Would you date a man who had his penis cut off?

[Anonymous]

I am quite masculine and love being a guy. I love being with women and care deeply for the ones I love. I am successful in life and am self reliant and happy. I am more than adequate in the bedroom in many ways but have 1 quirk. I really hate my penis and want nothing more than to have it cut off. It is uncomfortable to have it there and unnecessary to please a woman. I have so many other ways to rock her world. I know that i will find a way to be rid of it for good as well as possibly my scrotum and testicles. I still love the female body and overwhelmingly desire to please my girl in bed and in life. So, the question is, would you consider dating a guy like me who had his penis cut off but who is a good guy in all other aspects?

[Supernatural_fanatic]

If there was a medical reason then maybe if I reallyyyyy loved him. If it was just because he didn’t like it then no.

[Asker]

A guy without a penis would never pressure you for sex when you didn’t want it. He would be much more focused on you both in and out of bed. He would never be tempted to cheat. He could perform just as well with artificial means and maybe better when you wanted sex with penetration. My penis makes me think selfishly and is an absolute horror to have to carry around all day between my legs. Think of how uncomfortable you would be with all that extra flesh between your legs.

[Supernatural_fanatic]

Yes I can imagine that being uncomfortable but I think its a pretty big factor of being a man. I just wouldn’t feel right having sex without a real penis, and as far as cheating goes. I wouldn’t say cutting off your penis is a guarantee of no cheating.

[Asker]

You’re right, anyone could cheat I suppose. I wouldn’t with or without a penis. But it disgusts me when it gets aroused and hard after I look at other women besides my girl... nothing I can do to control that though except getting rid of it though... I respect your opinion and can’t vouch for the sensation of using a real penis vs a fake one from the female side. But I enjoy fake ones far more from my perspective... I literally crave sex or masturbation multiple times every day while women I’ve been with only want it weekly on average. I’d give almost anything to be in charge of my sexual desire again...

[Supernatural_fanatic]

I believe there’s medication you can take to lower your sex drive if that’s what is causing you the most distress. But you do seem pretty set on the surgery and it is your body but make sure you think all the options through thoroughly first

[Asker]

Thanks! Yes I’m set on it. It will happen... I tried one medication but the side effects were terrible and the uncomfort of it hanging there was still so bad... thanks for talking with me

[Supernatural_fanatic]

Yeah no problem, I wish you all the best and much comfort and happiness! :)

[Asker]

Thanks! 😊

[needhelp777]

If my boyfriend had his penis cut off i would still be with him and wouldn't leave him because I truly love him

[Asker]

That is awesome! You are very sweet. Love is the greatest part of a relationship

[Rundown]

He'd never be able to have kids.. or well, give you HIS sperm. Could you really handle that?

[Asker]

That is easily handled with a sperm bank

[Rundown]

Yeah, but she wouldn't have YOUR kids

[Rundown]

And remember, you'd only get one shot, if you already took yours to the bank

[Asker]

It is if the person in question put his own sperm there...

[Rundown]

Like i said, you'd only get one shot. You don't always get prego, on the first try

[Asker]

Can’t you put multiples away? And it’s not an issue with me anyway...

[Rundown]

Just sayin' I guarantee you, you would be making a mistake doing this

[needhelp777]

Have to agree with @rundown But if my boyfriend literally have to have his penis cut off I would still be with him

[Asker]

Have to or if he really wanted to? I don’t have to but I really really want it cut off. Everytime I even see it i want it destroyed. It is such a strong desire.

[needhelp777]

It can be both

[Asker]

I love being a good man to my girl. I’d want her to understand

[Hurlyburly]

Ehhh... Nope nope aaaaaand... Nope. And the highly unlikely case that it's not a troll you should really consider therapy.

[Asker]

Not a troll I assure you

[Hurlyburly]

Then get yourself help.

[Asker]

I know what I want and that it’s considered odd. But if you had dangling stuff between your legs you might not like it either.

[Rundown]

You do need help dude

[boggboss]

That's so fucking weird

[SilentWatchman]

I’m a guy, but no girl I know would do that

[Romantic_Lamb]

No your just going to be a dickless weirdo creeping chicks out. You will still feel your penis there but it will only be a phantom effect. This will drive you completely mad because no female wants you and your bag of fake dicks plus you can't even masturbate anymore. Meanwhile your medical Bill's will put you into a lifetime of debt but the doctors will sell your penis to a cisgender for 800 thousand dollars and the cisgender will be using your penis to have sex with random things from the supermarket.

[Asker]

Lol, I have plenty of funds available for this but thanks. I want it destroyed but I know I have a big heart and talented fingers and a tongue...

[bangyourhead]

You need to get some psychological help. You're mentally ill and no woman in her right mind would date you.

[Asker]

I disagree. I think it would only help a proper relationship as it would eliminate selfish desires and the potential to cheat.

[bangyourhead]

You may disagree but you are wrong.

[Asker]

Well I won’t be happy until i get rid of this hated penis and its completely dead and gone. But that doesn’t make me a bad person or crazy just because I’m different than you. It’s just like the time I grew my hair out real long and gradually grew to hate it. One day I finally had enough and told the barber to just chop it all off! I’ve never grown it back, never will, and I’m happy not to have it. Just like I want done with my penis. Just like hair preference it doesn’t mean/say anything else about me.

[bangyourhead]

Yes, it does. It says you're mentally ill. Because your hair grows back. Your penis will not. Seriously,.. go talk to a professional.

[stormbreaker06]

I'm not a gay.

But I would not date a girl who stitched on a penis.

[mrArcher]

Dude, as much as the inner beauty matters, there has to be a balance between the inner and the outer.
But, we live in a free country. Do whatever you want.

[Asker]

Thank you.

[shyyladyy]

Hard to say but maybe If I truly love him

[Asker]

Thank you for your response

[Anonymous]

If this is really the way that you feel, you should seek therapy. This just is not normal.

[Anonymous]

No. Never. Sorry, but I need proper sex.

[Asker]

I assure you I could do everything a penis could do without my penis. What’s the difference between a fake one and a real one? The fake one I don’t have to tote around with me all day and it’s never pressuring me or you for use. It’s always ready only when you want it. And a guy so equipped would never be in danger of cheating.

[Opinion Owner]

The difference! Psychology is the difference. Similar logic to a straight guy being blindfolded, then having anal sex in someone. Tell him it is a female, he will be ok. Tell him it is another guy and he will probably freak out. I bet the blindfolded guy could not tell the difference himself.

[Asker]

Ok, I see what you’re saying

[Anonymous]

I, uh, I don't even know what to say to this