Most Helpful Guys
When you think about them to the point where you ask questions about them like you did
How do you feel when you think about him or her, look at him or her and if you still see each other how do you feel on sight? If these questions or anything like what you would have for a crush then you have your answer
Most Helpful Girl
You always think about them, think about what would be different if you still were together, you compare every boy (or girl) to them, nothing feels special or you just feel really empty both when you see them and not.