Think this girl I know got her nipple pierced but not sure and its driving me crazy?

Question

I've always kind of had a thing for this girl , she has a job as a server at a bar and I admit that I often check her out but she's always been cool with that and for the most part enjoys the attention.

but something weird happened the other night , I had seen her a few times and everything was normal. later at night when I was sitting at the bar , I noticed her boobs were really tight against her top and it appeared that she had her left nipple pierced , wasn't able to get a clear look at the right one. but pretty sure I saw something in that area which definity could of been a nipple ring/barbell.

but after that she acted really weird , pretended to be busy to avoid me and acted like I had seen something I wasn't suppose to. not the way she'd normally act if I had checked her out

and I'm unable to think of any reasonable explanation to explain this other than she in fact does have a nipple piercing , no way what I saw was part of a bra or hard nipple

but than I'm not sure I believe that she really has a nipple piercing but maybe she's the type as she has some other piercings in her ear and belly , being a 20 something party girl those sort of piercings can actually be rather common among that age group so maybe its possible she really has one , she also has really nice boobs and always been very open about them , she likes to show them off or do dances near the bar

but I'm unable to verify things as i can't find any pictures online of her which would clearly show that area and my curiosity is now driving me crazy

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also realise too perhaps its none of my business and she got it for her own pleasure and only shows it to guys that she's intimate with and maybe doesn't want everyone in town to know

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it turns out there is more than 1 pierced nipple , found out her sister also recently got one , it appears they both got them pierced recently and didn't want me to find out but I did anyways , so no mystery just not of pierced nipples on these girls

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i just found a picture online , its not of her but is of a female co-worker of hers who i also though might of had pierced nipples , she is in a bikini and appears to actually have pierced nipples , is objects poking through her top which seem unnatural and are nipple rings , but fact she has them does not prove other girl does but makes it seem more likely that she did do that too

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found more evidence that would seem to indicate the younger sister really did get hers done , poking around online and found some social media pages of girls who worked with her at the restaurant last summer , 2 of these girls posted pictures which appear to show them with pierced nipples , 1 is 100 % real , other i'm 95% sure is also a piercing , so that would mean at least 4 of her co workers last summer had nipple piercings , she sure was at the local hot spot for nipple piercings locally

Answer 1

Grobmate | 182 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Xper 7

You're over 30 years old... you should know it's none of your business.

If you were sitting there staring at her tits then there's a good chance she has labeled you a creep.

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Asker

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I've checked her out all the time , she already knows that I'm crazy about her body , I never got the feeling that she had an issue with that. but I don't really know what her true feelings are and perhaps she just craves a lot of male attention. I'm thinking maybe she felt my interest in her nipples and my personal desire for her to have one pierced was maybe too intense sexually or crossed the line of simply casually checking her out the odd time
Grobmate

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I feel... that you need to see a specialist and a good one at that mate.
Asker

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this girl has driven me a little crazy during the time that I've know her ,

anyways I don't see why it would matter to her if I knew or didn't know about this piercing if she in fact does have it. considering her job and lifestyle it likely would of been revealed at some point anyways , there very easy to see when there wearing tight clothing. but I realise its her body and if she doesn't want to show it to me , than that's her choice

Answer 2

Asker

I've checked her out all the time , she already knows that I'm crazy about her body , I never got the feeling that she had an issue with that. but I don't really know what her true feelings are and perhaps she just craves a lot of male attention. I'm thinking maybe she felt my interest in her nipples and my personal desire for her to have one pierced was maybe too intense sexually or crossed the line of simply casually checking her out the odd time

Answer 3

Grobmate

I feel... that you need to see a specialist and a good one at that mate.

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Asker

this girl has driven me a little crazy during the time that I've know her ,

anyways I don't see why it would matter to her if I knew or didn't know about this piercing if she in fact does have it. considering her job and lifestyle it likely would of been revealed at some point anyways , there very easy to see when there wearing tight clothing. but I realise its her body and if she doesn't want to show it to me , than that's her choice

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Anonymous

let me put your mind at ease. She showed me and yes, they are indeed pierced. :D

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Asker

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forgot to mention after that incident one of the female bartenders touched her boobs. nipples , just playfully , why would she go for that specific area if there wasn't something there to touch? is what I'm thinking

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Asker

forgot to mention after that incident one of the female bartenders touched her boobs. nipples , just playfully , why would she go for that specific area if there wasn't something there to touch? is what I'm thinking

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LankyGerman

Xper 2

Maybe she felt uncomrtable about you seeing something that intermate. Maybe you should try and getting to know her first before you scope out her body jewlary.

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Asker

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I've known her for some time , we know each other fairly well. we've known each other through the bar scene for at least 5 or 6 years now. but I agree she felt uncomfortable that I saw something that intimate. and perhaps its best if I just don't obsess over it and maybe at some point she'll be more ready to show them off. I don't exactly understand why she pierced her nipple but its her body and it must be something she wanted.
LankyGerman

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Maybe she got it pierced for a dare and feels umcomfortable with it attrach to her nipple. Maybe say I like a girl with boob jelwary.
Asker

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nipple piercing has become popular here , definitely seen other girls with one. she has big boobs. I read online that sometimes girls with big boobs get them as a way to make there boobs there own. or it could be for personal pleasure or so she feels sexy. I'm not exactly sure why she didn't want me to know about it as surely she must of known I'd find out eventually
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LankyGerman

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Are you two romatically involved with eschother
Asker

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not necessary but often sexual tension between us , I've always wanted to be with her. a part of me wonders if she got them done for a guy , someone she's having sex with and perhaps just wants sex but I don't really know. generally when she gets a piercing its for her own enjoyment ( has her belly , tragus in ear ) they were just piercings she got cause she liked them
LankyGerman

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Different girls have different reasons
Asker

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I agree we don't really know her exact reason for this , its possible she had them for some time before and I just never noticed but I suspect there a recent addition
LankyGerman

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Does this waitress know you been oogling her breasts
Asker

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I've checked her out all the time , I admit maybe a little too obsessively but I just couldn't help myself , she mostly seemed ok with it and liked the attention , that's why I was so surprised at her reaction when I noticed what I think was her nipple piercing , which is why I felt there had to be something going on there , she just acted so weird all of a sudden
LankyGerman

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Just becareful Some girls might find you constantly staring at her boobs the wrong way and report it
Asker

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ok but my thinking was if she hasn't complained by now , she must not have an issue with my interest in her right?
LankyGerman

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Are you 100% its a piercing? She could just have really big nipples
Asker

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I've spent a lot of time trying to figure this one out , looked at some pictures online of actual pierced nipples. I'm 95 % it was a nipple piercing , what I saw appeared to be a barbell , about an inch or so long , she has big boobs so hard to tell where her nipples even be but appeared to be in the right spot , what else could it possibly be? she was wearing a cotton t shirt and bra. what else could be in that area?
Asker

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the only thing I could think of that it might otherwise be would of been part of a bra , perhaps an unusual custom one as she has big boobs but even then I can't see it ever having such a thing in that region , its usually fabric or padding right?
LankyGerman

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Fair eniugh
Asker

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its one of those things I might not be able to get official confirmation , I can only push my curiosity so far before I cross the line on this one. as we are talking about an intimate area on a young women.
Asker

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didn't see her yet but was at the place she works and took a deeper look at there new uniforms. is a couple other girls there with big boobs like hers. the cotton tops are very tight to the bra and boobs I noticed. which might help explain why I was seeing more than usual the other day. but I couldn't come up with any logical reason to explain what I saw other than she has a nipple pierced , doesn't appear to be any reason for there to be anything in that area based on what I saw with the other girls and there tops
LankyGerman

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Fair enough
Asker

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to explain the new tops are thin cotton t shirts , no reason for there to be anything else on them , there very tight to the body and firm against the bra
LankyGerman

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If your that interested in her just ask her nicely Hi I was just wondering are your nipples pierced?
Asker

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also if you check the instagram page perrie. littlemixer , the 5th picture shows a girl with a nipple piercing , the first picture looks very similar to what I saw , a non erect nipple with a barbell sort of just sitting on it , she also has on a tight cotton top but might not have a bra on
Asker

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I though about asking as a possible way to find but not sure I'd feel comfortable asking about such an intimate area. she likes to talk a lot so its possible she'll bring up the subject eventually. but my gut tells me she'll try and hide it , if she really did get it pierced. but it be hard to hide with those tops if there is something going on there
LankyGerman

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Lets do a little Role Play lol I'm the Girl, So Tom I notice you come here quite afternoon and when I serve you, you stare at my chest, is there something on your mind.
Asker

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I can't help but notice how pretty your eyes are today ( how could I possibly bring up the topic on her tits at her work ) although if it was late and if she had a few drinks in her. it might be less risky to bring up the topic
LankyGerman

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Why Thank you but you being staring at my chest, in pretically my left side. Has something caught your eye
Asker

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I'm not sure but lately I've been noticing girls with nipple piercings , and to be honest I always though they'd really suit you but never really though you'd be the type to get one unless I was wrong
LankyGerman

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Your not wrong I do have my left nipple pierced but only my left. Maybe we should get drink sometime and dicuss this further
Asker

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I don't know if she'd admit it that easily , what about reverse psychology? ( I actually did meet another girl who has her nipple pierced for sure as I saw it at the bar and on instagram ) maybe if I mention her she'd get jealous and mention if her nipple is pierced too? there has to be some way to get it out of her , without being a perv about it and staring at her left tit for the next month
LankyGerman

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Maybe say to her "Dont you hate when your ex gets some you like then follow up saying she just got her nipples pierced and she knows i love pierced nipples.
Asker

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it turns out its way more twisted than I realised , didn't get a confirmation for this girl but its possible she does , however it turns out there is another pierced nipple I didn't notice. her younger sister has her's pierced , saw it through a sweater clear as day , so maybe they got them done together? definitely some pierced nipples among them
Asker

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its more twisted than I could of ever envisioned , not exactly sure why they both suddenly got there nipples pierced. but the one didn't seem to mind when I was checking her out , she got more upset when she realised I had found out about the younger sisters new addition to her boob. so I'm not really sure what is going on here
LankyGerman

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Maybe you should ask if you can suck both their pieced nipples
Asker

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I know 2 sets of pierced nipples? I could barely deal with the though of one. there is also a 3rd older sister I'm kind of wondering if she has hers done too. the 3 of them have always got the same piercings around the same time , belly button , tragus , ears. so yeah there might be 3 pierced nipples
LankyGerman

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3 for the Price of One
LankyGerman

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Thanks for The MHO. Any updated on the sisters
Asker

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no updates but will update if anything comes up , checked the younger ones social media and no pictures of her nips , so perhaps she was trying to keep it low key , the new addition
Asker

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found some more evidence which seems to prove they both did in fact get pierced , the older one always used to go jogging through our area, I'd see her all the time. but a couple weeks ago she suddenly stopped for no apparent reason. but was reading pierced nipples cause irritation and pain especially for girls with big boobs if there running. which might explain why she stopped jogging and more proof that she really does have nipple piercings
Asker

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what other reason is there to explain why she suddenly had to stop jogging? she healthy and body is in great shape , no reason which makes sense in my view other than something changed which has to be the new piercings , which is why she took a break from running
LankyGerman

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Before I feel pregnant I had mine pireced and always but plasters on them to stop them rubbing, maybe her nipples are bigger and easily made sore.
LankyGerman

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Maybe it's time to pluck up some balls and just ask them? worse result is a slap.
Asker

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I don't know but if I was a detective I'd say all the evidence leads to one conclusion , she in fact did pierce her nipples.
- the weird freakish reaction when I saw something odd one night on her boob
- the fact her younger sister now has a nipple piercing
- her sudden change of routine avoiding certain activities , which I suspect is cause they'd irritate the nipple piercing
there doesn't seem to be any other conclusion other than she did actually get em done , but I doubt she'll ever show me , unless I get luck at the bar one night and a drunken her accidently allows them to be semi visible
LankyGerman

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Pluck up the courage and ask her out?
Asker

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I checked my calendar , the last time I saw her jogging was mid June , I remember the day cause I had been out biking the same day and had seen her go by our house. she could of also reduced her jogging due to her work being a lot busier during the summer. but I doubt she would of entirely given it up unless there was a reason why she had to and no choice for the time being , which I'm thinking must be pierced nipples. meaning she got them some point between mid June and mid July ( when I saw her at and though I saw something odd )
Asker

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I just can't think of any reason why she would of suddenly stopped jogging that makes sense , she has lots of free time in the morning due to her work schedule being later in the day. she has no health issues and body very fit. and in may /early June I saw her jogging a whole bunch of times , it doesn't make sense for her to suddenly give it up , one of the few reasons that makes sense is pierced nips

one possible way to get her to spill the beans might be ask her why she stopped jogging ( its a safer question as doesn't focus on her boobs specifically ) , maybe she'd admit its cause of the piercing or she could come up with another excuse
Asker

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I still haven't figured out if this girl really has one pierced or not , I tried to not obsess over it when I saw her at the bar and just casually checked her out a couple times but couldn't see anything I felt would be a piercing. usually I can spot them pretty easily. which is why I'm left wondering why can I not see anything?
now I'm wondering is she hiding it? saw there is a wiki online showing possible methods
https://www.wikihow.com/Hide-a-Nipple-Piercing
1- padded bra ( don't think she's wearing a bra that big , so seems doubtful , although know of another girl with pierced nips using this method to hide them at work )
2- pasties ( possible but never heard of girls doing this )
3- wear clothes with patterns ( no as she just has on a cotton top 1 colour )
4-throw on a jacket/robe ( she will often do this but not a new habit been doing it for a long time , wearing a small top then suddenly throws on a small jacket later at night )
5- outfit that creatively covers chest ( doesn't seem to fit )
6- conceal jewellery using smaller barbells ( possible although piercing be too new for new jewellery )
7-use piercing retainers ( cannot use until healed so not likely )
8- remove the jewellery entirely ( seem unlikely as they'd be too new )
LankyGerman

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Maybe you should just ask her
Asker

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its just frustrating , I asked this question 15 days ago and I still don't have a conclusive answer , my gut deals me something is up with her , although not 100 % sure she actually got them pierced ( but seems possible she'd try and hide them from me ) or if there is perhaps another reason to explain her behaviour but then why did it appear the sister has one? I'm at a brick wall without a new source of information , if I could find new pictures of them I might be able to figure it out but nothing out there or private
ZeoGravityGirl

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Sorry I haven't been on my old account Got closed down, it's @LankyGerman. Basically If your that curious about her breast jewallry ask her settley about it.
Asker

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@ZeoGravityGirl I think my intense interest in her breasts is maybe too intense for her and I'm not sure how I could get answers and resolve my curiosity without freaking her out once again. although over time its possible she becomes more open about having it pierced and perhaps will show it off a bit ( if she in fact really has one , which I'm still not sure of but my gut tells me she more than likely does )
ZeoGravityGirl

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Just ask her about her interests/fitness regime etc
Asker

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@ZeoGravityGirl I think that asking about her jogging might be a possible option , its safer and she knows that I saw her jogging. ask why she stopped? maybe she'd spill the beans and admit its cause of the piercings. or there is possible other reasons for why I haven't seen her. she could of changed locations/going to gym instead or been too busy with work. I don't know but it seems really weird that she's not jogging anymore and if she really got pierced it might be the reason
ZeoGravityGirl

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Exactly
Asker

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@ZeoGravityGirl although not sure it will be easy to get anything out of her. I'm also confused as to why I cannot see it more easily if its pierced but was looking through some pictures and came across one of a girl with big boobs and them pierced , and they sunk down a lot lower than one would think or realise. so its possible her nipples are so low I can't see them ( unlike girls with smaller boobs , they'd be much easier to notice ) she also doesn't seem to wear tight bras at work but rather more comfortable bras which allow her boobs to actually appear smaller as they sink down a bit
ZeoGravityGirl

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Just be Nice tò her and she mught open up.
Asker

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but also what it she really DOES NOT have them pierced , she must think I'm crazy and obsessed with pierced nipples and the idea she'd have them and wonder why on earth I'm so obsessed with 1 pair of boobs that being hers. but then why does it appear her sister has pierced nipples? and these sisters seem to do things together , I really think its highly possible they got them done together , I wish there was some way I could find out and just end my curiosity

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Asker

I've known her for some time , we know each other fairly well. we've known each other through the bar scene for at least 5 or 6 years now. but I agree she felt uncomfortable that I saw something that intimate. and perhaps its best if I just don't obsess over it and maybe at some point she'll be more ready to show them off. I don't exactly understand why she pierced her nipple but its her body and it must be something she wanted.

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LankyGerman

Maybe she got it pierced for a dare and feels umcomfortable with it attrach to her nipple. Maybe say I like a girl with boob jelwary.

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Asker

nipple piercing has become popular here , definitely seen other girls with one. she has big boobs. I read online that sometimes girls with big boobs get them as a way to make there boobs there own. or it could be for personal pleasure or so she feels sexy. I'm not exactly sure why she didn't want me to know about it as surely she must of known I'd find out eventually

Answer 11

LankyGerman

Are you two romatically involved with eschother

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Asker

not necessary but often sexual tension between us , I've always wanted to be with her. a part of me wonders if she got them done for a guy , someone she's having sex with and perhaps just wants sex but I don't really know. generally when she gets a piercing its for her own enjoyment ( has her belly , tragus in ear ) they were just piercings she got cause she liked them

Answer 13

LankyGerman

Different girls have different reasons

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Asker

I agree we don't really know her exact reason for this , its possible she had them for some time before and I just never noticed but I suspect there a recent addition

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LankyGerman

Does this waitress know you been oogling her breasts

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Asker

I've checked her out all the time , I admit maybe a little too obsessively but I just couldn't help myself , she mostly seemed ok with it and liked the attention , that's why I was so surprised at her reaction when I noticed what I think was her nipple piercing , which is why I felt there had to be something going on there , she just acted so weird all of a sudden

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LankyGerman

Just becareful Some girls might find you constantly staring at her boobs the wrong way and report it

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Asker

ok but my thinking was if she hasn't complained by now , she must not have an issue with my interest in her right?

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LankyGerman

Are you 100% its a piercing? She could just have really big nipples

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Asker

I've spent a lot of time trying to figure this one out , looked at some pictures online of actual pierced nipples. I'm 95 % it was a nipple piercing , what I saw appeared to be a barbell , about an inch or so long , she has big boobs so hard to tell where her nipples even be but appeared to be in the right spot , what else could it possibly be? she was wearing a cotton t shirt and bra. what else could be in that area?

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Asker

the only thing I could think of that it might otherwise be would of been part of a bra , perhaps an unusual custom one as she has big boobs but even then I can't see it ever having such a thing in that region , its usually fabric or padding right?

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LankyGerman

Fair eniugh

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Asker

its one of those things I might not be able to get official confirmation , I can only push my curiosity so far before I cross the line on this one. as we are talking about an intimate area on a young women.

Answer 24

Asker

didn't see her yet but was at the place she works and took a deeper look at there new uniforms. is a couple other girls there with big boobs like hers. the cotton tops are very tight to the bra and boobs I noticed. which might help explain why I was seeing more than usual the other day. but I couldn't come up with any logical reason to explain what I saw other than she has a nipple pierced , doesn't appear to be any reason for there to be anything in that area based on what I saw with the other girls and there tops

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LankyGerman

Fair enough

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Asker

to explain the new tops are thin cotton t shirts , no reason for there to be anything else on them , there very tight to the body and firm against the bra

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LankyGerman

If your that interested in her just ask her nicely Hi I was just wondering are your nipples pierced?

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Asker

also if you check the instagram page perrie. littlemixer , the 5th picture shows a girl with a nipple piercing , the first picture looks very similar to what I saw , a non erect nipple with a barbell sort of just sitting on it , she also has on a tight cotton top but might not have a bra on

Answer 29

Asker

I though about asking as a possible way to find but not sure I'd feel comfortable asking about such an intimate area. she likes to talk a lot so its possible she'll bring up the subject eventually. but my gut tells me she'll try and hide it , if she really did get it pierced. but it be hard to hide with those tops if there is something going on there

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LankyGerman

Lets do a little Role Play lol I'm the Girl, So Tom I notice you come here quite afternoon and when I serve you, you stare at my chest, is there something on your mind.

Answer 31

Asker

I can't help but notice how pretty your eyes are today ( how could I possibly bring up the topic on her tits at her work ) although if it was late and if she had a few drinks in her. it might be less risky to bring up the topic

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LankyGerman

Why Thank you but you being staring at my chest, in pretically my left side. Has something caught your eye

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Asker

I'm not sure but lately I've been noticing girls with nipple piercings , and to be honest I always though they'd really suit you but never really though you'd be the type to get one unless I was wrong

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LankyGerman

Your not wrong I do have my left nipple pierced but only my left. Maybe we should get drink sometime and dicuss this further

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Asker

I don't know if she'd admit it that easily , what about reverse psychology? ( I actually did meet another girl who has her nipple pierced for sure as I saw it at the bar and on instagram ) maybe if I mention her she'd get jealous and mention if her nipple is pierced too? there has to be some way to get it out of her , without being a perv about it and staring at her left tit for the next month

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LankyGerman

Maybe say to her "Dont you hate when your ex gets some you like then follow up saying she just got her nipples pierced and she knows i love pierced nipples.

Answer 37

Asker

it turns out its way more twisted than I realised , didn't get a confirmation for this girl but its possible she does , however it turns out there is another pierced nipple I didn't notice. her younger sister has her's pierced , saw it through a sweater clear as day , so maybe they got them done together? definitely some pierced nipples among them

Answer 38

Asker

its more twisted than I could of ever envisioned , not exactly sure why they both suddenly got there nipples pierced. but the one didn't seem to mind when I was checking her out , she got more upset when she realised I had found out about the younger sisters new addition to her boob. so I'm not really sure what is going on here

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LankyGerman

Maybe you should ask if you can suck both their pieced nipples

Answer 40

Asker

I know 2 sets of pierced nipples? I could barely deal with the though of one. there is also a 3rd older sister I'm kind of wondering if she has hers done too. the 3 of them have always got the same piercings around the same time , belly button , tragus , ears. so yeah there might be 3 pierced nipples

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LankyGerman

3 for the Price of One

Answer 42

LankyGerman

Thanks for The MHO. Any updated on the sisters

Answer 43

Asker

no updates but will update if anything comes up , checked the younger ones social media and no pictures of her nips , so perhaps she was trying to keep it low key , the new addition

Answer 44

Asker

found some more evidence which seems to prove they both did in fact get pierced , the older one always used to go jogging through our area, I'd see her all the time. but a couple weeks ago she suddenly stopped for no apparent reason. but was reading pierced nipples cause irritation and pain especially for girls with big boobs if there running. which might explain why she stopped jogging and more proof that she really does have nipple piercings

Answer 45

Asker

what other reason is there to explain why she suddenly had to stop jogging? she healthy and body is in great shape , no reason which makes sense in my view other than something changed which has to be the new piercings , which is why she took a break from running

Answer 46

LankyGerman

Before I feel pregnant I had mine pireced and always but plasters on them to stop them rubbing, maybe her nipples are bigger and easily made sore.

Answer 47

LankyGerman

Maybe it's time to pluck up some balls and just ask them? worse result is a slap.

Answer 48

Asker

I don't know but if I was a detective I'd say all the evidence leads to one conclusion , she in fact did pierce her nipples.
- the weird freakish reaction when I saw something odd one night on her boob
- the fact her younger sister now has a nipple piercing
- her sudden change of routine avoiding certain activities , which I suspect is cause they'd irritate the nipple piercing
there doesn't seem to be any other conclusion other than she did actually get em done , but I doubt she'll ever show me , unless I get luck at the bar one night and a drunken her accidently allows them to be semi visible

Answer 49

LankyGerman

Pluck up the courage and ask her out?

Answer 50

Asker

I checked my calendar , the last time I saw her jogging was mid June , I remember the day cause I had been out biking the same day and had seen her go by our house. she could of also reduced her jogging due to her work being a lot busier during the summer. but I doubt she would of entirely given it up unless there was a reason why she had to and no choice for the time being , which I'm thinking must be pierced nipples. meaning she got them some point between mid June and mid July ( when I saw her at and though I saw something odd )

Answer 51

Asker

I just can't think of any reason why she would of suddenly stopped jogging that makes sense , she has lots of free time in the morning due to her work schedule being later in the day. she has no health issues and body very fit. and in may /early June I saw her jogging a whole bunch of times , it doesn't make sense for her to suddenly give it up , one of the few reasons that makes sense is pierced nips

one possible way to get her to spill the beans might be ask her why she stopped jogging ( its a safer question as doesn't focus on her boobs specifically ) , maybe she'd admit its cause of the piercing or she could come up with another excuse

Answer 52

Asker

I still haven't figured out if this girl really has one pierced or not , I tried to not obsess over it when I saw her at the bar and just casually checked her out a couple times but couldn't see anything I felt would be a piercing. usually I can spot them pretty easily. which is why I'm left wondering why can I not see anything?
now I'm wondering is she hiding it? saw there is a wiki online showing possible methods
https://www.wikihow.com/Hide-a-Nipple-Piercing
1- padded bra ( don't think she's wearing a bra that big , so seems doubtful , although know of another girl with pierced nips using this method to hide them at work )
2- pasties ( possible but never heard of girls doing this )
3- wear clothes with patterns ( no as she just has on a cotton top 1 colour )
4-throw on a jacket/robe ( she will often do this but not a new habit been doing it for a long time , wearing a small top then suddenly throws on a small jacket later at night )
5- outfit that creatively covers chest ( doesn't seem to fit )
6- conceal jewellery using smaller barbells ( possible although piercing be too new for new jewellery )
7-use piercing retainers ( cannot use until healed so not likely )
8- remove the jewellery entirely ( seem unlikely as they'd be too new )

Answer 53

LankyGerman

Maybe you should just ask her

Answer 54

Asker

its just frustrating , I asked this question 15 days ago and I still don't have a conclusive answer , my gut deals me something is up with her , although not 100 % sure she actually got them pierced ( but seems possible she'd try and hide them from me ) or if there is perhaps another reason to explain her behaviour but then why did it appear the sister has one? I'm at a brick wall without a new source of information , if I could find new pictures of them I might be able to figure it out but nothing out there or private

Answer 55

ZeoGravityGirl

Sorry I haven't been on my old account Got closed down, it's @LankyGerman. Basically If your that curious about her breast jewallry ask her settley about it.

Answer 56

Asker

@ZeoGravityGirl I think my intense interest in her breasts is maybe too intense for her and I'm not sure how I could get answers and resolve my curiosity without freaking her out once again. although over time its possible she becomes more open about having it pierced and perhaps will show it off a bit ( if she in fact really has one , which I'm still not sure of but my gut tells me she more than likely does )

Answer 57

ZeoGravityGirl

Just ask her about her interests/fitness regime etc

Answer 58

Asker

@ZeoGravityGirl I think that asking about her jogging might be a possible option , its safer and she knows that I saw her jogging. ask why she stopped? maybe she'd spill the beans and admit its cause of the piercings. or there is possible other reasons for why I haven't seen her. she could of changed locations/going to gym instead or been too busy with work. I don't know but it seems really weird that she's not jogging anymore and if she really got pierced it might be the reason

Answer 59

ZeoGravityGirl

Exactly

Answer 60

Asker

@ZeoGravityGirl although not sure it will be easy to get anything out of her. I'm also confused as to why I cannot see it more easily if its pierced but was looking through some pictures and came across one of a girl with big boobs and them pierced , and they sunk down a lot lower than one would think or realise. so its possible her nipples are so low I can't see them ( unlike girls with smaller boobs , they'd be much easier to notice ) she also doesn't seem to wear tight bras at work but rather more comfortable bras which allow her boobs to actually appear smaller as they sink down a bit

Answer 61

ZeoGravityGirl

Just be Nice tò her and she mught open up.

Answer 62

Asker

but also what it she really DOES NOT have them pierced , she must think I'm crazy and obsessed with pierced nipples and the idea she'd have them and wonder why on earth I'm so obsessed with 1 pair of boobs that being hers. but then why does it appear her sister has pierced nipples? and these sisters seem to do things together , I really think its highly possible they got them done together , I wish there was some way I could find out and just end my curiosity

Answer 63

ZeoGravityGirl

Xper 1

I've been raking my brain How you could find out without aaking her or making her top wet. She knows your interested maybe Find a topic connected to it.

React

Asker

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I went through a lot of possible ideas too , considering she works as a server , wondered if maybe there'd be a way to " accidently spill a glass of water on her late at night " and that might reveal whats going on there or not but would have to look like an accident.
but agree that a topic connected to it might also be an option , if you could get her talking maybe she'd open up.
another possibility would be to talk to the younger sister , perhaps she'd open up about what went on and how her nipples suddenly became pierced. she must talk to people about them , who gets there nipples pierced to hide them? most younger people want people to know about them right?

I also looked online but could not find any new pictures of these 2 girls , even searched through instagram pictures tagged from our area and not one single pic of them , its like there pages and all friends pages are private , literally nothing I could view that would provide a quality pic of them
ZeoGravityGirl

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If you know her sisters have pieced nipples then ask her what she thinks of them having pierced nipples. Or Say Her figure looks lovely.
Asker

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I only saw the younger sisters nipple piercing once , that was almost 2 weeks ago and haven't seen her since. not sure the older one would be comfortable with me talking about her younger sister in such a way. but agree maybe there'd be a way to bring it up in a conversation without coming across as inapproiate , maybe say I noticed she's growing up and changing a lot and wondered what was going on with her?
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ZeoGravityGirl

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I never had a problem with Discussing my body if a male if they are genreal interested but if its creepy then I shut down
Asker

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I'm confused too cause it seem like both these girls would like the attention , the nipple piercings if real would in my view seem to be a cry for male attention specifically sexual attention. I'm not sure why they'd want to hide it from me specifically or what type of people they were hoping would notice
ZeoGravityGirl

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Maybe It was for a dare or something. I heard of camp fire stories of girls getting sensitive area pierced for a dare.
Asker

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who knows right? both these girls are also returning to school by sep 1 ( wasn't aware the older one was until recently as she had already graduated but now apparently going back for a short program ) so running out of time to get answers as to whats going on with them.

the piercings she got in the past ( belly , tragus , ears ) were all ones she personally wanted and seemed to like having. so if she got a nipple it have to be something she wanted and likes having , based on what I know about her
ZeoGravityGirl

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Maybe just ask. her, worse that could happen is a slap
Asker

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might be best to wait till her last day of work this summer , then if it goes badly I wouldn't see her again till Thanksgiving anyways.
part of the reason maybe I don't believe she really has pierced nips is that none of her co-workers or gf's have them , she'd be the only one at her work or in her circle of friends with one. she's also turning 24 in a few weeks but is still likely girls that age with them

the younger one a bit different her gf's and co workers , I know with certainly that 2 of her co-workers have pierced nips as I saw pictures online of them and at her age 20 , there'd definitely be girls in her circle of friends with them pierced as its a pretty common piercing for girls that age here at the moment

but I'd rarely see girls in there mid 20's with one , which is maybe why I still have doubts its real , but maybe not your typical 20 something , no real career yet , just a job in a pub , mostly drunk all the time and goes on trips to far away places so maybe she is the type? I've also noticed she's interested in tattoo's but appears to have none herself but does seem to notice when other people have one
ZeoGravityGirl

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Fair
Asker

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to explain further I know a lot of her gf's cause I meet them all at a bar here a couple summers ago , I came very close to dating the older sisters best friend at the time but then things never went anywhere and that whole group of girls got annoyed at me. she also told her gf's that I'd visit her at her work and checked her out a lot which annoyed them so the one I almost dated won't even speak to me anymore.

but I know for a fact none of these girls have pierced nips , most are starting careers now , one is a dental hygienist , another does make up professionally , they might of been type to get them when younger and wilder but not now.

so she'd be only girl in her friends group with a pierced nipple if she does in fact have one
ZeoGravityGirl

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Maybe Her nipples are just super stiff or her bra bends the nipples
Asker

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the bra she wears at work seems to be fairly loose , not tight or a large push up bra , it actually makes her boobs look smaller , if she wore a push up / tighter bra , it look like she had huge boobs at work , those things make girls with small boobs look large , I could only imagine how big hers appear with one.
I've never really seen her nipples specifically or even seen a picture of them to be honest , I've seen bikini pictures of her but there mostly from a distance or not clear enough to see anything.
ZeoGravityGirl

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Not sure what else to Suggest
Asker

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I had an odd though earlier today when out , realise its late , I was wondering if there background might play a role into there actions. I was always under the impression that these girls came from a religious family as she went to a catholic high school and public school. although I'm really unsure of the families exact religious views , they do seem to be a very close family. might that help to explain her behaviour? perhaps she's much more uncomfortable revealing it than other girls if she's from a religious background. although I doubt pierced nipples among religious girls are that common I'm sure it does happen especially now days as its such a common piercing , know that tattoo's and belly piercings are common among such girls. but if that is part of the reason for her behaviour it could prove even tougher to get answers as to whats going on.
LowSelfSteem

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If She is reglious and is unsure if she is allowed nipples pierced she might be reluctant to show it.
Asker

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@LowSelfSteem i don't think she herself is necessary religious but rather she is from a religious background and perhaps her family is still religious. she might feel that pierced nipples were too sexual to display publically but be ok with the idea of herself having one as long as its kept low profile? and mostly for self. I don't know just trying to find a way to reason her behaviour which might make sense based on what I know about her
Asker

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no joke but I think she might of left town or went on a trip someplace far away , she wasn't at work today , she's always there Friday night and nobody at her works even mentioned her or wanted to say anything to me about her , it was crazy , nobody would say anything about it. I also noticed her jetski which had been parked at the lake a couple days ago was suddenly gone and I saw her mother drive by the other day and she seemed upset. so it seems like something might of went down and my quest for answers may be bordering on impossible at this point
LowSelfSteem

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Maybe she went on holiday or went to blow of steam if she and her mum had a fight, Maybe ask someone at her work
Asker

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@LowSelfSteem I'm not really sure what is going on there , I get the feeling there might be something I'm not aware of family related. its possible she went away for the weekend but at her job they generally don't allow for time off when its most busy. and they were already short staffed this weekend as some of the other girls had left to attend a music festival. so not really sure how she could of got time off unless she also decided to go at the last minute ( but my understanding was she had no interest in going ) . I sense something Is definitely up with this girl
Asker

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@LowSelfSteem another aspect which might help to explain things , at there age 20 and 24 , there likely starting to explore there sexuality. they'd be past the quick drunken teenage sexual encounters late at night at a party. and actually starting to discover what they liked and learn more about there body and true sexual desires. which might help to explain why they suddenly got nipple piercings , it might be a sign they were exploring there own sexuality and felt that was an area they'd like to enhance and gain pleasure in , just a possible idea I had
LowSelfSteem

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True Maybe she is exploring her sexuality, She could of thought as she is quite busty a piecing would look good. Maybe she had prebooked the time off and the took the weekend off.
Asker

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@LowSelfSteem if she did get it pierced , a possible reason could be she's exploring her sexuality and though her boobs be a good area to focus on.
I looked online and cannot find any pictures of these girls , considering there both well known here its hard to believe there is nothing recent of them online , so cannot determine where they went or prove the existence of the piercings.
its possible she just went away for the weekend but have a gut feelings she's looking to leave for a longer period and might of went on a trip for the remainder of August.
if her and her sister are exploring there sexuality , I'd imagine there'd be some tension in there family at that age , its an awkward age to still be living at home , when your at the age where your having sex and such , perhaps the pierced nips were just too much ( for her and her family to handle ) and she may of decided she needed a change of scenery , I don't know just a though?
LowSelfSteem

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Maybe She went on a mission trip with her chruch because I have a few friends are regliois. Her work can't say no if its a chruch thing. because its her reglion, she might not be that reglious but it could be a family thing
Asker

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@LowSelfSteem I'm not aware of her going on any mission trips or being an active member of any local churches ( but she did attend catholic schools here ) , most of her trips have been to southeast asia/Australia ( her older sister got a job teaching at a school in that area and she went there a few times to visit her ) she might of went on a trip with her as she's off work now until school year returns in a few weeks. but have no idea where they would of went and unsure how she would of got time off work this time of year , its peak season where she works but if she simply could not work there at this time , they likely would of been understanding of her needs
LowSelfSteem

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I dont think employers can deny you time of for personal reasons like Mission Trips or Family events.
Asker

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@LowSelfSteem well true if she had a legitimate reason for leaving her job a few weeks early ( she would of likely left before sep 1 anyways as she was planning to return to school ) but perhaps she decided to leave sooner and went on a trip with older sister that she doesn't see much of. but something up with this girl ,
will post an update if I find out anything , but as I said her co-workers didn't seem to want to talk about her at all , the elephant in the room an understatement
LowSelfSteem

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Maybe they dont like it that she just left.
Asker

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@LowSelfSteem she was pretty well liked there so I'd imagine there' d be some of them who'd be upset if she in fact did leave early and isn't working there anymore. my last confirmed sighting of her anywhere was August 3, it was a Saturday night , she was at work and served me a couple times but seemed annoyed with me. I was at the pub on briefly on weds aug 7 and Friday aug 9th , she was nowhere to be seen. that night I picked up a vibe that something was up , likely to do with her but nobody wanted to talk about it.
if I find out anything i'll update , these days all she'd need was her passport and a plane ticket , show up at the airport and could literally be anywhere in the world rate now
Asker

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@LowSelfSteem not sure if I mentioned but we both lived in the same small town , late last night , like really late I happened to be driving home and drove by her family's home , her car was definitely not in the driveway and not sure when I saw it last. she would definitely had been home at that time of night if she was around here. so she has to be somewhere else , perhaps on a trip with sister? who knows but she's definitely not here
LowSelfSteem

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Maybe She went to visit her sister on a whim, If she hasn't seen her sister in a while then it could be that.
Asker

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@LowSelfSteem still have more to say about this 2 things I want to focus on , clearly she has left the area. the question is does it have anything to do with the nipple piercings? or did she and sister simply decide it was there only opportunity before school/work restarted they could do anything together? and what caused her to suddenly leave town? looking through my calendar I can't help but think something happened Wednesday or Thursday of last week which lead to her sudden departure , did someone have a breakdown? or anxiety attack. it was mid Thursday when I saw the mother driving and clearly rattled , so thinking she must of left that day
Asker

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@LowSelfSteem secondly do you think its possible she was feeling heat from other women because of her decision to get pierced nipples? being that she worked in a high profile position at a busy pub , surely she must of been aware some of the male customers would notice and get a sexual kick out of them. considering its a small town and a lot of these men have gf's or married , perhaps some of these women disliked her for this. I'd imagine in this town a lot would view a girl with such a piercing as a whore or sexual attention seeker type. and perhaps some of these women were upset there man noticed her boobs. and that there boobs were not nearly that sexy. its just a different angle I though might help to explain things , I can definitely think of a couple gf's who's bf's go to that pub that would of not been impressed if they noticed , and I got the feeling some of these guys were aware of what she had done , maybe she felt embarrassed by her actions and aware she wasn't liked by these women?
LowSelfSteem

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Could be
Asker

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@LowSelfSteem I just feel like there was more that went on there than I realised or that I'm missing something about her life and time at that pub. when I look back on everything that happened there , something just doesn't make sense. but a lot of her recent decisions don't make sense to me which I why I felt that she must of really got a nipple piercing , based on her recent behaviour.

i'll update if I find out anything , but fortunately going away this weekend so will not be at that pub this Friday so won't likely get answers in the immediate few days
Asker

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@LowSelfSteem was at the pub today and to my surprised she had returned ( although she did go somewhere on the weekend and wasn't here for a few days ) , I noticed she appeared to be wearing a different bra , maybe I'm not suppose to notice that but it seemed to provide more coverage/made her boobs look bigger and made it harder to see if she had pierced nipples or not , leading me to continue to wonder whats going on there? perhaps she's hiding something
LowSelfSteem

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Maybe she doesn't want people to know thier pierced.
Asker

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@LowSelfSteem I know that's what I'm thinking , she is back to hiding them or perhaps she was trying to hide them all along. who gets there nipples pierced so they can hide them from everyone? something about this has me confused. most girls with them here will wear a top that reveals them at least once or twice at the bar , usually its for attention in my view. but this girl just wanted them for herself and hides them , weird?
LowSelfSteem

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Maybe she was getting too much attention from People in the bar for her breasts and over the weekend decide to change her look little
Asker

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@LowSelfSteem I think that might of been the case and perhaps she didn't like sexual attention that was solely focused on such a thing , although I've never been able to verify with 100% certainty that she really had them pierced ( as previously mentioned ) but I do think there is a good chance she in fact did pierce at least 1 nipple , which is apparently more common than getting both done. its the only answer which really makes sense at this point
LowSelfSteem

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When I got mine done I wasn't super comfortable with guys knowing they were pierced as they always wanted to see.
Asker

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@LowSelfSteem I doubt any guy would ask directly to see them when she was at work , sure its a pub but I've never seen a girl who works there reveal her boobs and show men her tits. its not like there is any expectation for her to reveal them at work. but I agree she may have been uncomfortable that men who go there knew about them , when some of these guys might not of even knew her very well
Asker

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wanted to ask you another question , going to put you on the spot here. I've stated my though but wanted to know what you think?

do you think this girl actually has a nipple piercing? based on all that you've read so far? where do you stand 100 % she must , 90 % ? 50 % , zero chance its all in your head?
LowSelfSteem

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I'd say 50/50
Asker

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@LowSelfSteem I feel the same way and so confused , to be honest I've always liked nipple piercings and though for some time one would suit her , so a part of me wonders if I just wanted to think she had one to fulfil my fantasy.

but then I think back to a couple weeks ago , her younger sister definitely had a nipple piercing , I saw it clear as day , 100 % for sure that's what I saw and she freaked out afterwords , it had to be a nipple piercing. so if the sister for sure has one , it seems possible she might of also got one

and then why did she stop jogging suddenly this summer? I've never been able to explain that one or get a reason , if she really got em pierced it could be the reason

but overall just confused by her behaviour and unable to say for sure
Asker

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@LowSelfSteem another possibility too is that she " really " did have one in July but has since taken it out , its fairly common for girls to get trendy piercings like the nipple and decide after a month or so that it wasn't for them/ she didn't like the sexual attention or it gets infected etc and they simply take it out , its another though which came to mind
LowSelfSteem

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True
Asker

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@LowSelfSteem the reality is I suspected she " might " of had one in mid July , its now mid August , that's an entire month and she also disappeared for a couple weeks , its possible the new piercing did not survive this long and she could of taken it out , its just a though , but most of her other piercings she kept in for a long time and seemed to heal ok so I'm not sure she'd ever had trouble with such things
LowSelfSteem

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Maybe Her nipples rejected the piercing and she had it removed and asked for the days off to recover, because she didn't want her nipple to leak puss while at work.
Asker

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@LowSelfSteem who knows , but I would not be surprised at all if she took it out ( based on what I know about her ) but its just a though which might help to explain things , a lot of girls get this piercing and later take it out , a lot don't keep it in long term , she might of decided it was causing too much trouble? I don't know
if I ever figure out what went on , I will update
LowSelfSteem

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Ok 👌
Asker

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@LowSelfSteem still have yet to get any answers but thinking about the whole episode , whats weird is the younger sister has avoided me like the plague since the night I though I saw her with a nipple piercing. she literally has not been at the bar once since , not sure if there is a reason for this related to the original incident?
but its weird I remember what her 2 older sisters were like when they were 20 , both party girls who went out to the bar and had other piercings ( ears /belly ) but they never would of showed up at the bar and been like I got there nipples pierced back in 2013 and 2015 . it just was not something a girl did here back then , its only been very recently the last year or 2 that its became more common and acceptable in this area. and it still seems to be somewhat taboo. which is why its funny how things can change over the years , as to whats taboo or not.
not sure how i'll answer my question as to if they both really got them or not? as no one seems to want to talk to me about them. maybe i'll eventually find some pictures of them , at some point there will have to be some of them appear somewhere
LowSelfSteem

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Maybe The Younger sister saw you looking at her chest and felt uncomfortable or has noticed you looking at her sister thought you might like her then you start looking st her boobs and felt well he can't decide who he likes so I'm not sure I want to talk to him
Asker

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@LowSelfSteem its possible she felt that I liked her and her sister at the same time , although that isn't really new. it just seems like something happened in July with these 2 which was out of the ordinary. in a small town its typical for people to know a lot about someone , perhaps she's annoyed that I know so much about her ( even intimate details such as if she has certain piercings ) but I can't recall anything similar where there was so much mystery and such if someone had a certain piercing or not , I've seen other girls her age post pictures online of there nipple piercings for everyone to see , for most its not a secret and they don't care who knows. I can't recall a past situation at all similar to this one , where there was so much uncertaintly over the existence of something , which seems to exist but that person doesn't want to admit it exists
Asker

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@LowSelfSteem we have an update , it was the last bar night of the summer and I got to see actual pierced nipples ( just not there's ) was at the place she works. she was there , her sister was there (wearing a top that entirely hide her boobs though ) , I was there with a male friend and there was a brunette girl. this girl had pierced nipples to die for , tight top , no bra , you could see them entirely and they were absolutely awesome. she was at the bar several times when she was working and didn't seem to get any reaction from the other girl , no comments , nothing , other than something she said to a girlfriend I couldn't hear as it was too loud. if that couldn't get her to open up about pierced nipples or her's if she has one , I don't know what would.
it leads me to wonder? I'm left clueless at this point , either she never had them , took them out a few weeks back or still has them and hiding them from me. but have no idea which one of the 3 it is and there both returning to school so won't see them for a while
LowSelfSteem

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Ok lol
Asker

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@LowSelfSteem yeah was pretty funny that a girl with actual pierced nipples show up at the bar with them in full view on the last bar night and both of them happened to be there ( hadn't seen the younger one there in over a month )
but still left with no answers? her body language and such when that girl was around , to me didn't lead me to decide if she has one or not , she definelty noticed her but I think everyone did. she didn't seem to say anything about them , at least not when I was around , left more confused
Asker

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@LowSelfSteem if it were a multiple choice test out of the 4 options
1- she never had them pierced ever
2- she had them pierced briefly in July but took them out
3- she had them pierced longer , just never noticed
4- she pierced them in July and still has them pierced but hiding them

I'm leaning on 2 for some reason , just cause I didn't seem to be seeing anything when I checked her out , also think I saw her left nipple last night and it was not pierced. but feel like something was up with those girls in July and that I did in fact see something that night , maybe she decided it wasn't for her or that it was causing too much trouble , but really not sure its so confusing
LowSelfSteem

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@Asker Any news on the pieced nipples?
Asker

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@LowSelfSteem NO and i'm beyond frustrated about this one , haven't seen either of these girls for a little while and they don't seem to be around this holidays so far. never been able to view either of there instagram pages yet , though maybe i'd find some pictures of them on gf's pages but had little success finding any. most seemed to have private pages and so couldn't view any.
if we look at this thing from a "logical " perspective , only conclusion one could come to , was that they both infact did have pierced nipples this July , how else could the extremely odd behaviour and strange objects seen poking from there clothing be explained? if they weren't pierced? why would they act so off , why did i see something poking through there shirts in the area of there nipples. of course she could of taken them out by now or decided to hide them under her bra or such , a lot of time has passed so who knows what became of them
LowSelfSteem

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Maybe they caught on to you gazing at their boobs and felt creeped out and asked for a transfer or maybe they taken some personal time.
Asker

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@LowSelfSteem they went back to school apparently , the older one had already finished college but went back to take a short course but haven't heard from her since the end of summer and not really sure what she is up to. seems odd i haven't even seen them back home during holidays ( Thanksgiving or Christmas ) ,

i'm at a loss to explain this one , either they were annoyed i was looking at there boobs cause they had recently got pierced or they were annoyed i was looking at there boobs and though they were pierced when they really weren't , but clearly has something to do with me looking at there boobs and possibility they had em pierced , if they really were pierced seems to be the hard one to prove beyond a reasonable doubt , i still have doubt but over time i more or less came to a realisation they likely had pierced nipples when the incident occurred in July
Asker

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@LowSelfSteem but really hard to explain why during a 2 week span during the summer would i have seen odd objects poking out of there clothes , and considering there sisters even harder to explain , if they weren't so closely connected could maybe write it off as me seeing things on random girls late at night at the bar.
my gut says there had to have been something going on with them to explain the odd behaviour , them trying to hide pierced nipples would explain a lot of it.
it makes sense that since they were so closely connected they got pierced at the same time , which was why i noticed them around the same time and why they both started to act weird soon after
LowSelfSteem

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Do they still work at the resturnant?
Asker

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@LowSelfSteem that is a good question , it had been closed for part of the fall as it renovated but now reopen , i haven't seen her there since the end of summer but if she was away at school she might not return to work there until May. i'm not sure if she plans to return or if her life is going to take her somewhere else
Asker

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@LowSelfSteem i checked her linkedin page it mentions the program she's taking at college but doesn't list any new jobs , but the fact she updated her linkedin page would be a sign she is looking for one
LowSelfSteem

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Maybe
Asker

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@LowSelfSteem she had definitly updated that page since the summer, added details such as her major in college ( i had never knew what she took until now , knew where she went to school but never knew the program ) , so must be looking for a new job , otherwise why would she need a linkedin page in the first place? but only work experience listed in that restaurant, seems odd at 23 its the only place she's worked at worth listing

maybe the pierced nipples were her way of having one last wild summer before she finds a real job? but at 23 i wouldn't say she was too old to have them , although around here its typically girls 18-19 who are getting them but for sure older girls with them , at least older than 23
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@LowSelfSteem it says she's worked at that restaurant for 6 years and 8 months. and has a bachelors degree ( in communications/media studies ) from the college she attended several years ago , i'm not exactly sure what her degree would be used for exactly, never really heard of anyone with the same degree but maybe she felt it was time to move on? or though of entering her 7th year at same job was too much to bear?
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@LowSelfSteem also wonder too if she was " bored " with her life , it would been fairly predictable and boring. a nipple piercing would of been something new and exciting that she had never had before , might help explain its appeal to someone like her
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@LowSelfSteem the younger sister was around this holidays and seemed to be in an olk mood , as far as i know she does in fact have a nipple piercing. i looked through her friendslist and she's friends with most of the girls from here that i've seen at the bar or online with nipple piercings. so at her age kind of makes sense that she also has one as she's interested in piercings.
although could never figure out if she had both pierced? back in July though she had the left one pierced and other sister had the right one , seems odd if they both only had 1 pierced that they'd get different sides or maybe they actually had both

can't figure out whats going on with the older sister? not around , no sign of her. never figured out if she really had one or what became of it? feeling like i'm missing something. usually when people get this piercing there is other people in there friends circle who already have one and they were exposed to the piercing before they got it. i can't figure out who that would be? i don't know of anyone her age that she's close to with it , unless someone has one and i don't know about it yet
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@LowSelfSteem somewhat of an update , the older sister reappeared at the pub she worked at and seemed to be in an ok mood for once . she doesn't work there anymore and has apparently found a new job although she plans to still do the odd shift there come summer ( likely an easy way to make some money )
i've yet to figure out if she really pierced her nipples this summer? seems to be no answers to my questions.
i searched around online , found some of the girls she had been friends with in college. a couple were interested in piercings and tattoo's but couldn't find one with a nipple piercing , couple had belly piercings or side rib tattoo's.
when i saw her at pub recently she was wearing a black top/sweater , very hard to see what was going on there , especially with her boob size. colour of top maybe an attempt to hide something? very hard colour to see through
but mostly at a loss to explain this one but feel like something happened out of the ordinary last summer
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i think it comes down to 4 possibilities if it were a multiple choice question
A- she had it pierced prior to July 2019 but i just never noticed
B - she had it pierced in July but removed it afterwords , could of got infected or rejected or just didn't like it
C - she pierced it in July and still has it in but well hidden and discret about it
D - never had her nipple pierced

i feel like B and C are the most likely options , based on her behavior and fact i saw something odd one night. also never able to explain why she stopped jogging last summer , to me that is the biggest hint something really did happen , why would she sudden and for no reason stop jogging? most likely reason was due to her bigger boobs it would of caused too much irritation from the piercings rubbing against her bra.
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It could be because of her nipples are so prononced it made her piercing stand out attracting her unwanted attention so opted to take a lot of less shifts to feel comfortable.
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@LowSelfSteem she went off to take a short college course in September , thats why she wasn't around here , the restaurant was mostly seasonal.
but with her boob size i agree it would stand out more so she'd have to go to greater lengths to hide it.
searched far and wide to come up with an answer to this one , though maybe there'd be a picture posted to one of her girlfriends pages but they were all private or had nothing. a few girls from her work had open pages but few pics of her. there just didn't seem to be anything.

my gut feeling was always that her and her sister both really did have one , not sure why there is zero evidence of this out there? its like so mysterious its weird. other girls post pictures to sites like vsco and instagram where these are clearly visible and its not a big deal , if they really had one why they decided to go entirely secretive
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@LowSelfSteem i though of some other ideas as to how i could solve this riddle and figure out what went on with those girls last summer. but would have to go through less typical routes. my thinking is there is people in my home area who know if they really got pierced or not. i don't think someone loyal to them would be keen to tell me , it need to be someone more neutral.

i wondered if maybe jock talk in the locker room at the gym could get someone to spill the beans , there has to be other guys around here who like nipple piercings and aware which girls in our small city have them. maybe one of them would mention these girls if i bring it up somehow?

also a couple more specific people who i'm pretty sure would know , one is a girl who works at the gym , she used to play sports with the younger sister and also worked with her last summer , surely she must know if she really pierced her nipples or not , she might of even got to see them? but think it be weird to bring up and she might think that i wanted to see her piercing ( she had a moment of wildness last year too but only got her belly pierced , i've yet to see it though ) or she think i was obsessed with other girls boobs
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also a girl who knows the older sister , think she is an esthetician and i've seen her at the restaurant where older sis works. odd she was also at the gym today , didn't even know she was a member. pretty sure she'd know too as she seems to know older sister well , she's also interested in piercings herself , had nose , belly and tongue , not sure if she ever had her nipple. but if older sister had a pierced nipple i'm pretty sure she'd know about it. but again think it be hard to bring up and she might think that i wanted to see her piercings or that i was way too obsessed with the older sisters boobs , but pretty sure she'd know the answer to my question
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also a guy who works security some nights at the restaurant , he also goes to the gym and covered in tattoo's , pretty sure he'd know what went on. but again i think he'd be more loyal to her and not really be keen on telling me anything about her that was private.

i'd also imagine there'd be people like her doctor , people who worked at the piercing place downtown , her hairdresser ( girls tell everything to them ) who would know but they'd be bound by client privacy laws and couldn't tell me anything obviously , i don't imagine a tattoo shop be keen on telling some random dude how many women come in for nipple piercings and if they pierced 2 hot sisters at some point last summer
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@LowSelfSteem had a new lead of how i might be able to find some recent pictures of the younger sister. there is several bars and nightclubs near her college which post a lot of pictures to facebook. i looked through a couple this afternoon in the hopes of finding some which featured her.

but i came up with mostly nothing , which left me confused? everytime i see her around here she is pretty much drunk , so make sense that she'd go to the bars near her school but can't seem to find any evidence that she is a regular at any of them

i only found 1 picture so far , its weird she's with 2 other gfriends who are wearing pretty revealing tops in terms of clevage yet she's wearing a blue jean jacket. which is odd as its something which was specifically mentioned on the " how to hide a nipple piercing " wiki as one option so people would be less likely to see them. so back to the question of concealment? is she hiding them , or does she have body confidence issues , perhaps her life there is much different than i pictured and she doesn't drink as much?
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had though maybe that if she was out going to bars and had some pictures taken that maybe her piercings would poke through her top or something as is often the case with other women who have them , but so far nothing , left more perplexed about this one
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@LowSelfSteem not sure if your still paying attention but i just made a significant discovery , not sure i mentioned the 3rd girl from that pub who i had also had pierced nipples , mentioned i also saw an odd object in that region around August and she acted weird like the 2 sisters did? this girl is not related to them but similar age 18 - 19 , actually slightly younger but she works with them at the same restaurant.

i just found a picture of her online , she was also very hard to find pictures of everything private , but she posted a beach picture on vsco and she's in a bikini and there is something poking out of her nipples which appears unnatural and not in older pictures of her , the one i saw appears to be pierced and maybe other one too. but the fact she appears to really have one , proves that what i saw on her during the summer really was a nipple ring. and that i wasn't seeing things

makes me start to think the 2 sisters might really also have one , but photographic evidence is laking

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I went through a lot of possible ideas too , considering she works as a server , wondered if maybe there'd be a way to " accidently spill a glass of water on her late at night " and that might reveal whats going on there or not but would have to look like an accident.
but agree that a topic connected to it might also be an option , if you could get her talking maybe she'd open up.
another possibility would be to talk to the younger sister , perhaps she'd open up about what went on and how her nipples suddenly became pierced. she must talk to people about them , who gets there nipples pierced to hide them? most younger people want people to know about them right?

I also looked online but could not find any new pictures of these 2 girls , even searched through instagram pictures tagged from our area and not one single pic of them , its like there pages and all friends pages are private , literally nothing I could view that would provide a quality pic of them

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If you know her sisters have pieced nipples then ask her what she thinks of them having pierced nipples. Or Say Her figure looks lovely.

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I only saw the younger sisters nipple piercing once , that was almost 2 weeks ago and haven't seen her since. not sure the older one would be comfortable with me talking about her younger sister in such a way. but agree maybe there'd be a way to bring it up in a conversation without coming across as inapproiate , maybe say I noticed she's growing up and changing a lot and wondered what was going on with her?

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I never had a problem with Discussing my body if a male if they are genreal interested but if its creepy then I shut down

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I'm confused too cause it seem like both these girls would like the attention , the nipple piercings if real would in my view seem to be a cry for male attention specifically sexual attention. I'm not sure why they'd want to hide it from me specifically or what type of people they were hoping would notice

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Maybe It was for a dare or something. I heard of camp fire stories of girls getting sensitive area pierced for a dare.

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who knows right? both these girls are also returning to school by sep 1 ( wasn't aware the older one was until recently as she had already graduated but now apparently going back for a short program ) so running out of time to get answers as to whats going on with them.

the piercings she got in the past ( belly , tragus , ears ) were all ones she personally wanted and seemed to like having. so if she got a nipple it have to be something she wanted and likes having , based on what I know about her

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Maybe just ask. her, worse that could happen is a slap

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might be best to wait till her last day of work this summer , then if it goes badly I wouldn't see her again till Thanksgiving anyways.
part of the reason maybe I don't believe she really has pierced nips is that none of her co-workers or gf's have them , she'd be the only one at her work or in her circle of friends with one. she's also turning 24 in a few weeks but is still likely girls that age with them

the younger one a bit different her gf's and co workers , I know with certainly that 2 of her co-workers have pierced nips as I saw pictures online of them and at her age 20 , there'd definitely be girls in her circle of friends with them pierced as its a pretty common piercing for girls that age here at the moment

but I'd rarely see girls in there mid 20's with one , which is maybe why I still have doubts its real , but maybe not your typical 20 something , no real career yet , just a job in a pub , mostly drunk all the time and goes on trips to far away places so maybe she is the type? I've also noticed she's interested in tattoo's but appears to have none herself but does seem to notice when other people have one

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Fair

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to explain further I know a lot of her gf's cause I meet them all at a bar here a couple summers ago , I came very close to dating the older sisters best friend at the time but then things never went anywhere and that whole group of girls got annoyed at me. she also told her gf's that I'd visit her at her work and checked her out a lot which annoyed them so the one I almost dated won't even speak to me anymore.

but I know for a fact none of these girls have pierced nips , most are starting careers now , one is a dental hygienist , another does make up professionally , they might of been type to get them when younger and wilder but not now.

so she'd be only girl in her friends group with a pierced nipple if she does in fact have one

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Maybe Her nipples are just super stiff or her bra bends the nipples

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the bra she wears at work seems to be fairly loose , not tight or a large push up bra , it actually makes her boobs look smaller , if she wore a push up / tighter bra , it look like she had huge boobs at work , those things make girls with small boobs look large , I could only imagine how big hers appear with one.
I've never really seen her nipples specifically or even seen a picture of them to be honest , I've seen bikini pictures of her but there mostly from a distance or not clear enough to see anything.

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Not sure what else to Suggest

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I had an odd though earlier today when out , realise its late , I was wondering if there background might play a role into there actions. I was always under the impression that these girls came from a religious family as she went to a catholic high school and public school. although I'm really unsure of the families exact religious views , they do seem to be a very close family. might that help to explain her behaviour? perhaps she's much more uncomfortable revealing it than other girls if she's from a religious background. although I doubt pierced nipples among religious girls are that common I'm sure it does happen especially now days as its such a common piercing , know that tattoo's and belly piercings are common among such girls. but if that is part of the reason for her behaviour it could prove even tougher to get answers as to whats going on.

Think this girl I know got her nipple pierced but not sure and its driving me crazy?

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