In the other question asking about if shyness is a turn off a few girls say yes and also that they want the guy to take initiative and show they like her...
well why can't it be the other way around? That the girl has to show the guy she’s really serious about him? Seems like a double standard in my opinion
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i feel like because in the media, there's no such thing as a truly "ugly girl", therefore any woman is 10/10 hands-down gorgeous and yet guys can still be seen as butt-ugly. this imbalance i think makes it seem like bc the woman is beautiful, the man is automatically not as attractive as the female and the implication is that the female can get any guy she wants, so the guy needs to prove he is worthy of her for her to see that he loves her (sorry if this didn't make sense or is phrased weirdly, i hope u get what im trying to say)
i dont believe any of this (what i just stated), but this is what i feel like has been instilled in the media (movies and such). i, too, have wondered this as well tho. i remember asking my older brother a while ago why it seems like guys are always friendzoned and girls never are