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This lady has points.
He's not a bad boy, he's just hot. And I'm not going to waste 8 minutes of my life watching that dumb blonde.
This lady has points.
there is a difference between bad boys and being manly. Women like manly men. Bad boys may exhibit manly qualities more than anice guy. That doesn't mean women are into assholes, they just like the bad boys for their manly qualities. Just be a real man and no sane woman will ever feel the need to look somewhere else.
They are asking for a broken heart and be treated like dirt. Basically, for lack of nicer terms, they are idiots.
My thoughts before watching the video:
Bad boys tend to be more confident and harder to get.
I don't think most people want someone submissive who will just give you everything you want without challenging you.
After watching the video:
I can't help agreeing with her, even if some of the things she says makes me a bit angry xD
Can't fight biology i guess, even if i want to lol
Try and take everything with a grain of salt. This could very well be just for views? Plus, her opinion is 1 out of 7.53 billion (as of 2017).
The emotional maturity of some people never grows above their childhood trauma triggers in relationships with others and themselves. Good luck. <3
This whole "bad boys" thing sounds mostly like a movie trope to me. Also, no one seems to really know what a bad boy even is exactly. Or at least everyone seems to have their own wishy-washy definition of it.
Nope am good with sober and nicer guys.. No drama pls
bad boys are interesting, exciting and fun to be with
i think it’s only natural for people to love bad boys
I think a lot of women want to change him.
Usually I'll lose interest in a guy when I found out that he is a trouble maker. Huge turn off. Even when I was a teen. Seeing a guy get in trouble is turn offing
None of my business whom someone is attracted to. In the end, it is entirely their own choice and it's no one's right to tell them to think differently.
Oh gawd what a blonde. She basically just described an bad boy as an alpha so she didn't need to address the negatives. I got like 4mins in and thats all it took to see through her BS. Simply, she's not willing to disparage the bad boy, she's just going to blabber on about nothing.
I don't have much opinions myself on the topic otherwise. But here are a few.
A lot of girls aren't very good, so they chase bad boys to avoid having to feel inadequate in the face of a good guy.
Some girls are so bad that they will scream away any man that allows her own bad self destructive behaviour to unfurl. So they date bad boys seeking abuse that keeps them contained from themselves.
People typically have inhereted some form of pathological attraction to abuse, including the bad boy persona, due to a long history of learnt helplessness developed throughout childhood. The history of childhood is unimaginably awful. To find acceptence and avoid abandonment, people developed mechanisms to appease abusers through sexual lusts, in order to save themselves. Its likely a genetic inheretence from its wide spread practice in the past now.
On that last note, from a psychological angle, BDSM is fascinating in that way, the fact that people actively seek torment and abuse in substitution of love. And how it seems so pervasive in people that haven't really even had conventional abuses to relate to.
there's also the cross over of alpha in there too as she eluded to.
But i think that covers most aspects
not sure the women watched the video...
4:00 to 4:10 yes
4:35 to 5 - yes
in general, sounds right.
and the other side of this is... I think men may have become weaker. trained by mom to be nice... role changes over time, lack of good bonding with other men doing men stuff, I think some of us are not looking good to women emotionally.
girls call abd boys guys that are hot tall handsome
those are abd boys for her
nice guys are short skinny or fat dudes
just to make u realize what u hear
it has nothing to do with personality most of the time - it doesn't mean u gotta beat up few random other dudes on the street
Every time I see a girls myTake about their little “bad boys” it’s always nothing more than these fantasties from movies and it’s never complete without pictures of very attractive pretty boy wearing a leather jacket and dressed like a biker gang he most likely wouldn’t be accepted into
in a nutshell it’s just hot guys wearing leather and some illusion plastered onto them
The Whole bad boy scene is damn joke, really? what is this a shitty 80's movie or fifty shades of grey or whatever? Actually get out there and find new people to date, not the painted fantasy you pictured in ya head, shit's never gonna appear no matter how much ya pray
Never actually seen or experienced this in real life, the girl going for the bad guy is usually because the girl is a mix of damaged and naive so you should be thanking the bad boys for taking the broken girls if you think about it
Lmao and here we go again
100th post on how girls are attracted to bad boys aka insecure kiddos
I'm a bad boy. I kicked a puppy off a cliff and it landed on an old lady and killed her. I just lol'd and smoked a blunt. Or some shit like that...
heard it once, know it for a life time.
girls love drama that's why they go for the criminals.
even when they are abused and have been broken they still go back to the convict.
Women are broken. The instinct that saw humans through the earlt stages don't apply now.
Since I went mgtow and stop caring about women they can't get enough. What kind of fucked up shit is that?
Each to their own but when one desires to shift gear its normally the woman trying to tame the bad boy and this never works they met them like that so receive them for who they was to begin with
Well I kind of am a bad boy, except the productive and healthy kind... so I like women's natural attraction to bad boys.
It means they were sexualized too early, they began forming their sexuality at too immature an age.
It's not always caused by actual sexual abuse, either. Innocence can be lost innocently too. Just watching the wrong pop music videos or the wrong drama show can cause girls to start having sexual thoughts too old for them at too young an age. It creates a very insidious form of arrested development, a part of them can never leave behind that childhood version of themselves because they quite literally never finished their character arc, they never finished forming their childhood personality.
But in cases where there was sexual abuse, then you tend to see this behavior in a much more aggressive form, it can be very disturbing how self-destructive it can make someone and how destructive to others as well. Very terrible.
I'm not gonna watch the video.
Women don't like bad boys as a whole, but they tend to be attracted to the confidence and to their looks. But women, after getting to know these guys, tend to avoid them when it comes to relationships. No one wants a bad boy to get serious with, they're just for hookups, because it's just purely based on sexual instincts. Same reason why men are attracted to hoes, cause they tend to be more confident and good looking, but no man wants to get serious with them, since they're not relationship material.
If we're talking about girls, it's normal to see them gravitate to bad boys, because at that age, superficiality and emotions are more important than rationality. When they mature, they put more importance on brains and ambition than on looks and sweet talk.
women want what's exciting and challenging. not those boring ass nice guys.
young women love bad boys , mature women love wise men
Deep down girls want a good guy with the looks of a bad boy
Tbh, my definition of a bad boy is that play you around.
This is all obvious stuff.
I wanna give that blonde in the video a facial
Immature, delusional, and self-destructive
they need to realize that bad boy are clowns
Women are insane.
They will pay the cost
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