I tried to help her at work, but didn't want to confuse her. I can't be with her, but I'm attracted to her. The more I'm around her the more I want her and the more she touches me. She's never done that in a crowd, but has when I helped her. She tried to help me a lot as well, I honestly like her, but must keep it platonic as I can't get more involved with her. I only talked to her in person, never sought her number so I wouldn't get more conflicted. If she sincerely needed help, I'd gladly offer it, but it's risky so it's best I keep my distance. We are only compatible on one level, though it is the most apparent level, it comes second to beliefs.
You shouldn't even be THINKING about dealing with coworkers. Why you people do this is beyond me. Your there to work. Not date. If she is tempting you into wrong places than cut her off and stay away. It's your choice to continue to torture yourself with that. Let somebody else help her or direct her to somebody who can.
I don't work with her anymore, but I go to the same college as her. I met her at work, but she only tried things there. I kept it strictly polite and talked to her during breaks. She would touch me randomly through the shift. I still want to be a good friend, but I'm not sure that can be reached. I can try to keep things platonic, but do you think she can. Up until the last day we worked together she randomly touched me. I think its healthy to have female friends, but it can be difficult, especially is she doesn't want it to be platonic. There will only be one woman I will be beyond platonic, but she must share faith.
Stop allowing her to touch you. It shouldn't be done, as long as you continue to say nothing she will continue overstepping your boundaries
It's difficult with females, I try to avoid and dodge, but I can't hit a female unless she's hitting me and is as strong as me. Guys I just shove, yell at, or hit, but I can't do any of those things to a woman. If she is built like a man, then I'd consider more force, but I am programmed not to respond that way to women. Obviously I still don't have a working strategy for this, but I'm working towards it. Also, I don't know how much of this I should expect from women, it seems like most women touch anyways, I understand she touched more and I know why she did, but it feels like it would be an all or nothing situation. Every woman I know touched me occasionally, the only difference with her was the frequency and location. The other women mostly my arm, shoulder, and occasionally the neck. She touched my arm, upper back, waist, and lower back. Random women mostly touched my arm, one woman grabbed at my cheeks and lightly hit my chest. I don't know how to process this as my instinct is at a loss. I flinch, move away, have the look of confusion, this stops the randoms, but the women I talk to frequently seem to not be dissuaded. Random women put me in shock, but women I know don't do it as often.
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