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That only happens when a guy approaches me before I even noticed him. Which is pretty much never, lol. My peripheral vision is quite wide and I notice every man in it. And I know if I find him attractive or not the moment I lay my eyes on him, like within seconds. And that's usually before he notices me, I'm very fast and subtle. If I like what I see, I'll give off signs that I want him to talk to me. I'll be very, very obvious, it comes off naturally. So by that fact, I'd say I chose him before he chose me.
But you are right, yes. If he isn't coming to talk to me, I'd assume he's not interested and move on. I mean it depends on the situation, sometimes I make the first move, but he has to follow up, he has to be at least one step ahead of me in "flirting". To sum it up, yes I only flirt with men who either approach me first or ones who reciprocate very well.
Lol that why guys would glad trade places with girls. Image if people approach us and actually wanted sex from us!
Nah, totally disagree.Women choose handsome men that aren't interested in them all the time. When he ignores her, she'll just move on to another guy.But if your theory was correct then many unattractive guys would have no problem getting with beautiful women.
My theory holds up if those unattractive guys approach more women that attractive guys. It all boils down to if women are approaching guys they like, and everyone knows there not so they end up with guys that talk to them
OK... wellll... you have an interesting point. But don't you suspect that women give off signals that they want particular men to respond to? I've always been TOLD that women choose men... But if a woman gives a man a LOOK, isn't that an invitation? I think it HAS to go two ways.
I’m a decent looking guy, and women give me the look all the time, but I’m also shy, so she won’t end up with me, we can’t expect people to do something we ourselves would never do, that just isn’t fair. Which is why men and women will never be equal.
Women and men are equivalent, but they're different. They're not "equal." But, Chris, maybe there is a woman who you'd respond to who gave you "the look," because the attractiveness quotient was unusual. However, you're stating how you act around women, not how all or some men and women choose each other. The choosing may end up being more equal than you think...
I’m just telling you what my experience with women was
I get that. However, I think some choosing is also subliminal. It took me a long time to figure out some of the reasons I chose who I chosek and it surprising when I looked back on it. I don't think it's black and white.
Not exactly. If a woman isn’t directly asking a guy out, she’ll give him hints that she’s interested, dress well around him, and make herself more appealing and attractive to him. She can pick him and nudge him in the direction of picking her too.
If a guy is shy no amount of make up or dressing half naked is gonna make him develop the confidence to talk to you. Wouldn’t you agree?
I guess so. A lot of women seem to prefer outgoing guys though.
Even though there not out going themselves
Yes, sometimes opposites attract. I don’t want to be with someone shy because I’m already shy. I want someone to balance me out.
I’ve heard that a million times before, but more people are getting divorced now than every so no one knows how to solve it
Yeah pretty much.
Do men really choose? Or just follow their dick?
Yup if he like me that an upvote there
For me yea
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