I always say: "men value beauty and fertility". "women value status".
Status is defined as the characteristics that determine a man's status among men (career, desirability among women, charisma, leader of his male pack, income, etc).
Each girl is attracted to certain body types. Like some guys like big boobs, other small ones or average sized, or the booty size or... So do girls like nerdy thin boys, others like the dad bod, some the slightly athletic, other fully muscular...
Yes, to a degree. It's all part of the package. Chemistry. Voice. Face. Body. It all combines to lead to physical attraction. No one thing is a deal breaker to me. Personality most of all, but cannot rule out the physical.
You have abs too, even though they are not visible. It is just that they aren't toned enough. It's upto you on how you want them to be 😄.
Aur vese bhi abs tw bonus hai mere liye 😂, mein tw pull ups karta tha biceps ke liye for more strength, stomach par load pada tw abs apne aap hi aa gaye.
Well, physical attraction plays a big part, but when someone (be it girl or guy) is enamored or in love with someone, they will always be attractive to them.
My girlfriend is a lot more attractive than me and I don't honestly understand what she sees in me physically, yet she's attracted to me, both physically and emotionally.
The second I became jacked my Tinder matches went from hardly nothing to 800+ with nothing but girls wanting to hook up where as the majority were actually hot. Lol @ anyone who thinks being jacked doesn't matter. You'll never know until you become jacked
It really depends on the girl. Many girls like athletic guys just like guys like toned girls but people differ anyway. My friend is into skinny/lanky guys, I am not into that at all, I'd rather date a chubby guy.
For me I’m not really into any “ripped” guys. I used to think that looks was all that mattered but now I really don’t care as long as the person makes me happy. Obesity/ over weight is a turn off however for me the guy doesn’t need to have the “model” body
I'd prefer a guy with good body but I've like guys without muscle also not fat or overweight etc. But as I train at the gym all the time thats why I tend to prefer guys who more sporty / gym etc. Similar goals so it's just natural.
Character is what matters The body can impress us for some short amount of time But if the guy is stupid or can't communicate and make an easy conversation with us then it doenst
I’m a pretty healthy person, I don’t have a 6 pack or veiny muscles, which I don’t find attractive so maybe that’s a good thing? I wouldn’t mind if a girl said I should eat excercise to get some if she wants them but they shouldn’t be pushy about it. Damn right I would go to the gym with her if she wanted it though :)
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To me, is like the first thing I notice in someone's appearance.
For me, it matters. I don't find any fat attractive. It's shallow, but it is how if is for me. He doesn't have to be super athletic. Guys who are not ripped, but are toned and like to exercise are the most attractive to me.
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In a general sense, no.
I always say: "men value beauty and fertility". "women value status".
Status is defined as the characteristics that determine a man's status among men (career, desirability among women, charisma, leader of his male pack, income, etc).
Bunch of lies.
The second rule I say, "Don't listen to what a women says, observe what she does".
Prime example. ⬆️
Not what she say, but interpret the reaction.
So that is why women rejected you? Because of your status? No. It’s because of your looks weirdo.
The only reason you say that dumb rule is because I’m probably the hundredth woman that has told you this. Smh.
lol, nice Cask23
Each girl is attracted to certain body types. Like some guys like big boobs, other small ones or average sized, or the booty size or...
So do girls like nerdy thin boys, others like the dad bod, some the slightly athletic, other fully muscular...
Yes, to a degree. It's all part of the package. Chemistry. Voice. Face. Body. It all combines to lead to physical attraction. No one thing is a deal breaker to me. Personality most of all, but cannot rule out the physical.
It's also a factor because my ex wanted me to have 6 pack and she made me enter a fitness class and workout for nearly 6 months
Lmaooo
Great pic you got there lmaoooooooooo
and If he takes care of himself and isn't severely overweight i'd still date
You perv🤣
just admiring beauty
I know for a fact that my abs haven't been able to get me too far. Moreover, I don't roam about shirtless 😂.
You have abs? Cool😂😛
I'm skinny as hell. Moreover, I'm not at all motivated to workout😂
You have abs too, even though they are not visible. It is just that they aren't toned enough. It's upto you on how you want them to be 😄.
Aur vese bhi abs tw bonus hai mere liye 😂, mein tw pull ups karta tha biceps ke liye for more strength, stomach par load pada tw abs apne aap hi aa gaye.
Bhai main toh chin up bhi nhi kr paunga. Latak jaaunga main. Chalta phirta kankaal hu main😂😂
Mein bhi koi pehelwan thodi hu 😂. Slim aur skinny ke beech mein hu. Phew! More inclined towards slim 😄.
Yes body is very important to me. I either like a lean body or a body with defined muscules. I do like 6 packs and as little fat as possible
Well, physical attraction plays a big part, but when someone (be it girl or guy) is enamored or in love with someone, they will always be attractive to them.
My girlfriend is a lot more attractive than me and I don't honestly understand what she sees in me physically, yet she's attracted to me, both physically and emotionally.
It depends on what you search for - character or appearance. I would prefer meek heart than a six pack.
what do you mean by meek heart? he is very giving and supportive? Would you be ok if he was easily hurt by your feelings?
Yep, supportive, good, kind, gentle, sensitive and etc
The second I became jacked my Tinder matches went from hardly nothing to 800+ with nothing but girls wanting to hook up where as the majority were actually hot. Lol @ anyone who thinks being jacked doesn't matter. You'll never know until you become jacked
It really depends on the girl. Many girls like athletic guys just like guys like toned girls but people differ anyway. My friend is into skinny/lanky guys, I am not into that at all, I'd rather date a chubby guy.
For me I’m not really into any “ripped” guys. I used to think that looks was all that mattered but now I really don’t care as long as the person makes me happy. Obesity/ over weight is a turn off however for me the guy doesn’t need to have the “model” body
I'd prefer a guy with good body but I've like guys without muscle also not fat or overweight etc.
But as I train at the gym all the time thats why I tend to prefer guys who more sporty / gym etc.
Similar goals so it's just natural.
Character is what matters
The body can impress us for some short amount of time But if the guy is stupid or can't communicate and make an easy conversation with us then it doenst
Of course we do.
The guy in the picture looks like he works in a gay strip club though. I'll pass.
For me it's more the personality that matters, sure I'd like some eye candy but it's not what's important for me :P
I’m a pretty healthy person, I don’t have a 6 pack or veiny muscles, which I don’t find attractive so maybe that’s a good thing? I wouldn’t mind if a girl said I should eat excercise to get some if she wants them but they shouldn’t be pushy about it. Damn right I would go to the gym with her if she wanted it though :)
To me, is like the first thing I notice in someone's appearance.
I love your cover pictur🤣🤣👌
Picture*****
For me, it matters. I don't find any fat attractive. It's shallow, but it is how if is for me. He doesn't have to be super athletic. Guys who are not ripped, but are toned and like to exercise are the most attractive to me.
As long as he's not obese nor fat, I don't care about it. Face is more important to me.
It's easier to change your body than your face.