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Even the ones I haven’t dated are like that.
No we're not. You're just generalizing to cover your own mistakes. Or try to, anyway. I suspect you got exactly what you wanted out of those relationships, and now you're ready to settle down. Maybe even pregnant and the guy bolted. So now the consequences for the decisions you've made are weighing on you and you see this facade of "hate" as your way out.But let's be brutally honest for a second: even if it were true, it's still on you. If it took you until now to look for someone responsible, you're either dumb or irresponsible yourself. Whether black men are inherently irresponsible or not, you either willingly ignored it to get what you wanted, or you were too stupid to see it. The bottom line is that you wanted irresponsible men. Now you're looking for a responsible one to take care of you. And once you find that, chances are pretty good you're gonna go behind his back and cheat with the same irresponsible men you've always craved. A person's past is the most accurate means for predicting their future. Gamblers are gonna roll the dice, junkies are gonna chase, and hoes gonna hoe.
I had a co-worker she'll date anybody except her own race and also if the guy was from overseas it's an additional bonus to her but her dating rules applies. No whites but all others we're fine with her.