I see a lot of hot guys wherever I go, but I don't approach them, that's your job most of the times, unless I already know that he is interested, but is shy...
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fix your insecurity, because you clearly are if your asking advice from here
its not about looks,
just seem interesting to them, be confident, not cocky ... there is a huge difference
Just been good lookign doesn't get you anywhere seriously, girls WANT you to appraoch them. Most of the time they will be checking you out and wishing that you would appraoch them
u sound pretty full of your self that's generally not a quality I'm looking for. also since you asked this anonymously so we have no way of telling if your actually good looking it could all be in your head.
So he is full of himself because he knows he is good looking? He is asking a question and because of the type of question being asked people need to know if he is good looking or not.
Saying that he is full of himself is something a person who lacks confidence would say especially because he is just asking a question.
I agree, I know I’m attractive and have received plenty of validation for this but woman still like to ignore me most of the time. Woman are insecure and afraid of rejection, afraid of being led on, they like to be in control etc so giving a stranger attention and letting themselves be controlled is the last thing they want to do. You have to get to know them and show them your personality to have any chance. Good luck
Simply put, lots of people look good (in shape, confident) including me BUT its the attitude that matters most.. If you're good looking and know it, that's great for your confidence but if your looking at girls while EXPECTING them to be looking at you already, that's what's gonna keep you from getting anywhere.
beleive it or not, while you may be beauitful, you are not going to be every girl's type. girls have types, some like your look and some don't even if you are beauitful. girls are pickier than guys when it comes to looks. just the natural way it is.
/I can only speak for myself, but I'm not stuck up at all! I always smile and I'm friendly. But when I'm alone (example: waiting for the bus) I seem a little distracted or perhaps a bit sad...which may seem to some people as unapproachable or stuck up I guess.../
Don't really know.
But yes, we think that about really good looking guys as well.
If you make eye contact, smile, and he is single and interested he will approach you. Men look for signals that a female is open to a conversation. Problem is most women dont make eye contact, so how could a man know?
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Try to be nice? Make the firs move yourself?
I see a lot of hot guys wherever I go, but I don't approach them, that's your job most of the times, unless I already know that he is interested, but is shy...
fix your insecurity, because you clearly are if your asking advice from here
its not about looks,
just seem interesting to them, be confident, not cocky ... there is a huge difference
be a gentlemen
and don't seem desperate, make them come to you,
Just been good lookign doesn't get you anywhere seriously, girls WANT you to appraoch them. Most of the time they will be checking you out and wishing that you would appraoch them
Exactly no lass is ever going to go upto a lad who might reject her shed rather look and wish he'd move his ass and notice her
u sound pretty full of your self that's generally not a quality I'm looking for. also since you asked this anonymously so we have no way of telling if your actually good looking it could all be in your head.
So he is full of himself because he knows he is good looking? He is asking a question and because of the type of question being asked people need to know if he is good looking or not.
Saying that he is full of himself is something a person who lacks confidence would say especially because he is just asking a question.
I agree, I know I’m attractive and have received plenty of validation for this but woman still like to ignore me most of the time. Woman are insecure and afraid of rejection, afraid of being led on, they like to be in control etc so giving a stranger attention and letting themselves be controlled is the last thing they want to do. You have to get to know them and show them your personality to have any chance. Good luck
Simply put, lots of people look good (in shape, confident) including me BUT its the attitude that matters most.. If you're good looking and know it, that's great for your confidence but if your looking at girls while EXPECTING them to be looking at you already, that's what's gonna keep you from getting anywhere.
if you are good looking then it can be extremely intimadating.i would never approach an attractive guy.i figure he's either taken or out of my league
Would you make eye contact with a man if you wanted him to approach you?
beleive it or not, while you may be beauitful, you are not going to be every girl's type. girls have types, some like your look and some don't even if you are beauitful. girls are pickier than guys when it comes to looks. just the natural way it is.
Man up and talk to the girl. She could be intimidated but before you go up to her make sure she is giving you signals that she is interested
some girls just don't approach guys. not saying they don't think your not hot just not their personality. just approach them
:O my o my I asked a question today and it was the exact opposite of yours ! lmao :/ siigh we preety people have it hard :/
We don't want to come across as desperate or anything and a lot believe the guy should make the first move.
Because I am too busy snatching them up.
While you sit there on the sidelines waiting for one to come to you :)
Well..then why guys don't approach me and I'm extremely good looking?!?
Yeah...it goes both ways buddy...
Hot girls are just downright scary, and they look mean and stuck up...
Hahaha
Well...same to you buddy.
--no, really, we think you're stuck up too.
/I can only speak for myself, but I'm not stuck up at all! I always smile and I'm friendly. But when I'm alone (example: waiting for the bus) I seem a little distracted or perhaps a bit sad...which may seem to some people as unapproachable or stuck up I guess.../
Don't really know.
But yes, we think that about really good looking guys as well.
So you've answered your own question. :P
If you make eye contact, smile, and he is single and interested he will approach you. Men look for signals that a female is open to a conversation. Problem is most women dont make eye contact, so how could a man know?
haha turn your cockyness down a bit, and see what happens
Confidence is even more important than looks believe it or not.
maybe your confidence is intimidating. Not all pretty girls know they are.
Good looking men need to approach good looking women, Good looking women need to approach good looking men.
...Why? because no one will approach them
...Why? because their good looking.
sometimes you have to have a good personality as well to pass the test I guess.
Ok I could understand if you were a girl and were askin this question. But you're a guy. Girls expect YOU to approach THEM. That's just the way it is