Why are girls so mean to each other?

Well they are not like how the guys is with each other.. why can’t we be like that?Why are girls so mean to each other?

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  • Men like to compete with each other but we embrace it and have fun with it and then clown the loser but it’s all in good fun. Women take this “am better than her attitude” and don’t compete in a healthy way. Dudes also ridicule each other less “if a guy sleeps with a ton of women” we ethier “celebrate it” or “don’t care and treat him equally regardless of the fact”. The majority of slut shaming comes from women trying to put down other women. We also tend to “BS” less than women on average. If we have a problem we talk about it and if a friend of ours looks like trash in an outfit we tell him. Women lie to each other about beauty and how beautiful they are but talk “sh*t” behind each other’s back. If we don’t like you it won’t be secret you will know, if a girl doesn’t like you she will put on a show and act like she likes you. That’s why females (not all mind you) tend to have more tension against each other due to all the fake behavior.

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  • Cause women are in competition with each other, they compete with each over men, careers, popularity, etc. because women want to stand out and be noticed within the crowd. Men compete to but they do it differently than women, women are more open about their competition then men are. It's just like in the jungle, lions will compete to have dominance so their offspring will be the ones that go on to carry on their legacy. It's a fight/drive to keep your dna on this planet so your generation is wiped out. It's just a subconcience thing that we do and don't notice, even if not to procreate.

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    • Of course the opposite sex is much nicer to each other than the same sex. We're nicer to the opposite sex cause we want to increase our chances of finding a partner.

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What Guys Said 15

  • You'd be surprised guys can be pretty brutal. Although girls will give each other shit we used to laugh how they'd get offended by like slag slut or hoe when us lads would be throwing each others bikes in rivers and shit

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  • Not possible, women are mean creature, its in their nature... but you can find men as good friends...
    P. S - JUST DO NOT RAPE INNOCENT MEN..

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  • My guess is because of being around other cut-throat people. Between guys we can joke with each other and throw out some easy insults or jokes about each others' characteristics that really aren't that bad and it's fine. Sometimes a line gets crossed though, where the insults get too realistic, too often to the point where it's actually hurtful. That line is hard to find, especially when you're around people who cross it all the time without realizing that it personally affected the person.

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  • Pfft guys who are friends will of course be friends, but it's not all rainbows and flower between all us guys that's for sure lol.

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  • I don't know the answer. But it does seem like girls are much more critical and hard on each other than guys are to other guys.

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  • A large difference in conflict solving is that males typically are stronger meaning that an instigated conflict would render more harm to each other and thusly weaken the group

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  • Maybe it's because all of us have negative feelings for each other to some extent, but guys are the only ones who embrace that. Girls are always super supportive of each other and they only say mean stuff when they're trying to be mean. Guys turn negative feelings into friendly banter and we even use it to become closer to one another.

    Guys say the downright cruelest things you'll ever hear to each other. The difference is that we normally only say it if it's true. In my experience girls only rea9say anything mean when they're trying to be

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  • Maybe they are jealous with each other... the question here is "Are you?"

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  • all genders can be mean sometimes men want to make fun of other

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  • They have some issues
    I don't know what is it

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  • Girls are about competition with each other

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  • Competition

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  • Jealousy and competition

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  • Nowadays , much meaner towards males , than fellow females , if anything , there is a much stronger inter female gender solidarity , which is absent in males. Women value other women much more than men , mainly due to endless anti male propaganda planting the seeds of misandry in the minds of girls / women. Women always bash " their man " behind his back !! All a man is , to a woman , is just a mere utility , nothing more.

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  • the same reason men are assholes to other men

    COMPETITION. it's all about getting the girl, right? Who can get her first and if that takes beating someone up, that's what "alphas" think, gets her

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    • Hahaha yes. But they don’t mentally make you feel bad tho. That’s the killing part

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    • right though?

    • No I was being sarcastic. Men can be assholes for sure, however when it comes to spitefulness I can only comment on what I've seen, I lived in Sydney for a year in a house share dominated by women and I honestly couldn't believe how they treated their "friends". I would literally come home to people crying on the stairs because they had basically been bullied. Never again

What Girls Said 3

  • Because they're insecure creatures and they can't keep it to themselves

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  • It's the just the way we are. It will always be like that.

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  • I don’t know but I don’t associate with those type of girls tbh they’re just jealous and insecure about themselves why would you wanna be around people like that anywsys haha just be you and you’ll meet people who are nice friendly chill and stuff!

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