I've just realised I misread the question, really sorry ignore this.
I was also a bit confused by the question
Yeah. Thanks. I think I forgot that for it to be "perfect" it has to work on both ends. Communication isn't one persons job. I just get annoyed when I say something whole heartedly and people question it everytime.
I am going to expand on the subject in a wordy way that may hit on what your question is, attacking it from a few angles.Communication is how we interact with other people and do so as a community. If we had the ability to read minds then much of the ways we communicate would become unneeded. Because there is verbal and nonverbal communication I can’t ever see it being perfect because we are all individuals and can’t get into the others head to really see the world as they do.Secondly as this site focuses on genders, men and women in general communicate differently. Women talk a lot more than men and generally will communicate a lot more based on emotion and fostering relationships., Men generally will talk about facts and accomplishing tasks. Usually if he is being honest, what a guy says can be taken literally. However women are much more subtle and they are more willing to hint at something or communicate details that sometimes men can’t pick up on. So your frustration can certainly be shared when the men in their lives don’t ‘listen’ and they feel like they aren’t being heard. Much more can be said here but because of Martians and Venusians perfect communication is a goal not that easily achieved.Lastly regarding your frustration with people questioning you all the time that’s about trust. When you meet a stranger you should question them, be cautious and keep your guard up. Over time as you begin trusting them and building a relationship you can be safer and start to take their words and actions at face value. So if you find those friends and family members who are closest to you are questioning you often, that may be a clue that those relationships need mending and you should build up more trust there. As you correctly stated communication isn’t one persons job so figure out why those people are not understanding and listening to you.
Sort of but when you say it like that it makes me think that what I mentioned in my question has to be the only possibility. Am I missing something?
I was just confused with the question overall. Maybe you can add an example
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