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You have to remember that it all boils down to intentions, their standards and how they go about looking for mates, relationships, friendships, etc. In other words, their mentality and how they perceive the world outweigh what kind of person she is, and who they encounter. The sad reality is most girls and women don't really KNOW what they NEED in a partner, but usually, know what they want. And it's conflicting because she is often influenced by others around her and in her life. Realistically speaking, no woman or girl can EVER decide of liking a guy romantically with less time. There has to be a connection. And that connection needs to be beyond looks. Like love at first sight, it is SPIRITUAL. If it's physical, then that's all it is and it may never grow beyond that. You also have to look at the maturity of a person's mindset. For me, I can sense if I like a person [not romantically] or not. I can tell by their character, their heart, actions, and attitudes. I can care less about his looks, body type, etc. If I can feel anything on a soul level, I don't want to know him. Lots of girls like that who 'fall head over heels' so quickly are often dense, and don't know what they're doing. They're following emotions, chemicals, and hormones blindly. And sadly, some men fall for this too. Relationships require a lot more than physical attraction and mental attraction. You need standards: Does this person believe in premarital sex or not? Smoke or not? Watch porn or not?Character: Is this person kind? Are they a selfless person? Do they curse people? Are they always jealous?Morals: Similar to standards, does what they do is morally align to what you believe in especially if you don't do them?Values: Do this person believes it's okay to bully others?You see the way these people interact and see others? It's wrong. The guys are already lusting after the blond woman, calling her 'fine' looking and she's doing the same thing. This is why people have PROBLEMS. They're not falling in love. They're falling in lust, it's all HORMONES. This is why he has a bad history. And this is why those kinds of women always have poor dating history. Nothing stable. No common sense. But if I talk what I talk, all of a sudden I'm a mad crazy bitter woman who's single because I refuse to act like a dunce. He is easily distracted. She's baiting him by using her charms deliberately, sending sexual hints and he doesn't know how to really handle it. This should be a time for him to know who she IS as a person and character. Both concerning about things that do not MATTER. And it's sad. This is how they end up with the wrong kind of people.Thanks for showing us the video. But remember. These are all GAMES. And what you see here is why I refuse to date anybody.
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