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In response to your update: Everyone, not just women, should be treated with respect. Undeniably, women should be respected for bringing life, but men also should be respected for what they do to support and protect the family. I value this kind of mutual respecr because men dont understand the pain of womanhood and women dont fully know the troubles of being a man either.
In response to your question, i really dont know. Its kind of hypocritical, come to think of it. Seems like something @cutiebytheshore would do. Its wrong because relationships and dating is, ultimately, "im gonna do this for you not because i want you to do something for me, but because i just want to", but these feminists are turning it into "Youll do this for me because im a woman, you are a man, and women are better than men" , which, from what i see, is a really misandristic way to treat people. They feel entitled, somehow.
You do know how babies are produced right? It takes too. Without men there would be no families either. Both sexes should be treated equally and with respect. I hate how so many women these days are so entitled and think that they deserve more then they give. Lots of women complthat there are no good men, well the problem is there aren't many good women left. If you want to be treated chivalrously you have to treat the guys similarly. Men were chivalrous in the past because they actually got something out of it, now 9 times out of ten they dont
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I personally don't see why chivalry is not seen in par with respect. I think chivalry should be conducted by both Individuals but obviously in different ways. Guys tend to show their strength or ability to protect/keep a girl safe, and girls tend to show it in their attention to detail, accepting such gestures of kindness with kindness and a smile, and reciprocating the gestures that she can (like sharing food, a scarf, umbrella etc)
But unfortunately, chivalry doesn't always mean equality in how you view the opposite sex. Some guys offer chivalry because they actually think the girl is physically weak and can't even open a door for herself. She doesn't allow you to open a door for her only to let you make fun of how girls are weak and can't open doors. If you have chivalry in actions you should also have chivalry in speech... and if you don't respect the fact that a girl is built differently or that you just want to be polite and keep the door open for her, then don't do it. It's better for her to see for herself who you really are, and don't take it just to charm her. I hate fake personalities, and I hate fake chivalry the most
I stand for what original feminist fought for which was equal rights to work, vote, and own property. But not today's men hating I won't depend on a man feminazis. We as women have the most important job in the world which was raising the future and men had the most important job of protecting and providing for their family. Doesn't mean women couldn't work as long as it didn't take away from the most important thing. Their children. And it didn't mean men couldn't come home and help with the kids and house. It's ok that men and women became a little more equal in certain areas. But women took it to far and now men have followed in their foot steps. Instead of us being partners men and women have entered the battle of the sexes. Honestly I don't care if it's the man or woman that stays home with the kids to teach, supervise, and raise them. As long as they had one of their parents doing it. But instead they are being raised by day cares or just left unsupervised to become criminals. If you look at how much more violent and chaotic our world is compared to back when kids had a parent there to raise them right you would see how much this fight for total equality has and is ruining our world. Now know one wants to look weak by depending on anyone. But that's the point of finding a partner in life. We are suppose to find love and friendship with someone we trust enough to depend on each other emotionally and financially. There will be a time in life where everyone falls. But if we don't depend on each other there's no one to catch us. In my relationship both my man and I have fallen at different times and have had to depend on the other. But in the end it equals out. I love that he's chivalrous and that I as his woman do special things for him. And we don't expect it. We just do it out of love and kindness. I'm good at taking care if the kids more as he's good at fixing things that I have no clue or even the physical capacity to do. Everyone has damaged this world by taking equality to far and it's only getting worse.