Why do women wear sexually provocative clothing, and become shocked and offended when they receive sexual attention?

Lets use some common sense here. If a person (male/female) wears clothing specifically designed to accentuate and showcase their sexual assets, then people are going to look at you in a sexual way. I don't know why this is so hard from some feminist to grasp, but it's just truly ridiculous to me that people can't even recognize that.

It would be really nice if we lived in a perfect world where guys don't grope girls dressed like this, but we don't. I believe that a girl should be able to wear whatever she likes, and not get sexually assaulted. But again, we don't like in a world like that.

It's the same concept of me parking an unlocked Mercedes in the hood with the keys in the ignition. If I do that, it's going to get stolen. Do I support car thieves? Absolutely not. Could I have used some common sense to prevent that situation from happening? Absolutely. And that is my point right there.

What if you're dressed like a gang member? Wouldn't it be expected that if you dress like this, then people will be intimidated by you? Of course. Are gang members out there trying to give everyone hugs asking about people's days? No. Did you just realize that people judge you based on how you carry yourself and how you dress?
Why do women wear sexually provocative clothing, and become shocked and offended when they receive sexual attention?




Cliff notes: If you really don't want sexual attention from strangers, then don't dress in a sexually provocative way. Women should take precaution in how they dress in certain areas to protect themselves.
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  • I disagree with you, mainly because you're missing the point. At the end of the day, it doesn't really have too much to do with how she's dressed. Women that do dress provocatively do want sexual attention because that's the entire point. However, women do so to attract the type of the men that they prefer and might get upset if they are approached by the type of men that they're not attracted to. For example, if an attractive woman dresses provocatively because she wants to attract the athletic-type of men in the room, but instead, the less attractive men with poor hygiene hit on her instead, she is likely to be offended by the attention that she is given. In other words, it all depends on how desirable the man is that gives her attention.

    If she doesn't like you, she doesn't like the attention you're giving her and wants you to stop looking at her body because you're not going to get it anyway. I'll say it again in a different way. She wants a much more appealing man to look at her instead. Think of it from a man's perspective. Let's say you hit the gym, got a nice body from working out, and use muscle shirts to emphasis your fitness, all to attract the women that are your type. Instead, you only find out most women that give you attention are the unattractive ones and/or possibly even drug addicts. I'm sure you would feel a certain type of way about that and not really want those particular type of women paying you attention. At the end of the day, that doesn't mean that you're going to stop wearing what you wear just because unattractive women pay you attention, but you still have your right to feel a certain way about it and react to it.

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    • How are you going to blame the guys for approaching with sexual intentions though? That guy that approaches may not be her type, but he didn’t know that before you approached.

  • It’s like when women are offended and creeped out by some guys hitting on them. If the guy is hot it’s flattering but if he’s unattractive its creepy. The same applies here. I’m not going to sit here and say I don’t dress to get attention, even though I think I dress fairly conservatively compared to a lot of other women. However, thanks to porn my usual look equates to the dirty school teacher. 🙄
    Male attention isn’t exactly the main goal though but I do enjoy male attention, ideally if he’s attractive or at least doesn’t make creepy fucking comments. Personally I’ve never understood why men or women get offended by someone finding them attractive, I mean my god how terrible is that, poor you. 🤦🏼‍♀️
    I do agree with that if you’re walking around in a mini skirt and tiny ass top then you’re probably looking for male approval and sexual attention. I don’t think it gives men the right to grope or make disgusting comments but, again, you’re right, that’s just the world we live in, like it or not.

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  • I totally agree here... I wouldn't walk through the neighborhood these guys in the pictures live in with all blue on, c walking and pretending to be a giant crab, unless I had a fucking death wish.

    If you live where people get groped... fucking expect to get groped and act accordingly. Not saying it's cool or okay to get groped, but it's going to happen where it's already a given that it happens there.

    Reality say fuck your feelings. lolz

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  • I don't know about other women, but I have experienced sexual attention even when I was dressed in a pair of jeans and a shirt, with no makeup may I add...

    It's not like I agree with sexual harrasment, but I know the difference between sexual harrasment and a petty comment. I've learned to shrug those comments off. It doesn't mean that one can't recieve sexual attention when dressed completelly decent.

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  • I think there’s a huge difference between sexual attention and assault.

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  • Let's see... Hmmm... Where was it... Ah yes! Here:

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  • Yeah I've seen girls wearing belly shirts and when I look they act surprised that I look and get mad. I'm a boy of course I'm gonna look. I agree girls should be able to wear whatever they want but don't get mad when a boy looks at you!

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  • If I ate an apple and carried one sometimes, does that turn me into an apple? Lol I might just like to eat apples sometimes. Just because girls dress sexy/revealing sometimes, it does not always imply poor sexual conduct. Smh

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    • No, but if you look like an apple, then people are going to think you’re an apple and therefore treat you like an apple.

    • Ok Tony The bolonga. Hope that's how you taste. And w just added mustard. Lol 😆

  • I do agree with you to the extent where how you carry yourself and how you dress will produce comments and looks. However it all really comes down to the situation of where I'm at as well. Eg. If I'm at the gym... I personally hate wearing workout leggings and prefer track shorts and will wear a workout bralette... I mean I can see males look, but God don't gawk and come over to me trying to make stupid small talk or worse offer to spot me just to get close - I will call the guy out and embarrass the crap out of him... let me be and leave me to do my routine. If I'm out with my group of girl friends and am dressed to head out to a bar, I get that in that environment I can receive sexual attention.

    Some guys just don't know how to access the situation.

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  • Because they want to create fake controversy for the sake of getting likes and bullshit on Facebook or whatever.

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  • Its👏not👏for👏you. worry👏about👏yourself 👏 because we aren't worried about you. stop being nosey

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    • Now I'm wondering if you just clapped every word in your real life too lmao. No, you don't have to be worried about my opinion, as I'm just a stranger on the internet. Just here to encourage discussion.

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    • I enjoy the eye candy, but that's not my point here lol

    • Then why complain? stop being a hypocrite

  • Dunno, I don't do that🤷

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  • Entitled narcissistic child syndrome.

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  • Doesn't apply to me. I don't get offended.

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  • I mean it doesn’t even matter what girls wear because they can still attract unwanted sexual attention. I was literally in Barcelona a few months ago and I was wearing flowy floral trousers and a t shirt and I was pushing my disabled mom in her wheelchair... still ended up getting groped by a guy as he walked past 😐

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  • Because they except men to not react as animals at the view of a little bit of skin. There's countries where people walk around nearly naked and they don't get harassed for it.

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  • Because they want sexual attention from specific men not every men but they don't expect all mens to give it to them.

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    • Strong username to boob ratio

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    • Turkish that's it.

    • how do i say nice boobs in turkish? 😂

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