Why would she be like this suddenly?

Question

Suddenly she’s been acting guarded and protecting herself and I don’t know why.
I met this girl a few weeks ago and everything was great we connected had chemistry and we opened up to each other talked about our pasts and felt like we were getting close and she’s acting like this now and being cold.

Answer 1

btbc92

Master

She wants a friendship, not a relationship. And because she see that she is supposedly falling in love with you, she's gotten herself because that's not what she wants. She doesn't mind seeking your attention as long as it's platonic. But she's not seeking anything more. But at the same time if she tells you that then she's afraid that you're going to leave her and abandon her because you're not getting what you want.

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Asker

1 y
She wants to be friends but can’t help herself having stronger feelings for me? Is that why she looks scared because she’s afraid of losing my friendship? How can I bring it up with her and tell her that I’m happy just to be friends?
btbc92

1 y
Just tell her. She needs a direct answer.

Answer 2

Asker

She wants to be friends but can’t help herself having stronger feelings for me? Is that why she looks scared because she’s afraid of losing my friendship? How can I bring it up with her and tell her that I’m happy just to be friends?

Answer 3

btbc92

Just tell her. She needs a direct answer.

Answer 4

Rasaalaaa

Xper 1

How much information did you guys share? Did she tell you personal things? Maybe she is embarrassed that she told you too much?

To be honest, if she keeps being awkward you should just ask her directly. Communication is the best! Ask her if she is okay and if anything has happend? And if she says nothing then say that you have noticed that things are weird!

I hope you guys will sort things up😁👍🏾

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Asker

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We shared only a few personal things so far. I did exactly that, I asked her directly and asked her if everything was ok between us. And she said yes but I said I feel like things have changed and you’re kinda avoiding me and she said no and went red in the face. Then we started talking normally again but a few days after same thing is happening
Rasaalaaa

1 y
Ohhh why will she ignore you again!! let me think 🤔 Talk to her again normally, like how are you etc? Then if she is awkward again try to just ignore her for some days and she her reaction.. I feel like I don't know how to give you advice because
I don't understand why she is ignoring you. It must be two things that I can think of. 1. It may be that she has a problem that she can't talk about or 2. She is just a person that doesn't talk much. What type of person is she? Like is she shy type or a person that talk with other people.
Is she like that just with you or with other people too?
Asker

1 y
I’m not sure why but it’s annoying me. She’ll be fine talking to everyone else except me. We do talk but not as much anymore. She’ll be trying to make me jealous as well which I don’t understand. It’s like something has happened or changed and she can’t tell me. Yeah she’s a shy type of girl but we spoke all the time and our convos were effortless and just clicked. I have recently ignored her and she seems mad but I don’t know what she wants and it’s frustrating and I can’t seem to talk to her about it
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Rasaalaaa

1 y
😩 To be honest, you should just ignore her for some days. I think maybe she is confused of something. Just let her be for sometime. It will be good for you too. I hope you will find out more about what she is thinking ☺️ and it looks like she is really confused about her feelings. Why would she do make you jealous and then ignore you? So just take break from this for some days
Asker

1 y
Yeah I think she maybe confused about her feelings for some reason. I feel like she maybe trying to make jealous and ignoring me trying to play hard to get and make me chase her

Answer 5

Asker

We shared only a few personal things so far. I did exactly that, I asked her directly and asked her if everything was ok between us. And she said yes but I said I feel like things have changed and you’re kinda avoiding me and she said no and went red in the face. Then we started talking normally again but a few days after same thing is happening

Answer 6

Rasaalaaa

Ohhh why will she ignore you again!! let me think 🤔 Talk to her again normally, like how are you etc? Then if she is awkward again try to just ignore her for some days and she her reaction.. I feel like I don't know how to give you advice because
I don't understand why she is ignoring you. It must be two things that I can think of. 1. It may be that she has a problem that she can't talk about or 2. She is just a person that doesn't talk much. What type of person is she? Like is she shy type or a person that talk with other people.
Is she like that just with you or with other people too?

Answer 7

Asker

I’m not sure why but it’s annoying me. She’ll be fine talking to everyone else except me. We do talk but not as much anymore. She’ll be trying to make me jealous as well which I don’t understand. It’s like something has happened or changed and she can’t tell me. Yeah she’s a shy type of girl but we spoke all the time and our convos were effortless and just clicked. I have recently ignored her and she seems mad but I don’t know what she wants and it’s frustrating and I can’t seem to talk to her about it

Answer 8

Rasaalaaa

😩 To be honest, you should just ignore her for some days. I think maybe she is confused of something. Just let her be for sometime. It will be good for you too. I hope you will find out more about what she is thinking ☺️ and it looks like she is really confused about her feelings. Why would she do make you jealous and then ignore you? So just take break from this for some days

Answer 9

Asker

Yeah I think she maybe confused about her feelings for some reason. I feel like she maybe trying to make jealous and ignoring me trying to play hard to get and make me chase her

Answer 10

Wise4myage | 1.4K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Master

She might feel she's revealed too much, but giver her some time, and try not to let it bother you unless it becomes hard to communicate.

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1 y
It’s starting to bother me I can’t help it. It’s like she’s acting weird. She will also try to get my attention but then not talk to me, as well as talk to everyone else except me. Then catch her staring it’s doing my head in
Wise4myage

1 y
Then just ask her if anything is wrong.
Asker

1 y
I did but she said no, then I said because I feel like I may have done something wrong and you’re avoiding me and she said I’m not avoiding you and went red. Then we talked normally after but now she’s acting like this again
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Wise4myage

1 y
Try to be patient for the time being.

Answer 11

Asker

It’s starting to bother me I can’t help it. It’s like she’s acting weird. She will also try to get my attention but then not talk to me, as well as talk to everyone else except me. Then catch her staring it’s doing my head in

Answer 12

Wise4myage

Then just ask her if anything is wrong.

Answer 13

Asker

I did but she said no, then I said because I feel like I may have done something wrong and you’re avoiding me and she said I’m not avoiding you and went red. Then we talked normally after but now she’s acting like this again

Answer 14

Wise4myage

Try to be patient for the time being.

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