Bestfriend vs boyfriend? being replaced by a relationship?

my best friend got a boyfriend they've been together for like 7 months now and i haven't hung out with her since. we used to hang out every day but now she cancels our plans ever chance she gets to be with her boyfriend. i asked around and everyone told me i was being dramatic and that it was obvious that she would choose him over me because a boyfriend is more important. Is this normal? am I overreacting? what should I do, please give your opinion on the topic.
  • Talk to her again
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  • I've experienced the exact same thing about 11 years ago with my bestfriend. Now, they are married and we are still best friends to this day. So believe me, this doesn't have to be the end.
    A new relationship is always pretty exciting, but after some time the honeymoon is over and she'll have more time for you again. I know it's hard but do not give up on her.

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  • Get a new friend this girl is not cool. Even though she is dating someone she shouldn't treat you like that

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  • It is true that boy/girlfriends should out rank even the best of friends, but not every time. Good friends still make time for their friends. You are not overreacting here if she has completely dropped you for this guy every single time in the last 7 months. She is a shitty friend.

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  • They're in that super duper lovey dovey stage and only the two of them exist right now.
    Keep calling her, she'll come around.

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  • This is a common problem, actually. Suggest things you can all do together.

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  • You should talk to her about how u feel about this. Having an S. O does take up time.

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  • talk to her... if nothing move on.

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  • Damm thats why I chose my bestfriend over temporary relationship

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