Girls always push away ugly and poor guys?

Question

So it is clear that we ugly poor guys have no hope whatsoever when it comes to girls, since only the hot rich douchebags are the ones that get noticed. We will always live in depression because of this abnormality and have negative outlook in life. Girls never give interest to us and that says a lot for us lesser forms and they always give me the cold shoulder. I mean they always said that they're "not interested" in us and would only worship the obnoxious hot ones.

Hot rich guys have it so easy since they can land girls anytime without rejection and hesitation and us ugly rich guys get treated like garbage. I don't think girls understand that at all. I've never seen a hot rich guy get alienated or rejected by girls.

Worst part is that girls never follow me in instagram and other social media. A photo of a guy showing his abs and money gets more likes that all of my posts combined. Everytime I message a girl I always get left on seen which is just depressing.

Answer 1

Anonymous

Personally, if you think that the only things a girls looks for is looks and money, you are pretty closed minded.
Guys that I have dated have been attractive to date for their personality, interests, how they present themselves not for how many abs they have or what's in their wallet...
You are coming across equally as shallow as the girls you seem to dislike so rather than complaining start thinking what is great about you and promote it...

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Groove24

1 y
"How they present themselves" sounds like I still have to be good looking in the end sigh and there is nothing great about me. I never party or go out a lot, I'm an introvert who prefers traveling alone or chilling at home, and I barely have any friends because I'm not popular.
Opinion Owner

1 y
When I say present themselves, it sint physical looks. Things like confidence and being clearly dressed... but honestly just being passionate about stuff you like is something I think is good.
Nothing wrong with being an introvert though, I presume you still have things you like to do?
Groove24

1 y
Yeah of course I have things I like to do.
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Opinion Owner

1 y
Then sharing interests can also be a great way to get a person chatting... the people I'm interested in are usually the ones who I have been chatting to for hours and haven't noticed the time
Groove24

1 y
But the problem is... not sure if girls will like my interests. They are:

- Video gaming
- Blogging
- Photography
- Graphic Designing
- Basketball
- Fashion
- Anime

I usually prefer chilling at either home or a local library or cafe.
Groove24

1 y
and also Travel is one of my interests.
Opinion Owner

1 y
As a fellow gamer and lover of anime, I can concur that there are females that like it 👍
But in all seriousness, photography and graffic design are artistic skills, and again there are girls that really dig that.
You need to focus less on your worries about how you look or your confidence, and focus on the skills and hobbies you are passionate about and then I'm sure your confidence will radiate. Many girls just want to date a nice, interesting guy they can spent time with :)
Groove24

1 y
I guess that's all true. Although is it weird that I would rather do those hobbies alone and not being the party type. I did mention before that I don't like parties and clubs because they're too shallow.
Opinion Owner

1 y
This is fair, I am one for spending more time alone. Mainly art and crafts, although video gaming I also do when friends come over. It isn't werid to like your alone time :)

Answer 2

Groove24

"How they present themselves" sounds like I still have to be good looking in the end sigh and there is nothing great about me. I never party or go out a lot, I'm an introvert who prefers traveling alone or chilling at home, and I barely have any friends because I'm not popular.

Answer 3

Opinion Owner

When I say present themselves, it sint physical looks. Things like confidence and being clearly dressed... but honestly just being passionate about stuff you like is something I think is good.
Nothing wrong with being an introvert though, I presume you still have things you like to do?

Answer 4

Groove24

Yeah of course I have things I like to do.

Answer 5

Opinion Owner

Then sharing interests can also be a great way to get a person chatting... the people I'm interested in are usually the ones who I have been chatting to for hours and haven't noticed the time

Answer 6

Groove24

But the problem is... not sure if girls will like my interests. They are:

- Video gaming
- Blogging
- Photography
- Graphic Designing
- Basketball
- Fashion
- Anime

I usually prefer chilling at either home or a local library or cafe.

Answer 7

Groove24

and also Travel is one of my interests.

Answer 8

Opinion Owner

As a fellow gamer and lover of anime, I can concur that there are females that like it 👍
But in all seriousness, photography and graffic design are artistic skills, and again there are girls that really dig that.
You need to focus less on your worries about how you look or your confidence, and focus on the skills and hobbies you are passionate about and then I'm sure your confidence will radiate. Many girls just want to date a nice, interesting guy they can spent time with :)

Answer 9

Groove24

I guess that's all true. Although is it weird that I would rather do those hobbies alone and not being the party type. I did mention before that I don't like parties and clubs because they're too shallow.

Answer 10

Opinion Owner

This is fair, I am one for spending more time alone. Mainly art and crafts, although video gaming I also do when friends come over. It isn't werid to like your alone time :)

Answer 11

Marilynjuana | 209 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Yoda

I don't agree with the "hot rich douchebag" statement. I have been attracted to guys on the poorer side and I have been attracted to the guys on the more unattractive side. Why, because they made themselves desirable. Instead of blaming everyone around you, switch things around and work on yourself to be attractive and desirable. Reading this shallow ass post gives me an idea why you can't land a girl.

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Groove24

1 y
So I still have to be physically and financially impressive in the end? Smh
Marilynjuana

1 y
No I'd suggest you do something to make yourself more of a catch, it just depends on whom you want to catch. If your goal truly is a shallow bimbo then yeah. Get yourself rich and ripped.
Groove24

1 y
Thing is... I don't want to be a shallow bimbo. Is that wrong?

Answer 12

Groove24

So I still have to be physically and financially impressive in the end? Smh

Answer 13

Marilynjuana

No I'd suggest you do something to make yourself more of a catch, it just depends on whom you want to catch. If your goal truly is a shallow bimbo then yeah. Get yourself rich and ripped.

Answer 14

Groove24

Thing is... I don't want to be a shallow bimbo. Is that wrong?

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