I think that some problems that women have, men don’t think it’s a problem. This gives the appearance that we’re making things up to get attention but in reality women torment themselves about really minor things and they overthink a lot. I’d have a problem at work and I’d talk about it with my ex and he’d tell me I was being dramatic. The problem was real to me but trivial to him. I eventually just kept my thoughts to myself- but I can tell you it’s a $hitty way to live.
32% of women are not happy with their job, it is 42 of men, but gender equality makes sure it will be 42% for you guys as well. Welcome to the club.
Maybe you could learn something from your man who sees that problem as insignificant. I’m sure he can learn shit from you too. But if you ask me, a relationship isn’t about the two of you being identical twins, so when you have shit to cry about at work, he’s there for you to whine and complain to.No. His job is to help guide you and strengthen you. And same goes vice versa. Maybe you can help eachother in completely different ways, maybe he will never seek your help even though he probably needs it in some way, but point is, he’s not there to be your emotional punching bag. That’s bad for a relationship. You don’t burden your man with all of your trivial bullshit. You let him help you and strengthen you if anything. If you’re just gonna cry and be upset that he’s not crying with you, than you’re fucking up, not him.
Sorry I don’t agree. He’s not there to tell me how to feel or disregard my feelings as unimportant. He’s supposed to support me like I supported him with issues with his children and his ex wife. I’m glad he’s out of my life. I never cried over work issues it was an example to prove my point. I actually love my job and rarely have issues at work. I also am not a crier, you’re assuming things.
Never mind. You misunderstood me but it’s pointless anyways.
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Some ladies have attention issues and are constantly putting on shows. Some even play depressed for said attention so much till the point they actually start to create a real misery for them selves, creating a loop.I see lots of teens doing this both around my age but more so around the younger teen ages. Probably due to social media n shit.
There is this time in school this girl asked me to help her with studying for a subject. After having the first test I wasn't so good in it but meh I was average score wise so I suggested her to ask someone else who is better she insisted claiming that she never talked to that person and it would be awkward for her so I agreed later I found out from a friend that she scored the highest in the first test lmao.
Some like drama and others need the attention. A few create an issue in order to bring attention to an issue they really care about. Simply fact is everyone does it whether you're a man or woman, idealistic people don't survive in relationships for a reason
Yes. They definitely create problems for attention. I recently had a friendship destroyed by a girl who would encourage me to flirt with her, tell me that her boyfriend knew about our communications and was totally cool with it. There was absolutely no reason for her to pull this shit other than attention.
Only psychopaths do that. Men do it too. So this is not a gender thing. Just that women are 2x as likely to get away with it than men.
Some girls do it and other girls downplay their problems to get attention. For example - I knew a girl I'm no longer friends with - she would threaten suicide every week or day to prevent her boyfriend from breaking up with her - at the same time she was dirt poor and her parents were broke - and she spent tons of her parents money on things she didn't need because she wanted to trick her boyfriend into thinking she was rich so that he would view her as marriage material and not care that she didn't have any money of her own and only worked 8 hours a week.
Dang. I know a friend who got shunned by the group for threatening suicide to get a relationship with someone. Hope they can improve/you don't have to deal with them much.
To an extent, I think so. They get bored when things are going well and want to constantly test you. Personally I think that's unhealthy and I'm not willing to go along with it. If I want drama, I'll watch a movie or something.
wasn't aware y'all caught on to the tests🙈 tbh we are women though and sometimes just pissed and hormonal so we’re not testing, just not in good moods
@SexyAshh "tests" are kind of amusing to watch, it's like watching a toddler try to argue with a grown ass adult, like "oh look, they think it's working!" xDBeing straight up pissy/ dumping on one's partner out of "boredom" is a different ballgame altogether. Only weak-minded men stick around and put up with that for the long haul.*smart* men, however, realise there's a difference between "testy" and "pissy".
Well im a mix to every man and I've never had a problem. Most of them have been entrepeneurs or been in high powered positions. They definatly were NOT dumb, but men do stupid things to be with me. I can't blame them
there's a great meme, dudes just sitting on the couch watching tv or something and his girl is sitting there staring at him thinking "Look at him, minding his own business... GREAT time to start an argument!"
It depends on the girl. Those who are insecure might milk the problem and make it bigger then it actually is because they want to know if you care or not. If she's doing this all the time, then yeah, I'd say that's a problem, but honestly, it could very well come out of a place of worry that she may lose you, and having your attention reassures her, despite what she's doing to get it. Like I said though, it really depends on the girl.
I sometimes pretend to be annoyed as a joke but I think it's selfish to make your partner feel bad when he did nothing to actually upset you.
I know a girl that always gets into drama, and I avoid her like the plague. I have no problem being someone's prince, but I'm not going to be anyone's savior.
I did that as a teenager but outgrew it quickly. If I have to be melodramatic to get a man’s attention he’s not the one for me.
If a guy can't/ won't communicate about the *real* problems, then the girl will create "simulated" problems to try and force those lines of communication.In my last relationship, we had a pretty consistent policy of sharing the shit going on in our heads. So "simulated" drama was very low-- although towards the end of relationship she turned quite sour and started creating drama where none was needed. Though I think that was more her trying to sabotage the relationship so she had an excuse to break up. Women do strange shit in that time between realising they wanna break up and *actually* breaking up.But in a healthy, thriving relationship, where communication lines are open, then simulated drama tends to fizzle out before it can become cancerous and spread.
Some girls do it a lot more than othersi had to deal with one recently. Everything I said was turned on its head or taken super personally
Yes. I think women do it without realizing it. Its kind of a shit test.I think that women most women do it they aren't trying to be mean or cause any harm. It could just be that the relationship is going so smoothly that they are curious about what their man would be like handling some type of conflict.Its really more of a process of trying to get to know you. Trying to get a sense of your personality and what kind of man you are. It usually isn't trying to sabotage the relationship. Although someone women will do it on purpose to try to initiate a breakup without the pressure of being the on to dump you.
It kind stupid lie about your problems to someone to means you In need for some attention that not good
To be honest, I'm comfortable solving my own problems; so rarely, I bring that stuff up to my date. Don't know about other girls.
Funny how some peoples lives are so dramatic. This one girl know seems to constantly be followed by weird men. Which if anything she is the common denominator here 🤷♂️
Some do. Others just always have drama no matter what
I try not to, I personally don't like causing drama or being involved in it, but I can't speak for all girls. So, maybe sometimes because I know many girls that do that.
I don't know if it's fake. Conjured sure but not fake... It's like IT deliberately outputting stuff with bugs in order to give themselves work fixing them.
See... that shit right there... Smh. That's what uses up all of my data. The constant "updates".
sometimes it's important that they respond, because they are so inactive
Some people want attention so they do that I think it's stupid though
I don’t fake problems. What other girls are doing is wrong & they going to end up alone.
I tend to do this.I get bored so i will rock the boat and test the waters.I like some excitement
Nah, I'm me. Good and bad, I don't need the attention.
It's pathetic and immature. Ciao to the guys that don't like me for how I am.
Dodged a bullet guys. Any person on this planet who says "Take me how i am" is a piece of shit that doesn't accept mistakes and wants to grow as a person. So it's noones loss here baby.
Faking interest is to most females what the Roman salute is to a Nazi. A must do affair.
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That sounds tiring
I have witnessed both women and men do this
As the sun rises in the east.
There are weak cunts on both sides.
Yes sometimes, and guys do the same xD
Some guys like a damsel in distress.
Some people do and some don't
Probably a lot.
Being yourself is more than enough
Women love drama. In other news, water is wet.
Constantly in relationships
Eh, sometimes, usually nothing huge though. Once I broke my backpack just to talk to a guy (long story) small things like that basically. We won’t tell a guy we’re pregnant for attention or anything 😂😂
Omg, now I'm curious to know more about that backpack guy story :)was it worth it?
No, I want my backpack back 😂😂 he turned out to be a man whore, basically he chose this other girl over me, then cheated on her. And then got the girl he cheated with pregnant, then left her. And I don’t exactly remember why I broke my backpack, but I know I ended up talking to him way more after that.
That's a messy ending.RIP Backpack 2010 : ' (
The backpack story is just cute. I think all of us want to hear about it. tell us!
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