Most Helpful Guys
I can’t talk for other guys.. because it’s a very subjective thing. But for me, a girl will earn my respect if she:
1. Respects me and doesn’t take down about me.
2. Works just as hard as, if not harder than me.
3. Have her life together and in order. Can’t have a mess and bring it to my door.
4. Into working out and fitness. Taking care of herself is the best way to show she respects herself.
5. Make common sense decisions. Don’t pick fights and spend unnecessary money all the time.
6. Support whatever I need, but also don’t be afraid to tell me the truth. Even if it’s something I really think I’m good at and I’m not..
And last, be a freak in bed.. if I’m not good at it, don’t gossip to your girl friends about that shit. Teach me.. and that way it will be better for both!
If a guy is like me he already respects you if you're just a good person. You don't have to be smart, you don't have to be talented or anything. Just don't be bad, that's all I need to respect a person because just being good is already a challenge in today's society.
Most Helpful Girls
Just be yourself honestly. I tried to fit into a guy's group once by faking interest in things they liked, and I acted like what I thought dudes act like. I was always on the back burner when i did that.
I eventually started acting like myself (and yes, I am a bit feminine), and they appreciated that much more. I was able to be their trusted female perspective, and they always include me when they're going out and doing things because they like having me around. Im also a really good wingman lol
You will earn the respect of people in general if you are true to yourself, do not lower your standards, if you are a responsible person and you are kind to those who do you good.