Have you ever been accused of having sex with someone you didn't have sex with?

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So i had this friends with benefits... well, because of her dumb ass attitude, we just made it fuck buddy, but even with that... it didn't help anything. I had a female roommate a while ago, and my fuck buddy tried to play it off cool like she didn't care, but every single second she'll bring up my roommate. Eventually, she did what many women do... destroyed the whole thing, not only did she assume i was having sex with my roommate, she then convinced herself i was, and ended the relationship BASED off of what she assumed.
Now, if i was having sex with my roommate, i wouldn't have cared, but the thing is... i Literally wasn't. Why do women do that? make stuff up, convince themselves its true... and just become judge, Jury, and execute whatever judgement they want?

As for my friends wit... i mean.. fuck buddy... i tolerated the accusations for a while.. i took it that it was insecurity/female craziness... but when i knew it was actual craziness was when i showed up in a government car... and she accused me that it was my female roommates car... thats when i quit. i can tolerate a lot... but, "you can't fix stupid" -Ron White. the license plates on the car literally said "government"... but she said it was my roommates car lol.

Any one else every been accused of having sex with someone you werent having sex with and got judged, no jury, and exiled?

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razelove
Explorer

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Huh, that's a loaded question for me, I have memory problems, sooo, drama comes up when I have legitimately forgotten having sex with someone, or even knowing them, then hitting on them, or being like who the fuck are you? The worst was running into a girl at a Halloween party it seems I had dated for a couple months, she had pictures, so that happened. To me though, it never did. So, no one really does that to me because they know if they don't keep current with me they're just going to disappear anyway. I'd love to say it's terrible, but really having a bad memory is fantastic. I've never been depressed and meet new people all the time :)

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- Tdieseler
  
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  wow... and i thought MY memory was bad...
- razelove
  
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  It comes from my epilepsy, I just thought everyone was like that until I was like... 14 or so I think, I just know it was when the neurologists got serious about looking under the hood. I remember routines, muscle memory, and things I've learned, problem is sometimes I forget where and how I learned them :/
- Tdieseler
  
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  mine is just that i drink too much lol, and when im not.. i dont really care to remember...
Dark93 | 114 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.
Yoda

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Once cops randomly came to my apartment to tell me my girlfriend was missing, which was odd since I've never had a girlfriend. That's as close as I got to what you're asking.

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- Tdieseler
  
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  that is Hilarious... maybe some chick said you were her boyfriend? you know that women do that right? when they like a guy... even before he consents... in her mind she already is in a relationship with you. Kind of goes back to what i said in the question.. i dont get how they do that... literally convince themselves that something that is fictional is real... i'd love to get in on that.
  
  I always say that while girls are being read fairy tales of princesses, and wands and magic and happily ever afters... in the next room... guys are being told that all that shit ain't real lol...
- Dark93
  
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  The only issue with your theory is that I dont know any women really. Unless you count long distance friends that I've never met in person
- Tdieseler
  
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  Sigh... you must live a peaceful life. I can just imagine the tranquility. thats all i have... the imagination... no drama... no "where you at" calls/texts... just peace.
  You can have ALL of mine. You are trying to get with them... im trying to get away from them... women ain't nothing but trouble.
  I was having a talk with the fellas... and I said women are a walking contradiction and all of them hopped off their chairs, hands up, totally agreeing. I can do without the headache really. if it means, im bitter, angry, or hate women... i dont give a fuck... i just want drama that comes with them gone lol...
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- Dark93
  
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  Honestly though, I dont even have friends, nevermimd a girlfriend.
  I'm super depressed partially because of my lack of meaningful human contact.
- Tdieseler
  
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  lol... not only do i not believe that... but if it is true... i can only blame you. cuz literally, all you have to do (unless you are in a bubble) is walk outside the door and say hello to someone. Im a loner and even i have friends...
- Dark93
  
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  I'm not so great with people. 90% of the time they're too irritating to talk to
- Tdieseler
  
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  hahahahaha... omg... yes. I mean.. i can talk to the fellas because we will relate on the same level and probably talk about the same things and if we dont... they (we) can easily be distracted and the subject will change... but talking to a female? its like there's a manual men miss that states "how to talk to a female"... i mean, there was a time when i used to try... and kiss their ass like they like.. now? i just dont give a fuck anymore.
  Talking to a woman is like pulling teeth. they say one thing... do the other.
  but seriously though... you should try to talk to more people... even if its just a couple sentences... i'd recommend starting with the fellas.
- Dark93
  
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  When I do talk to women it's fairly easy, like I just see people as people regardless of their gender, people react certain ways to certain things you say. However if I do become interested I'm a woman it's usually revealed that they "love me like a brother" rather than anything romantic. I'm likeable but not lovable apparently
- Tdieseler
  
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  I guess you aren't that good of a liar then bro... women LOVE liars.. cuz they themselves are full of lies... you wanna talk to a woman and get out of the brotherly friendzone... you have to lie your Ass off... just tell em shit they want to hear. true or not.
  I had this moron woman tell me, i dont know how to talk to a woman... lol.. i was just being honest with her. but that was what i meant... and she was right... i was just talking to a person... and she specifically pointed out that i wasn't lying. I think its because she thought i was trying to hit on her. Just saying Hi to a woman these days and she thinks you are hitting on her or want to get in their pants...

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Daniela1982 | 257 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.
Guru

1 y

So I just assume she was just super needy, or she developed feelings for you which you didn't return so it turned into jealousy as the room mate had you and she didn't, even though she was just a room mate and nothing was going on.

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- Tdieseler
  
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  i dont think that is an assumption... that is a deduction... and an accurate one at that. Now im not mad that she would assume that, i can see why... but what i dont get is why when i ask her to just admit that there may be feelings, or its insecurity, or jealousy or whatever... she TOTALLY denies it. THAT is what irks me.
CHARismatic110
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Nope. But I did have sex with this one guy who after it was all said and done, would lie to people about it ever happening. Crazy huh?

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- Tdieseler
  
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  sounds like a cunt to me... but we all know the truth.. right?
- CHARismatic110
  
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  Sure.
- Tdieseler
  
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  hahahahha... still funny though

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Wowgirl30q
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Yes and it sucks sorry man. You deserve better always

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- Tdieseler
  
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  Really honey... you do know im not a girl right? lol... that support train thing doesn't work on me... tell me some truth girl... has some moronic male (or female) ever done that shit to you? lets hear stories here... im already over that dumb cunt... she's the one that keeps blowing up my phone...
  Im just slightly mad because the sex was great... but i guess the insecurity was greater. wats ur story?
- Wowgirl30q
  
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  I support friends male or female. I didn't say you needed it sir I'm just sweet AF
- Tdieseler
  
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  really? i'd like to see that side... or maybe its just me that brings out that "ima beat their ass"... side of you lol... if it is... i dont blame you... i bring that out in a lotta people... no filter
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- Wowgirl30q
  
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  You have seen it
- Wowgirl30q
  
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  You make me laugh cheers🍻🥃
- Wowgirl30q
  
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  And I will beat their ass
- Tdieseler
  
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  i try to hon... cuz you get it
- Wowgirl30q
  
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  I do and I am loyal so anytime anywhere
- Tdieseler
  
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  i'll bring the gloves...
- Wowgirl30q
  
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  I'll be there 🙂
- Tdieseler
  
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  you free monday?
Nikki1989 | 904 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.
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Yes and it sure caused a lot of drama and cost me a friendship.

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- Tdieseler
  
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  cost me one too...
Agape93 | 664 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.
Master

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Yeap.

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- Tdieseler
  
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  story please? (he says as he pulls out popcorn, candy and whiskey)
- Agape93
  
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  Guy I went to high school with told his friends that we had sex, and that I somehow exclaimed how he was amazing. That I’ve never had a better fucking.
  Issue is, at the time, I was a virgin. Clearly he wasn’t good enough of a lay, couldn’t remember it. ;) nothing exciting but still
- Tdieseler
  
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  hold on... let me get this... so DID you have sex with him?
  I mean I've been in situations where someone said some extra shit about an activity... like how he said you said he was amazing... but my question is did you actually have sex with him and he just exaggerated the story...
  in my experience, people that have to tell others about their sex life... probably suck at it. the ones that dont... you can just tell... cuz the partner always wants to jump their bones... lol. Seen it before.
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- Agape93
  
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  Nope. I’m mocking him. Like saying food you didn’t get to eat, that people say you did, must have been soooo good.
- Tdieseler
  
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  hahahaha... that just reminded me of some racist shit that happened at work.. i wasn't even there and i got pissed hearing about it.
  hold on... so you were the one that said you'd never had a better fucking?
- Agape93
  
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  😔 no
  He said that he rocked my world. He never even entered my world, so I mocked him.
- Tdieseler
  
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  hopefully to the same friends he was talking to...
- Agape93
  
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  Yeap. And to everyone else in earshot. Want to drag my reputation down, ok cool. I can play the game too.
- Tdieseler
  
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  by sarcasm? that can easily be misconstrued as confirmation?

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