Are women that difficult to understand?

I obviously think what men want is same thing with womenAre women that difficult to understand?

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  • Yes they are because females never want to just be direct oh God especially in dating everything is about being in direct and it's sooooo annoying like if your not interested just say so instead they wanna do all this extra shit like if you don't want something you don't just pretend it don't exist you say no thank you I feel like sometimes females forget how there social skills when it comes to dating

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  • The only time I said "do what you want" was when my at the time boyfreind had a drinking problem like blacking out drunk 4 times a week bad.
    On the weekdays I made him promise to not drink more than two drinks. But on the weekend could do what he wanted. Well that lasted a month.

    So I said do what you want and broke up with him

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  • I don’t think I’m hard to understand. I’m pretty open about what I want.

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  • yes and no. once you understand how a woman's mind works, how relationships work, then it is much easier to understand where they are coming from and how to respond and be successful with, or more successful. It takes some study and experience... there is a reason there are degree programs in womens studies:)!

    But if you don't understand them and think they are men with a few different body parts, they are a mystery and their behaviors are baffling, frustrating and a lot of men give up.

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  • The big difference between a man and woman, is that when a man says "do what you want," what he means is "I want to believe that you are going to act in a way that respects and honors my wishes, but I also want you to have free will." If a woman says "do what you want," what she means is "I've hinted or told you exactly what I want you to do many times now, but I want to seem like the perfect, laidback girlfriend, so you can't think I'm controlling you."

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  • They are because they change their minds.
    They live in the moment and they are emotional which is something I love about them, but some of them can be very inconsistent.
    That's difficult for men to grasp at times.

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  • No. Men want someone that makes them relaxed and they are able to trust without much effort. Women want a guy that passes every one of their myriad of shit tests and doesn't mind hew constantly intruding on him in order to find "red flags".

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  • Not on core issues or simply daily thought and feelings but the crazier or more emotional she is the harder it is to understand the motivations behind her actions

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  • I think men are a lot harder to understand but that’s probably because I’m a woman lol

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  • I think it's just hard to tell what level of straight forwardness women are. Some men are like this too. I feel like I have a problem understanding women, not because they're all confusing but because I can't tell which one is naturally being straight forward and honest with what she's saying or if she isn't saying what she really wants to say and is hoping I'll be able to understand her. Simply put im not good on picking up social cues and reading into things. So I find it harder to "understand" women because it seems like they're less direct than men are. And it's hard to tell when one is being direct and another isn't. So that's why it's "confusing"

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  • Yes, every woman has a unique mind and it can take a lifetime to learn how to fully understand them.

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  • I understand women more than I understand other men lol

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  • Girls are hard to understand can't tell what they want boys and girls are very different I've learned that over the years

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  • is what men want the same as what women want and if so why are there not a lot more happy couples?

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  • Ummm Yes, Girls brains are wired different from guys , A girl Will have a 1000 things racing in her head at all times where a guy doesn't have the ability to do that , There isn't a book big enough to understand women as for a guy it's not that complicated . To please a man all a girl has to do is walk over to him in sexy lingerie and hand him a beer and day meet me in bed when you are finished with your beer , A girl to be pleased has a list of chores that need done , needs her man to be a mind reader to know what gets her in the mood , so Yes the list goes on and on lol it's very difficult lol

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  • Some girls meets with same situation above but many don't...😊

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  • Sometimes my girl gets weird mood swings and I don't know why 😂

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  • Women can be so complicated. It's often impossible to understand them.

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  • Women are not too difficult to understand, one has to give time to understand them.

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  • Or are women usually the one's asking "what does it mean" to whatever men just do?

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    • Makes us confused what she's thinking why she would just ask that.

    • I don't think i understand you, what do you mean

    • Doesn't take a genius actually. Women are usually the one's asking "what does it mean" to whatever men just do. I'll give you examples.

      "He looked at me. What does it mean?" "He said I'm cute. What does it mean?" Which what confuses us.

      My response: "It mean's you're a potato (in a sarcastic tone)"

      I don't hear that from men.

  • Nope, most guys are just that dumb

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  • Not if you listen.

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  • Kind of yes

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  • yes and no on both sides

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  • no
    I recommend just not listening and doing whatever you want to them
    they are weak anyway

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