most of the time, a woman will never speak to the man first. often times, they will use body language to communicate to him that she's interested, which i think would be considered the same thing anyways. it's especially annoying when you see women generalizing men as all the same. no, you are generalizing the men that hit on you. the men that hit on lots of women are generally looking for sex and are less likely to be loyal. are women really too stupid to realize that? do women think they are too good to make the first move?