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I think both men and women wants commitment, love, trust, honesty and communication - but that they also wants looks, a good smell, sex they can appreciate and a stable income.I think people likes wealth, but that the vast majority doesn't see that as the main priority in dating. Looks may attract more than wealth and good looks are also rarer, more difficult to achieve and maintain than wealth. Especially if you counts doctors, surgeons, lawyers and air traffick controllers as well paid. Finding a man or a woman earning as much as a doctor or a lawyer is peace of cake, but finding a beautiful or handsome person is like rocket science. Especially if you're like me and lives in a such unfortunately area.I wants both personality, looks, good smell and sex. :) I would think it's fine if my date works in a grocery store instead of a lawyer. I would pick whoever I finds hottest. Simple...
First of all men don't really have all those feelings like you do - it's a basic difference between the genders. A man needs these three things - if you provide them in spades he'll be forever in love and loyal to you.He'll swim through shark infested waters to bring you lemonade. __Dr. Laura1. Sex2. Food3. Love/attention/respectAbout half to three quarters of women get this, the rest either don't believe it, can't be bothered, or simply refuse. They they wonder why he wanders off looking for another woman to give them to him. Guys really are simple - if you approach it right you can harness the plow-horse in him, hitch your wagon, share your life.
I think money and looks? I could be wrong? Tell us what’s the answer? 😂😬🤷🏻♀️
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Looks, personality, plus B. I think that covers most women in my opinion.
Want or settle for? Because I think those are two different things. I think what they want is a charming, confident, funny, and charismatic guy who's over 6' tall, is fit and hot, experienced in the bedroom and can give her mind-blowing orgasms with his 8" dong, has a high-paying job, a nice house and car, and can take her on vacations while treating her like a princess and make her feel safe, protected, comfortable, respected, and loved.But if they can't get that, I think they'll settle for an awkward, ocassionally funny guy who's taller than them, has an average body and face, is meh in bed with an average size dong, has a moderate income with a small, inconspicuous house and drives a 10 year old honda, who can't take her on expensive vacations, but respects and adores her while trying to make her feel loved and safe but doesn't always do a very good job of it because of his own personal idiosyncrasies.
I don't think that's caller settling. Having such expectations aren't realistic at all and you're more than likely gonna end up single when you want that much from your partner. My boyfriend is shorter than me, not that funny (but I love making him laugh), he has a little round belly that I love. I'm not materialistic and every time he talks about getting rich, it makes me cringe. And about being good in bed, that requires experience and I don't really like the idea of my partner being with that many women to be skilled. I prefer my boyfriend, he was completely innocent when I met him but I was patient with him and now he's really good in bed (no complaints). I hate abs they look like little lumps inside your body and they suck to cuddle. And neither is it about how big his 'dong' is because the big ones look really weird. Its better to have a guy who knows how to make you feel good before he even unzips his pants. I also hate being called a princess or treated like one. I do want to be respected and loved but more importantly I just want to get back what I give. Realistically speaking, he does make mistakes and he doesn't express that care very well but the perfect man doesn't exist. All that matters is a man who tries.
We have been hearing now for three generation that women don’t need men and most don’t want them, fish and bicycles, blah, blah… So I don’t think they want anything from men and just want to be left alone. I mean I had a few try to pregnant trap me, some just wanted a quickie, and a few tried to grift me. Oh yeah, I did have one try to poison me. Other than that, I don’t think they want anything from men. I believe that women want to be independent and have no dependency on men by making the babies and paying for them too on their own. I have accepted that a while ago.
First off let's start with everyone wants something different, aside from the outllyers pretty much everyone want their basic emotional needs met. In their partner they want safety, security, trust and affection. People talk a lot about looks but many people don't care as much when they know a person, looks open the door a lot of times but you still have to be the right person even with the right looks.
I think relationships have two phasesThe first phase is attraction - this is when you are trying to look good and impress the personThe second phase is selfless love - this is when you are caring for the other person and supporting them and if they are healthy mentally and biologically - they should also care for you and support you
It's biologically proven that women look for a partner who can provide them with the best life, but women also are like children in the fact that if you tell them not to do something they will need to do it, therefore in youth they will go after the bad boys and shit human beings, be sluts, etc.It's only once they hit the wall around 30 that they start to look for the stable, careers based, "mature" male. Which essentially means a guy who can provide financially for them now that society doesn't let them coast through life on looks.
They want everything.To have our love, attention, money, protection, companionship. To get married, to have our children, to get comfortable and established.Then they want to find new exciting people and possibly have an affair and if they can't have their husband and lover too they get divorced and move on.
It happens all the time.
They want a man who accepts their bad behavior. That's basically it.Put up with slut past.Dont want to have kids.Let them party and drink and go out all the time.Work and so they can spend money on materialistic things for themselves.Let them put you down if its funny.Who needs that shit? Women like that are strictly a cunt. Either they are putting out for a hookup or turned out and give a man their money. They aren't useful for anything else unfortunately.
I voted B. That what my wife tells me and that is what i wanted, what other women wants? It's not my problem any more.
It really depends, every woman I have dated has been different. I don't date the idiots that just want money, so I have never run into that problem.
I'm at a loss! I'm in a serious "funk"! Haven't had a girlfriend in almost 4 years. Was married for 24 years and dated a few after my divorce but now? Zilch!
Money maybe not so much, but obviously looks matter to you. If looks really did not matter, then many men and boys would have a partner. Maybe then society would be less miserable and loving with one another.
Money is your ladder to happiness.Money is your shield against injustice.Money is your coat in the chilly winter. It is your ice water in the heat of summer.Money is the key to easy mode in your life.
CorrectionLove is your ladder to happinessThe constitution is your shield to injusticeYourself and your love is the key to survivalAnd last but not least I actually agree with you in the last one but money cannot hug you or talk to you but guess what can DOG'S! Lol
@Heyathere123 You don't have happiness when your debt is sky high and stays with you forever.What kind of justice can you get when your lawyer is overworked, can not remember you, you can't pay the court fees and the penalties?What kind of survival skills can you use when they turned off the gas, the electricity, the water and kicked you out of the house?Homeless, hungry, without a penny. If that's what you want then go for it
@oddwaffle you summed it all perfectly. 👍
Women ultimately want a man with resources, but if she already has resources she wants the sexy man who is in shape. The ideal scenario for any woman is a sexy man with a lot of resources. The next best thing is to get a man with resources, and cheat on him with a sexy man. Look up cad vs dad. This tells you everything you need to know.
I can say this is definitely not true. My boyfriend and I are both in college and I love him even though he doesn't even get any pocket money lol. I find him sexy but maybe others won't because he's not ripped or lean and neither does he have a six pack. He's a shorter guy with a cute little round belly which is great to cuddle. And I ain't got no plans to ever look for anything else.
@Nikidoll17 then you aren't able to get anything better than him, so you settled.
'better' is subjective to every single being. Now if better to you is a ripped body with abs and super rich then I think you're taking other people's superficial views and forcing them on not just yourself but others. Better is a matter of opinion. Could I have gotten a guy with a ripped body? No doubt, a rich guy? Sure. You sure as hell know it's not difficult for women to get the guys they want whereas men struggle. But would he be better than my boyfriend? Nah. That's your opinion. Don't you dare force it down other people's throat or say that it's what 'women' want. If that's your messed perception which you've absorbed from characterless and superficial women, so be it. He Is the best, so don't shove your shallow ass opinion on me.
@Nikidoll17 you could get that man to fuck you, but men like your boyfriends are only useful for commitment. If those desirable men would commit to you, your boyfriend stands no chance.
There are men like that who are open to commitment but I really prefer brains to brawn. I don't even find abs desirable. They freak me out. I hate ripped guys and secondly I'm not materialistic at all. My current boyfriend mentions getting rich and it makes me cringe. So call me weird or whatever you want but he would definitely stand a chance, I've always been drawn to shy, quiet guys who are down to earth as compared to the buff and sometimes grotesque guys who are arrogant and charismatic.
More importantly and realistically speaking, I really dislike people who are born with a silver spoon in their mouth. My boyfriend can get rich once he's done with studies and if I wanted that I'd indulge in the same conversation but I tell him I want a small comfy house as compared to his idea of a larger two story place. He can even work out and get ripped, which he asked me if he should just so he looked better but I told him he didn't even need to because I don't like ripped guys I just told him to exercise a little to stay fit.
So please don't try to me doubt what I want or if I can get better because according to you all women want the same. I know very well what I want and I have it right now. 🙂 but this was nice, thanks for the conversation.
@Nikidoll17 Data shows what I say as the norm for women. You would be a minority if you are being honest.
You all want a daddy that doesn't require a mommy, big money, always happy and watever u want u get and he understands very well he is only happy bbecause you are
Someone who cares about them, who listens to them, who accepts them, who protect them and who love them.
I think every woman want's something different, some might just want a provider while others want some commitment etc... People are too complex to really give a good answer to this xD
Just like with men, they're all different, they don't all want the thing.One could want live while another may want sex while another may want money among other stuff
*love, not live
i know they're looking for a competent, reliable partner. money can often be seen as a proxy for that so that's why dudes often think it's about the money, when it really isn't.
Commitment-love/trust/honesty/communicationAnd also a sense of humor. ;)
money and looks.and ofc u made this open for women to vote as well and ofc they voted Commitment-love/trust/honesty/communication...
Different women have different goals, most want a relationship and long term commitment. some are after money, and some are after sex as well. so it varies from woman to woman.
The number one thing girls seek in a guy is protection, this is why they like tall strong guys.
Not all are the same. Most of the time, it's really confusing... even if they say what they want. They will change their mind later.
Love, protection and respect.
To be dominated and disgraced by him.
Wish I knew lol
Money n sex.
Money and looks
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