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I work on an individual basis, I pretty much have no idea what the majority of the world are doing. let alone the female population, so I'll stick to a 1 to 1 basis when trying to understand the opposite sex!
Anything for you @AndrewMG
That a man should love a woman for her personality. And she usually has about 10 different ones, so he can choose a favourite.
When we talk to them about something that bothers us. We are not looking for advice on how to fix it. We just want someone to listen.
That's something that was and is still difficult for me to understand. I'm not sure I even care what people want tbh lol, I don't want people wallowing in their own misery, I want to supply them with solutions that empower them to move past it. Like when I'm sad maybe I want someone to just listen as well, but if they listen and don't try to help, what does that say?
I’m an advice giving person. I cannot and I absolutely refuse to sit there and validate people’s whining for things they can easily prevent with a few minor adjustments.
Omg this is annoying personally. Some of my chick friends are like this, and it gets pretty annoying when 1, it was a stupid choice YOU MADE that caused your distress, and 2, instead of being an adult and fixing it, you literally want to just sit there and cry about the spilled milk... FOR HOURS, DAYS AND WEEKS.That shit is practically mildly cottage cheese on the floor before you so much as look for a mop, but it's a nastier mess now.Tears dont fix problems. They just are there to help you release the pressure as you fix them.I have no issue listening to my girls in their time of need, but I'm not the pity party that let's them think staying in a pit of misery is okay.I may be the tougher friend, but when you personally help your friends not be homeless, get a car, and have a better life - yeah years aren't shit.I think women need to be more proactive, rather than crying about lifes pains personally.Lol I raised by guys, so yea, that aspect of girls confuses the shit outta me
Nebulas I completely agree. I’m very proactive and troubleshooting in my life. Any problem I have that is within my control to fix, you bet I’m going to try to fix.
Thanks for MHO
Drunken consent is not actual consent.
I think it’s hilarious that my detractor for saying this is a guy.
shit even i dont know!🤣 we are like onions.. many layers. Some onions like some women.. the more you peel the more you'll cry!Women are like cellphones. They want to be held.. charged up.. talked with.. needed. If not you'll be disconnected.
Such truth 😅 girls luvvvvv attention and affection. Lmao. And if you're a girl who doesn't agree, then you need some self-esteem work.
hahaha even my own self discovery is difficult. After many years i understand the pains of men lmao
For men who do not know or seem incapable of understanding:We're not all the same and have different opinions, likes, and dislikes (which includes the topic of men). You are not entitled to a woman. If women have consistently hurt you, it's not all women's fault.
well that goes for women too though, if a man hurts you, its not all of their faults. its an individual thing not a gender thing
Was this question about what women need to know or about what men need to know?Why are you assuming that I feel that it’s specific for a gender?Ugh. I wish I could block comments on responses because I’m tired of dealing with irrational ones.
Its not irrational to say that men go through that too. It just does not seem like a "woman problem" as the title actually asks. honestly if this is irrational for you, maybe its time to toughen up a bit.
It’s irrational to assume that because someone didn’t say it, they must not know it.Just because you don’t think it’s a problem doesn’t mean it’s not. It’s common theme that I’ve seen on GaG. You need to use common sense. All you’ve been doing is making assumptions about your perceived thoughts and projecting it onto others.
I don't make assumptions, I'm just pointing out that it goes two ways (theres nothing wrong with that and believe me, women need to be taught) Now like I said, toughen up and accept criticism
I already revealed how you make assumptions. If you can’t comprehend that, it’s on you. You just made an assumption about all women saying that we need to be taught. You can add liar to that list because everyone makes assumptions: we perform it daily. It takes a conscious action to prevent making assumptions about other people though.There was no need to point it out because it’s already known. It had nothing to do with the question while my response was geared towards common themes that I’ve seen among GaG men. But I made sure to include in my response that it was geared to those who do not know or can’t comprehend.Anything else?
Ah ok. I see now that my posts have flown waaaaay over your head. try to keep up next time sweetie. and maybe not feel so personally attacked from criticism (a common theme among women) seriously lady, there's nothing wrong with pointing it out. GROW UPanything else? -_-
I’m going to make an excuse for your lack of comprehension since you’re 21 and your brain hasn’t developed fully yet (men’s brains aren’t fully developed until 25 btw)... lol. Good luck. I hope you get it. :)
Awwww sweetie. got kept back a few years at school huh. I'm gonna assume thats why you're... like this. (mens IQ are higher than womens btw)... so. good luck! I hope you graduate eventually :)
Lol are you the one who didn't wanna date a dude with AS? You sound a lot like someone who has it XD and from me, that's a compliment, you are very logical and I like that. I remember seeing this exact same interaction with roles and genders switched recently... the woman pointing out to the man that it goes both ways, the man responding as you did... really makes me think women and men are more alike than we think lol. It is so true that every point applies to both genders equally though, and to state it as such right in your comment, while not necessary, would do a lot for inb4ing shit like your seeing right here and instead of two arguing fanatics, fellow users would see one reasonable opinion, and everyone would be agreeing with it.
@Shamalien I am.. lol. Thanks. I get what he’s saying but I just don’t think it’s necessary to point it out. I used to actually point it out so people would be aware but I stopped because I assumed that people would understand certain questions didn’t warrant it (like this one).I’ll start it up again as you’ve said because it honestly did help with people not commenting.Thanks again though!
We don't even make sense to ourselves. We get emotional and experience mood swings we can't explain. We know we don't always make sense, but even so we still want to be comforted and loved when we're feeling a little crazy. You don't always need to get to the bottom of it, because a good cry and some cuddle time is sometimes all that we need.
Interesting. Do you know that some men are like that too?
Usually, most women do not expect us to fix their problems; they only need us to listen while they vent their feelings.Sometimes, women do not need us to say anything. We only need to hold them in our arms and comfort them.Telling a woman that she has no "right" or reason to feel a certain way has NEVER solved a a problem in a relationship.
That women dont care about men. They care only about themselves and what they can get from a man. Men love idealistically. Women love opportunistically. They dont give a shit about men. That's why they find it so easy to destroy a man's life and never lose any sleep over it. All the good memories, all romantic dinner dates and holidays, even if there is children involved in the relationship, nothing matters to a woman. They dump the guy, take all of his money if they can and then move to the next well of resources.
My friend attempted suicide because his wife took his kids away from him. It angers me that women can get away with this shit and sleep without a care at night.
@FeministDestroyer i was interested in this pretty lady that's really nice and then i find out she manipulated her ex-husband into committing suicide to get his life long benefits. i stepped away from that relationship quickly. she sleeps and lives very well and watches nothing but true crime shows lol
@Sevenpointfive wow damn thats sad :( lucky you got out of there, good on you
I think the key is that they, like men, have the ability to not give a shit, and because people assume all women are angels, men get fkd really really hard by the mean ones. But foreal, there are lots of women who would lose sleep, big time, and many that wouldn't even do that shit. Few atheists among em...
that we are humans just like them, and not all women are the same, that men can be whores just like women can be whores, most men seem to think only women can be sluts and men can't... when in fact, they can, and there are tons of male whores out there, its annoying. some men just make women feel like this for little things she have or have not done.
It works reasonably since centuries. To NOT understand, often is an advantage.Examples: the necessity of owning numerous handbags, high heels, or 20 pairs of hot-pants that all look the same.:D...I feel very ok with the fact that my understanding is limited, ... heh heh
Good question. I think that depends on the guy though as they’re all slightly different. I think my latest thing would be communication though. Some men are naturally more stoic and would do well to understand that women bond by talking about things, not just doing or fixing.
The word is simple not stoic they are afraid of things and this simplifies them.
They seise to be human beings and become human doings is another approach.
@Fastest-route I don’t think that’s fair really since they can still be very nice people even if somewhat more stoic.
I’m surprised st the level of down votes though. I’d be interested to know why. Is it just sheer ignorance? Or is there a valid counter argument? I suspect not since nobody has commented.
You’ll find more stoic men in male driven jobs like military etc.
From my limited knowledge of the female psyche, That seems like a pretty accurate statement. Actively listening to your partner says, "I care about you." How else do you maintain a healthy relationship?
@usernameihavecreated it’s not about not listening or caring, they do. It’s more about being the silent type when it comes to their emotions.
Its hard to change that. Our minds immediately dismiss talking about emotions because it's viewed as weak. Doesn't matter that its not. And me, well... Pretty sociopathic over here
@usernameihavecreated yeah I know, but some are more open to it that others, that’s the only point I was making.
Girls sometimes suck at communicating with how they truly feel or try to hide it. We girls dont hide it to make it harder on you. We hide it because we dont want what we are feeling to be an inconvenience or a burden and no matter how much you tell us otherwise its not going to prevent us from thinking it.
Thank you for giving a new side of the story. For me, it actually makes perfect sense.
How hard it is to be a woman in our culture. Between the media and other major influences, women are told over and over how they should look, how they should act, what they should think...
that a pussy gets sore so they need a break sometimes.
You are the example of "not all heros wear capes"
@Solomoncumquats that is very funny lol
That's awesome really..
You seriously need to make questions like this girls only haha
That they have in innate desire and need to feel weak, helpless, objectified, debased, humiliated and abused in a sexual context. In other words, the ultimate key to their pleasure and satisfaction is to make them feel like a worthless rape victim, all while they consent to every single bit of it.
Nothing I'm sure there's some guys out there that understands everything and some that don't understand anything amd some that only understand a little
A lot of men on here and in the Middle East need to understand that women do not want be submissive to men anymore
Only in the bedroom 😉
That we don't want to get hurt so stop trying to force us when we don't want to do shit ( Past experience with my step dad )
That just because one woman takes all of his money and keeps him from his child doesn't mean we are all like that
Logic... not applicable. here.Significant dick sucking required for question to have relavant answer
Springerli is the special lubricant exuded only during ovulation. I was once entrapped or tried to anyway by a woman who already knew.
Why they treat us like we are less than them. Image if girls had to prove they where worthy of a mans time? You know hit us with good pick up lines and buy us drinks in order to talk to us. I’m sure women would resent men even more.
To be fair some are quite narcissistic. It annoys me when I see it too, especially when they try to treat my brothers that way.
It’s a horrible entitled attitude. What’s wrong with being a normal team player? Thankfully not all are like that though.
Yeah but that like saying not all Germans where nazi, ok but let’s not just ignore the genocide. I think woman should be brave and call out other women for there bad behaviour towards men, and men should call men out for treating women like a warm place to stick their dick.
Its nowhere near that bad but I see the point you’re trying to make. It’s not that simple since many are unaware (with personal issues) and people don’t really respond to being told what to do. Who’s to say it isn’t mentioned amongst their friendship group? It doesn’t make much difference though if they don’t want to change. We all just have to be as smart as possible about who we choose. The signs are usually always there.
That women are just like men: Some are just idiots.
When a girl sits on her guys lap not all guys get erections.
Not all girls/ women like Public Displays of Affection
A vulcan mind meld or some sort of telepathy. Something to really read a woman's mind to really get in there and solve man's biggest mystery. It will be dangerous and terrifying but we need to do it. Really get in there. 😎
I think the difference between men and women are lost on both the genders most of the times. How a woman is different from a man and vice-versa.
That most girls are completly bat shit crazy... except for a few...
I have the right to remain silent, that's the one I want.I ain't making it easy for no man.
That you should never lay a hand on a woman in anger and no means no
You must have missed the "but don't" at the end of the question because men in general already know that
If that was true I wouldn't see so many domestic assault and rape stories in the news
It is true because you don't see MAJORITY of men doing that on the news
false premise, the vast, overwhelming majority of men know this already. Even the fucking idiots who do the bad shit understand it, they just don't care, they know damn well what they are doing.
That women only care about looks and not how nice you are, lol.
Not every woman wants to fuck us. Maybe one in a million might. I masturbate daily, it warms the cockles of my heart.
Everything you think you know about them, is wrong.
That we need to just listen and not solve your problems.
We aren't all constantly after sex and we have live sos we might not respond instantly
Pretty much everything. Women are an intriguing mystery.
Amen to that man that's why I love them so much
That we have a lot of mood changes and we can't explain
Yeah. It's called your period.
@TheDonDada lol woah there bud no need for that XD forget the period entirely, the mood changes are still present in women to a greater degree than in men
they don't know they should stay away from women who keep posting photos of themselves
Our horniness is not constant like theirs is
We definently know that
@Slim57 oh ok
Yeah, we know that.Nature's cruelest trick!
I think nature wants us to work harder lol
my horniness is constant? I dont know about that lol
I find that interesting since 28% of men are celibate compared to 18% of females. bestlifeonline.com/celibate-young-men-survey/medicalxpress.com/.../...n-celibate-americans.htmlGoogle if like more refences.
@Usernamesrdumb yeah but women can get it anytime and men have to work, so really, women as a whole I think do have more self control in that regard
Not all women like to Not all men like to
I man should never ever underestimate a woman!!!
That not all women are bi.
That don't try to understand woman 😂😂
Simply love in nature
How do you express your love without cuddle?
Everything in my opinion
Most women don’t wear makeup just to impress guys.
The way the think I am clueless about that
You and me both bruh
the fact that all women are bi.
That's only if the parents don't make homosexuality bad. By the way homosexuality includes gays and lesbians.
Emotional basically all the time.
That's fine we will hold u like a cute baby until ur all cried out then we can talk about our ur feeling I'm cool with that
Relationships first, sex second.
We want your respect more than anything else
they'll always have periods of emotional outbursts
We are not mind readers
Yeah like just tell us what ur thinking we ate not gonna get mad just be honest with us man damn
If your asking us guys... uhmmm..
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