sign. If he holds your hand in public and does other PDA. He may, depending on the kind of guy he is, do some, none or all of these things.

    Still, as I say, I think based on what you described, that he deserves the benefit of the doubt.

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  • I would think so, is he your boyfriend or just a hook up

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    • My ex we had started dating again after a few years of chasing after me

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    • Yes, we always had a close friendship though

    • Then I think he probably means it, now if he only said it during sex and hasn't said it since then yes thats a problem

  • Yea he totally mean it, because he can't control himself while he's in sex!

    I did it before by the way lol! Was my first time to tell my girlfriend that I love her lol!

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  • If he says it after, he probably means it as he's shot his load.
    We dont like to do 'cuddles' after sex, we like to sleep or read a book or watch Rugby or whatever, but it's a price we know we have to pay to get laid, it's just a question of working out how long we have to cuddle for, before we can casually reach for the book, or mention that there's a good film on. Doesn't mean we don't love you, just different hormones.

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  • I remember once i was with my girlfriend and inside my self i was annoyed of having sex every day she asked do u love me i could look inside her eyes and love u for ever all words u can hear to make u falla liike hotchoclatte inside my self i hated this moment cuz i control het feelings with my eysn cold voice so answer is no not necesary to be

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  • Never believe an I love you, during sex. A guy's penis head has taken over, and many guys will say all kinds of things that he won't say otherwise.

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  • Love can be spotted by acts not by words, love is when someone gives to you for your own goodness without really expecting something back

    Love is a word so trivially used these times...

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  • Are you married/in a relationship/dating but not official/ something else, to be honest I think it might depend on the context and how long you have been having sex.

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  • Shouldn't you have made sure loved you before you had sex?

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  • I mean Virgin here but I think it’s the pleasure that makes people say it like girls call guys daddy which I don’t even know why that’s a thing

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  • He might be confusing love with lust. For men, the line is dangerously thin.

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  • Yes he loves you. He's opening up to you, letting you know that to him, sex is a virtue to have with you.

    Hopefully.

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  • Aww that's sweet. He loves you. Did you tell him "you too" ?

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  • I honestly wouldn't believe it in the act of sex unless he's said and proven it beforehand

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  • For me, the intoxicating effects of sex are more powerful than those of drugs and alcohol. But it doesn't make me willfully deceptive or destructive in any way. If that's how I said it first, I'd most likely mean it to some extent. I may not be 100% confident to say it otherwise, or necessarily even ready to risk that level of rejection. So, if this is not hypothetical; if you've experienced this yourself and you're not sure what to do next... do nothing differently. It could mean something. It could mean nothing. Either way, he's not ready to come to Jesus for you yet, but he's almost certainly not going anywhere. You've got him. Treat him right, and let him treat you right. He'll get there.

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  • I think only he knows the answer to that. Does he say it any other time?

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  • Yeah, I mean he probably wouldn't say it at all if he didn't mean it.

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  • As best as he can feel he does love you at that moment. I don;t say it unless I mean it.

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  • Sex becomes emotional feeling your inner being most likeky

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  • Sex is the most emotional point so you must believe him

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What Girls Said 10

  • During sex even if the girl looks ugly the guy will say I love you! Because he loves the fact that he is having sex and enjoying it.. after he is satisfied.. if he randomly looks at you in the eyes and say i love you... then ill consider that he might like me!

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  • Not always, just because someone is looking into your eyes while saying it does not mean it’s true, and if he only says it during sex that is not a good sign.

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  • Maybe but maybe not. Men lose all brain function when they get their pee pee wet.

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  • Sounds like a manipulation :( some men are cruel :(

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  • If he's said it before it means he loves you. If it's the first time it means he loves your pussy.

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  • he actually does love you, and is no using. You should feel lucky rn

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  • Yes.

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  • Take it as authentic. Unless it’s a ONS.

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  • =.= my friends with benefits said he wanted to marry me during sex

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  • No, he means it if he's hitting it doggy and can't see your face.
    Is this a serious question?

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