So I feel im already getting up there in age im not married but have a boyfriend for years. We plan on eventually getting married.. but the thought of having a baby terrifies me as much as I would want to be a mom. Every person I know tells me how great I am with kids but im so scared to go through labor like I get anxiety just thinking about it. I've heard different stories yet people keep having kids so how bad can it be. Is it really bad?