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No, not really. I've found that some girls are like that at the beginning of a relationship, but are less so once they learn to trust me. At think it just makes things worse to make a big deal out of it.
What if she's not in a relationship with you? What if it's Just a female friend, aquainance or Just a girl you've just met, known for only a few months and is already getting attached? How would you react to that?
*Acquaintance
Not always. I think everyone needs their own space, but if there's a reason due to which she is clingy, and I like her, I wouldn't mind being there for her.
Of course we do respect you're space, it wouldn't be that extreme clingy. But you're other sentence... I wish that would come out of every guy. So you wouldn't be annoyed by it?
I like it if she is attached. But I don't care to talk on the hone much. When we are together in person she could stick to me like glue and be clingy though. That's good.
Why would you like her being attached? Most guys hate girls that get attached especially if they are Just acquaintances or friends with them. I could understand 2 people in a relationship being attached with each other but what about friends?
In a relationship I'd like her to be emotionally attached and a little clingy, even a little possessive sometimes too.
As a friend being somewhat emotionally attached is okay too, just not too much if they have a relationship/SO too.
What if the guy is already in a relationship and has a girlfriend, and the girl is single and attached to him?
Is that your situation? Are you emotionally attached to someone that is already in a relationship?
No, I was Just describing a situation. This type of scenario happens a lot which is why I brought it up...
So what do you think? What are you're views on this type of situation?
Yes, if a girl it clingy or just too overly into me, it is a turn off.
I don't believe that people always get attached to someone Just because they like them. I don't believe that getting attached to someone me and you like them. Is that right or wrong?
Shafaq: You don't have to be sexually attracted to someone, or want a romantic relationship with them, just because you are feel a connection in some way. You can be just friends. But when I said getting too attached, I was actually thinking of when a girl gets clingy. Especially if it happens soon after meeting her, etc.
And what if it's a girl you met online and she's the one that's attached to you? What would you do in that scenario?
Shafaq: If I were single, and a girl on line 'attached' to me, it would likely go nowhere. That's because there would be no good way to get to know the person, except on line, which is very artificial. And the distance apart would likely be very significant.
So then what would you do? Meaning it's not possible to get to know someone online?
Shafaq: I'm not sure what you mean by 'what would I do?' Basically, I would do nothing, as I don't think being on line a very good way to get to know someone, so there would be no close relationship to go anywhere.
Lol what I mean to say is What would you do then if she got attached to you and you were overseas from her? How would you try to make things work out? What if she was to get upset when you left one day? Also why Would you not be able to get to know someone online? You can always still ask them questions like you would do in real life right?
Not if I liked her too. I would try to match her energy. I wish someone was into me at least a little bit.
Oh okay 😊
Turn off. Listen and understand. Anything in excessive over a period of time becomes a burden. Balance is key to everything in life for a healthy lifestyle.
Okay makes sense. I'll agree on that.
It wouldn't bother me since i tend to be a clingy type of guy
So you must understand what it's like to get attached to people easily? What does it feel like, have you ever been Judged badly for it?
I never been judged by it but i could imagine it does happen not too sure? Maybe the girls i got attached to didn't want tell me that i was too attached don't know? I do know one girl set me straight that she would date me that was it nothing more, no relationship wow when she ghost me and i never heard from her again?
Yeah the thing is, I get attached to people pretty easily. Especially if we are talking on the daily through text. I've been Judged once by the exact guy I got attached to, he apparently didn't reciprocate the same feelings towards me. And obviously we don't talk anymore, it's been a little over a year now. Still not over him sadly. He said some straight up bad things behind my back without fully having the courage to say it to my face. Most of the negative things were cussing, Judging me, telling me that he doesn't care about me or my rants (So apparently I was rambling and ranting a lot which he never told me in the past) and it being my fault for getting so attached to him (which I couldn't help). I was shocked to know how negative about me he felt in the past that he Just couldn't address to me directly...😔
@Shafaq_Mahnoor96 Yeah i know i get judged , people will judge us
no matter and it hurts for a little but it goes away , yes i get attached
easily with a girl and it's all about Love , i don't care much about the
other things. Sorry for the delay in me getting back to you !!!
Actually sorry for my delay in getting back to you lol I should be the one to say sorry 😇. It took me approximately 24 days to get back to you, but I was busy so again sorry about that...😊
@Shafaq_Mahnoor96 That's okay just hope things are going good for you
yes i do know how our life's can get tied up with many things. Happy Halloween
if you celebrate :) 🎃🎃😇🙏
Thanks! 😇
You're Welcome :D :-)
Most are just a turn off looking and listening to their feminist standards.
What "feminist standards" are you on about?
Better than a cold ice witch. But only not so genetically blessed insecure women are needy most of the time
Being attached and being needy are 2 separate things. A person can be attached but not needy or be both at the same time. I kind of feel sad for people that are "needy" be cause there's always an Innocent reason behind "Bad habits" like that. So is it a "Turn off" for you?
No not for me, it actually shows that they care...
I actually had an Issue similar to this one, I had a guy friend that I was attached to and attracted to. He didn't feel the same way and didn't take it so lightly. He didn't feel the same way about me and got angry telling my other friend that "Then tell her to stop caring about me, cuz I don't care". I still remember every word negative he spoke about me, even the things I never Imagined he would call me. Even today after a year of this happening, I'm still not able to forget him and the way he spoke about me in a ill way 😭😭
It would be if she got crazy , invasive, or controlling.
What if she Just wants you're company, you're attention and wants to talk to you? Loads of guys don't give their time or attention to someone that they don't consider a priority is what I've noticed...