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I wouldn't. It would be hurtful to leave since you cared about them and loved them. I would leave because, I'm looking for spouse. Spouses should be a team and be in a position to help each other grow and provide for each other. This can't happen while in jail. Maybe when they get released and they are making better choices for themselves the couple can try again. I personally think it would be better to find someone who knows the new and improved you than someone who remembers mistakes. Mistakes happen and people need to be forgiving especially in a marriage but, some things are just better to leave and forget. Jail is not as simple.
It's heart breaking to see her in there today but she chose to do it and I'm the one struggling without her, is that selfish or perhaps just wait and see but times ticking and I don't know whether to believe she'll try harder or just mugging me off😣
Depends on what they did, if it was something silly like littering, J-walking, I think I could last 1 month-1 year of waiting for them to be released since its not inherently evil but is just a small civil midemeaner.But if it was something more destructive or calculated, like murder, hacking, rape and assault, then I want my ass covered against anything dangerous things they may plan to do to me next or will do. These people are a real danger to society. I'd happily drop them and wait for their long release of 1 year to a lifetime.
It was trying to snuggle drugs into prison for a family member threats were made it she should of knew better and wasn't gaining from it just young and stupid or bad egg?😔
really depends, if it was my current girlfriend then yes
Been on and off for 3 years cos she keeps messing up?
if it's on and off and she goes to prison then I'd probably cut her off, seems like a waste of time
My thoughts exactly but think I'm a sucker for hoping she'll change her ways for me but if she won't do it for a 3 year old child then bad news?
let me tell you what, I'm definitely not the best dude to be giving relationship tips because well let's just say times are a little tough but if you have a kid then I guess she deserves another chance almost always because she's the mother but if she screws up again I say get her out of there
That's what I'm thinking but not my kid just should be enough surely to change? The girl is only just 4 I've been with her 3 years and not met her due to bad exes
I would like to think that to but things aren't always as they seem
Fair play confirms my fears but I'm all about second chances and treating people as I'd like to be treated it's so difficult but heart says don't Give up on the ones I love just hope she's worth it
even if you do give up on her just try to keep her in the child's life unless she poses a threat due to drug abuse and so on
Yeah I think if she wasn't involved I would be out of here like a shot but poor kid deserves more she already has no dad cos he didn't want to believe she was his and refused to go to court I think I have to sacrifice more of my life for the sake of her and finish what I've got myself into for the sake of the hope of a better future for the kid and possible happy ending and a family for us I guess happiness comes at a cost no matter what
it's a tough situation but I'm sure you will make things right
Thank you so much for your replies I think things happen for a reason and maybe I wasn't meant to help her avoid prison but get through it and keep the bond between her family and her child then rewarded with a better future for all of us
you got it man, I believe in you. keep it up being genuine
I don’t date criminals.
Think I would yes
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