Girls, Girls (single and straight ladies), do any of you ever get genuinely lonely and just want a guy?

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(Straight ladies only, please. Preferably single, as well. It's okay if you are gay/queer, but I'm only concerned about how women feel about liking men. Not other women.)

Girls, Girls (single and straight ladies), do any of you ever get genuinely lonely and just want a guy?

Do any of you ever get lonely and just long for or desire a good man to be with at night? And I don't mean the "single by choice, waiting for Mr. Right/Perfect to come along" version of "single" either. I mean, you're actually single, lonely, and just want a good decent man, but can't find any who are also single, or won't treat you really badly.

Does that ever happen to women? Especially women under 35. Has it ever happened to women in the past, even before these modern woke anti-male times we're living in? I only ask because I've never met a lonely woman before. Every straight woman I knew were single by choice (with ridiculous high standards, to boot), or not-single.

Answer 1

Anonymous

Yes, I do get lonely at times and wish that I had a man to be with at night or at any time. It's only gotten worse since I now live by my self. Wanting a friend and companion not just someone to sleep with.

Answer 2

mindNsoul | 94 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

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I am waiting for the right man it doesn't mean I have no longing for companionship! Simply I'm just reserving that for the right man 🤷‍♀️

MCheetah

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So your answer to the question is No, then.
mindNsoul

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That's not what I said. My answer is clear. These two things are not either or or. Your assumption is wrong. and let me clarify.

When a religious person is practicing sexual abstinence it does not mean he has no sexual desire, urges, or temptations. The assumption itself is wrong.

So being single because you are waiting to find compatibility and love does not mean you have no desire of companionship Or that you don't need or want a man. And that you don't have feelings of belonging to a man's hear. With all due respect but you are wrong sir.
mindNsoul

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MCheetah

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I was asking about that, though. I was asking if women get genuinely lonely and genuinely want to be with someone, but are unable to take care of that problem in the moment. If you are purposely being highly selective, then you can't also say you're lonely, because you're *choosing* to be in that position. Unless I misunderstood something.
mindNsoul

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Well you make a lot of assumptions but that's up to you. If you ask a question you have to be willing to receive new perspective otherwise what's the point in asking!

Kindly take my answer as it is. Not what you think I meant and not contaminated with your previous assumptions.

My answer was simple and direct and gave you an example. I'll try again. 'Waiting simply doesn't mean you're incapable to feel human emotions'. So you do get lonely, frustrated, sometimes you even doubt yourself. But you're justifying dealing with that pain by keeping your eyes on the bigger picture. Is this feeling worse or being in the wrong relationship is? also, if I spend time being with the wrong man than I am not available for the right man. Because I personally don't cheat. And I don't use people feelings to pass time until I find my one and later dump them. So in my world I don't want to be manipulative and I don't want to lead anyone on just because I can't sleep a day alone.

Now, if you were forced to be lonely because of rejection and not because you're looking then I completely understand that your pain would be more. But it doesn't give you the right to assume that no one else feels lonely but you.
mindNsoul

27 d
I do get lonely 🌹
MCheetah

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Thank you for clarifying.

Answer 3

MCheetah

So your answer to the question is No, then.

Answer 4

mindNsoul

That's not what I said. My answer is clear. These two things are not either or or. Your assumption is wrong. and let me clarify.

When a religious person is practicing sexual abstinence it does not mean he has no sexual desire, urges, or temptations. The assumption itself is wrong.

So being single because you are waiting to find compatibility and love does not mean you have no desire of companionship Or that you don't need or want a man. And that you don't have feelings of belonging to a man's hear. With all due respect but you are wrong sir.

Answer 5

mindNsoul

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Answer 6

MCheetah

I was asking about that, though. I was asking if women get genuinely lonely and genuinely want to be with someone, but are unable to take care of that problem in the moment. If you are purposely being highly selective, then you can't also say you're lonely, because you're *choosing* to be in that position. Unless I misunderstood something.

Answer 7

mindNsoul

Well you make a lot of assumptions but that's up to you. If you ask a question you have to be willing to receive new perspective otherwise what's the point in asking!

Kindly take my answer as it is. Not what you think I meant and not contaminated with your previous assumptions.

My answer was simple and direct and gave you an example. I'll try again. 'Waiting simply doesn't mean you're incapable to feel human emotions'. So you do get lonely, frustrated, sometimes you even doubt yourself. But you're justifying dealing with that pain by keeping your eyes on the bigger picture. Is this feeling worse or being in the wrong relationship is? also, if I spend time being with the wrong man than I am not available for the right man. Because I personally don't cheat. And I don't use people feelings to pass time until I find my one and later dump them. So in my world I don't want to be manipulative and I don't want to lead anyone on just because I can't sleep a day alone.

Now, if you were forced to be lonely because of rejection and not because you're looking then I completely understand that your pain would be more. But it doesn't give you the right to assume that no one else feels lonely but you.

Answer 8

mindNsoul

I do get lonely 🌹

Answer 9

MCheetah

Thank you for clarifying.

Answer 10

chapawapa

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Yes I get lonely but im not into casual stuff and im not going to settle for someone to fill that position. My dog, family and friend help with loneliness...

Answer 11

JosyJosy | 1.2K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Master

I used to have my lonely moments ya, like I do love to cuddle, and being so close to someone is something I missed

Answer 12

txsnara

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yes. but, I've been lonely without a man for my whole life. never had a boyfriend. so, im used to it sorta

Answer 13

hopegirly

Xper 4

Yeah!!! Sometimes i jfeel unprotected and i just want a man to hold me and tell me i am safe :(

Answer 14

Sweetener_

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Yes, most of the time I feel like that, but I try not to dwell on it.

Girls, Girls (single and straight ladies), do any of you ever get genuinely lonely and just want a guy?

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