Why can't girls just say they're not interested instead of using the I'm too busy excuse?

[bobalife]

Sometimes, a girl can be just really busy - work can be overwhelming, personal life has a lot going on and can’t be share, or she does a lot in her life that she don’t know how to managed with making time with you. she could still be seeing how she feels about you. Or she has commitment issues.


You could give her some space without trying for 1-2 days to see if she will miss you and chase you back.


Other than those things, I think some girls has a hard time saying they’re not interested without hurting the guy or having the guy being rude and disrespectful with her response.


However, if you’re not feeling this.. maybe it’s time to move on rather you may or may not wanna talk about it with her.

[Vxxse]

Don't generalize when some girls did this to you, please. I agree that no one can be too busy to answer even with one line (which takes like 10 seconds to write and send), so yeah, they probably just didn't want to hurt you. But that doesn't mean that they can't be actually busy at that moment - it's only an excuse when they keep doing that without adding anything else to the conversation.

[girlzruleboyzdrool]

Bc they don’t want to hurt your feelings by telling you that they’re not into you