Why do guys love girls who know how to “ put people in their place” ?

[Roseinbloom]

I would like to know this too. Guys have been attracted to me and some have been intimidated by me because I can be very blunt honest, loud, very tomboy (almost as a male in a womans body tomboy at times), very smart yet humble, yet I can be feminine, sweet, shy/quiet, lady like in ways when need to. Both ends of each "spectrum" very well. I would rather play in the mud, play sports instead of watch them, running barefoot, etc instead of going to a spa, getting dolled up any day!
Other things too but I want to know out of curiosity not to brag or anything. I'm just curious.

[mattmanyah2]

So why I like that Is pretty simple I don't like it done when not necessary. The reason why is let's say we are married and you never stick up for yourself I say I want this and you want that but you never say it. So we get this over and over again and you start to resent me because you think I do it on purpose. Over and over again when we finally get this you either throw a big fit and I don't know why or you leave and I still don't know why. Now let's say you mention that you want that (and just like putting someone in their place) you put your foot down I know what you want you know what I want we can get this and that If you hate this we can get it less if you hate that we could get it less so instead of us having one big fight (that ends or cripples the relationship) we can have a bunch of small fights or conversations (which would benefit us both)

[ItsTheNephilim]

It maybe so in your experience. A girl putting people in their places prevents a lot of drama for the guy themselves. Some guys might like it, some guys would still prefer a much more submissive girl. This attitude does give a sense of confidence though, it's attractive in my opinion.

[bpowel]

Bc it shows there level of intelligence. Someone who can put a person in their place by out sitting them is probably smart. Any direct show of you as a girl is attractive. Whether your showing it on purpose or accidentally

[Anonymous]

I'm dating a woman now who is one of the sweetest people I have ever met and makes me question what sort of charity she's working for to be going out with me.

That said, I once listened to her tell off a mechanic who was trying to rip her off on a rocker arm replacement to her car. Never have I been more turned on.

[ChocoBrownieMonster]

They won't keep complaining and get upset all the time when they have a bad experience.

[nousername26]

No, i prefer softer. Nobody wants bi-polar in a woman. I'd rather something in the middle on the lower end of pushover/pleasant nice girl.

[888theGreat]

That is why I like Red heads , they will get mad and tell you to go to Hell.

[Anonymous]

I don’t like those kinds of chicks. Very masculine.

[OutdoorsForLife]

Just be yourself. Of you fake behavior to be submissive and sweet that’s a turn off. We want to love the real person, not the illlusion.

[magiusX26]

its because he wants a girlfriend and not a kid he has to watch over her every minute of the day.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Guys like spunky girls

[Linda5368]

They feel more secure

[asshole_]

shows confidence