""at 28 being a virgin is such a shame, your spouse will not be waiting for you, why would you for him and if your response is that you dont matter you do it for yourself to be pure or a present for him, that is very mysoginistic. And all this if you even get marries and you don´t become a frustrated 40yo virgin"
So what is the sameful part of being a virgin at 28?
That my spouse will not be waiting for me?
That me waiting for the right man is mysoginistic?
She said " If you EVEN get married"
I want to have children. So yes, I will get married. Pregnancy at 41 is dangerous. Although I'm sure she doesn't want to believe it. If I haven't had hookups then why would I want to settle down? or who would settle down with a girl who rejected men's offers to sex? 😂 What man would want a woman who have rejected other men? 😂 What man would want a woman who has wanted/ wants only him? 😁
Why do feminists say women can make any decisions they want about their bodies when it comes to promiscuity but judge women when it comes to celibacy?
Is it your body only when you decide who to fuck, but it's not your body when you decide not to fuck at all? Sorry for using the F word.
They say women don't need men, that women can be happy without men. They organize slut walks, say they are not asking for sex and then encourage casual sex with men by their posters.
Actually I'm not planning to lose it any time soon. So she better find a good reason to convince me otherwise.
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I wouldn't let the opinion of one self proclaimed feminist taint your views of all or most feminists.
Of the feminists I know personally, they would all support your decision to hold off on sex until you're married.
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This lady doesn't really sound like an actual feminist. An actual feminist would tell you that its your body and your choice. Do it up or dont do it up, its your personal choice and only really impacts you.