Why don't men like shy girls? I'm so sad, I never had a boyfriend because I'm too shy, and finally, my crush asked me out and after a few dates, he told me that I'm a nice girl but that I am too shy. Needless to say, I cried really hard that night. I can't change who I am, I'm really afraid I'll stay alone forever, I just hate my shyness and hate myself for it! Is there any way to change this situation?