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Sometimes that's exactly what they wanted. At least they decided to go for it.Because living a calm, peaceful, good and healthy life with a caring man is too boring. These females need action: They need conflicts, fights, arguing, drama, disharmony and to cause stress. Bonus points if he beats her, they'll marry him, pop out some kids to the world and then divorce a few years later. And that's the recipe for new gold digging daughters and criminal sons, effectively repeating the vicious cycle.Not trying to be Elliot Rodger or a "fake nice guy" but I am ***just saying***. That's all.
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Well, I thought about that too. I guess they either believe that these men can change or they're also serial killers.Do they ever wonder if the man they love would kill them?
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We make celebrities out of serial killers and mass shooters. With hundreds of millions of people becoming familiar with them, there are bound to be a few people who have bizarre attractions to them for a variety of possible reasons. These same people do not have admirers and typically not many romantic or platonic relationships when they are unknown psychopaths.The fact that the media and consumers of the media glorify these people (even if negatively) encourages more of the same actions by similar people who crave notoriety and don't care if it gets them killed or imprisoned. We should all stop glorifying them.
"Those types" of girls aren't "crazy" or "intentional victims".They are capturing the genetic material from a line or particular group of genetic expressions in various stages of expression...(... before they get recycled into something else, or are wasted)And because they deal with "the endangered", they deal with more than it physically appears, and *most* of them are professionals at what they do (researching, firsthand, psychobiological dysfunctions); although their job description is inherently provocative, they work in relativistic obscurity in order to avoid habituation among developing generations.IMHO, they're society's "unsung heroes"; without whom, manyl of us would not be walking this Earth with us today.(Just somethin' 2 ponder)
So, we were arguing on the same with my classmates. The topic was why good men end up last. One of them came out with a theory, that a female has an inherent nature of nurturing. They, like to raise kids (people). So, when they see a spoiled men or a brat, they kinda fall for them, assuming they will be able to change the brat or crazy man in to a normal decent human being. They start taking that person as a project of improvement which they eventually fall for and get in love. On the other hand, these kind of man are tend to be more carefree and seems more confident on their usual living, it is believed that some girls are attracted to this carefree spoiled confident man. I opposed this theory but hey then we girls were discussing may be he was right. We named 3 to 4 crushes from our college and all of them were kind of a spoiled boys
Obviously, the clever intoxicating Charles organizer of mass-gruesome murder appealed to her dark side. If you ever listen to his family members being interviewed you should indentify some very empty, indoctrinated, evil beings. If you don’t see that, then it is time for some self analyses. These criminals are really the extreme version of what many women do by being attracted to the bad-asses to satisfy an underlying urge to vent their own bad/evil vicariously through him/them. Whether good or evil, the woman attaches to her SO mostly unconditionally by instincts.
Women are attracted to powerThese men are lawless and that gives them a certain amount of power in the minds of women.Women love to serve a powerful man. The problem is, these men are master manipulators, and manipulate that good natural inclination and pervert the intentions of women
"Serve". Bwaha haha ha. Uh huh."Lawless", independent minded, yes.
@AmandaYVR perhaps there are better words 😂 serve has a sort of negative connotation Thanks for being more articulate than I am ,😊
Thanks for that. It did seem a touch out of character for you. Glad we got that sorted. :)Misunderstandings are so commonplace online. But we must give each other the benefit of the doubt sometimes. Lest the world turn into a seething pile off... you know the rest.
@AmandaYVR yes I mis-speak so often 😂I am still learning and still working on being as articulate as possible. Yep, it's best to sort things out before condemning someone 😊
You're def on the right path. Carry on!
Cuz they are fucking nuts as well , just. goes to show what kind of people we live with on this Planet, it's insane , I read a book about. a serial killer that raped and murdered a bunch of people. until he finally got busted , at the end of the book it showed all the fan mail from girls he got while he was in prison, saying how turned on they are by him and flirting with him , I was in a state of shock thinking wow how fucked up people are that live around us , he got married to 1 of. thw Girls while he was in prison , people are sick in the fucking head
Probably because they can relate to them, the guy understands them, the female is lonely and the male provides what she needs at the time and in the future. The male might be incredibly charismatic (because people love that mess), and confident and she finds herself drawn to him, despite his less than appealing looks. Etc.
Because not all girls are the same. Hence “some” girls get into romantic relationships with hideous criminals while others don’t. The same for men. Why can’t you people understand that we’re all individuals. We aren’t like ants, moving to beat of one drum
It's the kind of guy they love most. I think most girls have this "I wanna be a bad girl" attitude so they go after it by getting involved with really rotten guys! Why else would they CLAIM they are looking for a wonderful Prince Charming of a guy and then turn every one of them down to go after another Manson?
The women have mental issues, they thrive on the attention, and most of all, they know where they can find "their man" at all times - they don't have to worry about him cheating with other women.Most such women are delusional and are driven by the criminal's celebrity, and tell themselves that he "didn't mean it" or that he was "misunderstood" or whatever rationalization they can come up with, and "he's not like that around me."
They like seeming rebellious maybe? They're in it to be able to say they got the bad boy? Perhaps there's also a part of them that thinks they can change him?Similarly to Manson, a lady married Ted Bundy while he was in prison and even defended him in his court case depute overwhelming evidence to convict him
It goes across both genders.Why? The same reason that reporter went to Somalia to prove it "wasnt as bad as everyone says" and was murdered in Somalia because, it "is as bad as everyone says" Self annihilation impulse with a mix of darwin added to it.
A and B really belong together as part of the same answer. Sometimes, these women are simply attracted to "evil". Sometimes, they might think they can "save" the person, as women are natural born nurturers for the most part. Then there's the attention factor. I don't believe there's a simple answer, Laurie.
Right. Not simple at all.But if you had to say, would you guess more likely saviors, or power-lovers?
@AmandaYVR I don't think it's about power loving because these people are outcasts. I think it's about attention, attention and more attention with a bit of savior. It's also a limited field of competition, for the most part, and you can imagine the criminal being oh so grateful that you are there.
Could be due to family issues (bad relationships models or interrelations in their environment), some people could be a little psychopath to the point where they are interested in the whole concept of killing and such, but not enough psychopath to actually do it?Other reasons could be that they see it as a sexually attractive thing (hey, some of y'all are into bdsm and getting choked, why not into murders and shit, amirite)?I don't know just hypotheses
It’s different for each person. Some people are just extremely lonely and they think a relationship will fix that. Some people like the intrigue and mystery of it. Some people suffer from what I call, “broken bird syndrome.” and they want to fix people because they somehow see good inside a truly evil human being.
Ted Bundy wasn't hideous. I wouldn't touch him with a ten foot pole, but he was attractive and charming when he wasn't killing people.
I know, in the documentary I saw whenever evidence would hint at him everyone would be like no, no way it could be him.
I have no friggin idea. But good question. I like where your head is at.
There's good answers here. The guys undertand this category.
Thank you, and agreed about the guys :)
Charles Manson brainwashed those girls using psychedelic drugs. He also created a group environment where they had similarly brainwashed peers which reinforced their delusions. They were young and it was a different time. Very bad thing which happened.Charles Manson is dead now.
In my country it's usually:1. Because it appeals to the ego, especially the (usually misguided) idea that you could change the other person. 2. Because they promise stuff that the more "boring" good guys can't match (e. g money, good sex).3. Because the criminal lies about his true nature until the point of no return.
I think is something that has to do with the "fascination for evil".There's something similar with some criminal women attracting certain guys with a similar fascination, although is less common because there are less cases of that type.
Criminals specifically those that tend to be serial killers are often sociopaths and psychopaths. One of the key traits of sociopaths and psychopaths is that they are VERY charismatic and like able. They can be manipulative
I think it’s a mix of A and B. A lot of cult leader types are good at being charming and persuasive and appealing to vulnerable people who want to feel loved, get attention, and be part of something.
For some odd reason people think of prison as a way to reform criminals. It reforms them alright it reforms them into better criminals!
I think its because girls are softer at heart generally and they tentd to believe that they are reformed and they are criminals coz something was done to them and they were the victims of injustice so they try to show care for that
This is known as "hybristophilia", a paraphilia in which involves sexual arousal towards a partner who has committed a crime, particularly violent crime.
The real question is how do these guys out compete all the guys on here who say they can't get a date. Perhaps its the badboy thing
It’s a mixture some just feel a way towards them due to the fact they’d rather hear the full story from the source then the broadcasted story in main stream media or word of mouth and the criminals paint a good picture usually.
Nobody really knows.
Because there is one person made for you out there and this applies to the hideous criminals out there too. Some are charmed by them and fall for them. Others are just infatuation to such an extent they call it love.
What you are deep down inside yourself as a person and another person is matching your your core identity as a person, you become attracted to them. In other words those women are pure evil in heart as the actual murderer in practice.
It's been actually seen is many cases that their partners, either men or women, have mental issues and are probably criminals too, either in the same "nature" or different.
They tried a sample of proper d*cking and bought a subscription.
Obviously somethings wrong with them. They probably want attention. But then again, they do say "love is blind" 🤷♀️😅
From what I've experienced from my thug wannabe cousin and his many past girlfriends, those girls usually have problems of their own, and it's usually drug problems.
I think a mix of A and B - Mental health issues and attention seeking
Because psychopaths tend to be incredibly good at manipulation.
They don’t have mental problems most likely... just extremely desperate or wanting fame
They get turned on by the excitement of doing something wrong and forbiden...All women do that, some just go the extra mile.
Maybe it’s to do with ego, like they are the one that tamed the best and that he loved her more than the other women he killed.
Society as a whole has an odd fascination with criminals and this is just the same thing but furthered
And then they sit there and try to pretend it's not their fault they chose to be in a toxic relationship...
I really don't know, the easy answer would be that they do it for the attention. But what if they actually truly love the person. Who am I to judge, people love who they love 🤷♂️
Real life human beings are not one dimensional. We are just one thing.
I chose C, cuz I know 2 women. One woman who married a guy who shot his girlfriend in the face, and another woman who is about to marry the guy who assaulted her. YIKES!!!
Love is blind. We assume that bad people should not be loved. Wrong. It is the great thing about life that no matter what you are, you can still find your place.
That I would never understand. I heard that they want stability. A man in prison can´t get away, he will give your attention and is thankful for you. Also they want to care for him and turn him
That’s something I wouldn’t do. That’s asking for huge problems. id say it’s a no go.
Criminals, especially serial killers, can be very charming. I think that's part of it.
Because there extreme idiot fan girls with the most lowest self-esteem/self image and are delusional.
Some people are attracted to those personality type. Many girls for example have crush on bad guy's in movies or shows.
Becuase they are either "bad girls" or they are just a little bit crazy.
I think its because they admire what they do but they are too scared to do it themselves
It's called rose colored glasses, Stockholm syndrome or just plane stupidness.
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The idea that a criminal could love you and no one else. Its a sense of empathy aswell. When you date a criminal, you're (often) safe from them.
Do you consider Hitler to have been ugly? Regardless of who he was
Because criminals are often rich so who wouldn't date one?
The women feed on the (so-called) "power" of the showy whack-jobs.
Most girls have a violent sadistic side they keep bottled up inside or ignore.These serial killers or violent people help them embrace that side.
cuz of low self esteem an that makes it easy for cults to prey on them
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