No dude, just no
@-Asca- Feel free to elaborate on what I am wrong about.
My thing is, I don't exactly advise going near naked everywhere, but at the same time, I have a huge principle of freedom and if it's 110 F, if a girl has the most skin showing outfit possible, no, I'm not going to judge, simply because I'd rather less people sweating all uncomfortable. Just like I don't judge a guy for jogging with a shirt off. Especially in this society, remember, if we start expecting girls to cover up 24/7, what is then going to be imposed on men? Are we going to have to be all the time in stuffy suits like in the 1800s? No thanks. Remember a huge reason the founding fathers were grouchy af when the constitution was being drafted was cause society deemed it necessary to make everyone cover up 24/7. A bit hotter and perhaps it would have delayed things or even killed one of them and changed the course of history.
@errorgoodnameunfound You're speaking from a idealistic point of view. Facts and reality remain. Women who show more skin than necessary will risk getting cat-called and be objectified more often. That's just how it is. Therefore, it is important to act accordingly. There are women who love the attention and those who do not. No one said a woman should cover herself 24/7. It won't stop the objectification if they do not cover. Plain and simple.
Oh no I'm not arguing against that. I know realistically they'll get catcalled and such even in modest clothing sometimes. What I am saying is that if a woman wants to go wearing whatever, I am not going to encourage or stop her and in fact, I've been the one to tell guys around me to stop with the catcalling already because it's stupid, pointless, and draws unwanted attention. I do what I can to encourage guys not to be simps and worship pussy, but women don't always help themselves with it, that's for sure. But anyways, I do think guys need to take a stand and encourage each other to stop worshiping pussy because not only do girls feel uncomfortable from it, it's also used to push the notion that guys are basically just horny dogs and little more. I don't think any guy wants to be seen as little more than a horny dog.
@errorgoodnameunfound Exactly. Women can wear whatever they want, they just have to suck up to the consequences. I'm also actively shaming simps and educating those in real life to stop becoming one. Funny enough, some of them listened, opened their eyes and start to see progress in their dating life. These simps just need a push in the right direction. It's sad what has become of today's "men".
Good on you. I wouldn't necessarily blame younger men by default, as they can't help how they were raised, but yeah, when the simps don't fucking understand the evidence right in front of them, it's quite fuckin annoying.
I've always believed that if someone is looking for companionship, honesty, always there for you, loves you unconditionally, understands you - then get a pet (dog, cat, etc.)
@David92506 Yes! My cats are perfect! 😺
Sorry to hear that. Cats are true love. 😺
@el_Te_de_la_Rosa Thanks, and I agree!
Totally agreed. Some women think these behaviors are flirting. It's actually sexual harassment. Well, one thing I learned is if someone you've got to know for some time does it once and you ignore, he will keep pushing on you. You'd rather tell him right away the first time he disrespects you that you don't like how he treats you. For strangers, I think it's safer to ignore them.
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Exactly. I just love the hypocrisy that they complain about getting objectified while they themselves are also to blame for this. They can't seem to comprehend that if they wear revealing clothes and or behave a certain way, they attract those who objectify them. While a woman who does the opposite won't have to deal with such behavior as much
@TruthBringer Simply put and the truth - dress like a slut, be treated like one.Just like rich men driving a Ferrari and flaunting with money, they attract gold diggers.
Hmm funny bc when I was 15, I was constantly being cat called and harrassed by older men and I dressed like a teenager. I guys are just haters
@Tiffyk That's indeed an issue. Even young girls get harassed. No underaged girl should experience this, especially not from older dudes with no manners. Yet, it doesn't take away truth of what we said. It's mostly in the hands of women. Every woman will get catcalled regardless of how she carries herself. But others more due to what they choose to wear.
@TruthBringer I see
@TruthBringer Sad but true. Even it's their mommies. Some men can't keep their mouths closed.
be proud of the fact that God made you a woman and keep covered up so that those men do not take advantage of you
Hi old bitch. As you see I was covered up in only jeans and a shirt. Go bible bash somewhere else
Hey that’s mean.She didn’t say that you didn’t cover up enough, she said to continue doing what you are doing.
Even so, women shouldn’t HAVE to cover up especially a teenage girl. Men shouldn’t cat all women or children.
"men do not abuse women" If you don't preach!
But being approaching is not bad. Most men would kill to have women approach them
Now you make me wonder if the old guys got that way because of experience or if they were always respectful. I’m the latter.
I grew up on harem animes so i was corrupted before i knew it.
@EyesOfGod Which one? There will be a day you'll get bored of it? I did since many manga/anime these days start the story with a naked girl on the main make character's bed. Very creative. Bruh.
Seriously lol 😂 like high school dxd or kampfer
@EyesOfGod Oh I just watched some eps. I used to like them until the plots are repetitive. Well, I think many "harem" genre are fine and focus on how a male character actually cares for only one woman. Other females who are not the main one are to help him grow. Eh? I like "Tales of Wedding Rings." @RingOfFire I'm sorry. Lol.
@el_Te_de_la_Rosa No apologies needed. I learned something about something I knew nothing about from your conversation. Those things are not from my generation, but most of the stuff you are talking about always seems like soft porn characters to me. It seems very sexualized. But maybe that's just because I'm a guy. ;-)
Thank you. It is. Girl's comics bore me. I found them really illogical because I don't understand how women in the fictions fall in love that way. So I turned to boy's comics, and I learned how men fall in love. Of course it's mostly lust. There is a term "fan services" - Boobs, booties, panties scenes. It's sexualizing women. Still, good stories are not only full of those pics. Male characters need to improve themselves to win over their crush as the story goes. Alas, some of them are nothing but perversion.
Don't knock perversion 'till you try it. ;-)
Tbf women don't contribute anything other than their holes
I guess your mom didn’t give you enough love huh
@NorthShoreCalling the world will be fine without mothers too. Civilization will in fact prosper and advance more rapidly.The only thing women contribute is turning is gender studies majors and daytime talkshows about how much they want to cut off penises.
Exactly! To be respected be worthy of respect.
Demand it huh
How is that lol
How do you demand respect
First of all, I earn it (sometimes fail, but overall I do try my best... all human 🤷♀️). I respect myself and give other people reason to respect me. In the case with men, I don't go flashing everything I have or seeking attention with it and then asking them not to look at me in a sexual or disgusted way because that's stupid and it's not my world. Respect and ethics go hand-in-hand.And to demand it, obviously it is to be demanded, as long as obviously you give a reason for it to be. Either the guy shows me respect or he doesn't communicate with me. I won't tolerate a disrespectful man. If you're gonna have any part of my life then you're gonna respect me. For example, I don't have sex with every man I meet and I refuse to, and it saves me a lot of problems that many other women now run into here in the U. S., although where I'm from ethics are a lot more appreciated than in America. So the majority of my ethics (and morals but will avoid religion topic here) come from how I was raised, but I'm thankful for it. I respect myself, and I know my value, and as long as I'm not in a stuck-up moment (lol I'm human, it happens, let's be honest here) then I expect the guy to both know his own value and also to appreciate mine by his actions.And I'm not good at explaining this in words at all, so I hope that answered it
I notice many guys stop trying to have meaningful conversations avoid getting to know her when she quickly has sex or shows herself to him naked or in revealing clothes. Guys keep it sexual after that
@Kit_Kat88 And it's understandable. I mean, if something is easy then why even put up a fight lol
@Yads_Is_Back FINALLY a woman who gets it. You can't expect respect if you dress like an escort. It doesn't work that way. Both men and women who dress and behave in a self-respectable manner deserve respect. A woman who flashes her assets is far more likely to get cat-called than a woman who dresses classy/profesionally.I don't even think you need to demand respect. I believe it will come to you with ease from the right people. Anyone who doesn't respect a woman who is a bit more conservative is a fool (given that the woman isn't oozing toxin from her personality and words like some virgin "Christian" girls I came across on this website)
Very well explained. Thank you.
Girls don't really care about dick size and if you're being used for money it's bc you are dating out of your league
Said the sirloin steak 🥩
@FearlessGoat I'm not a big fan of steak, so I accept this so I'm not a cannibal XD
A friend of mine was a cashier at a major grocery store. When she got married and wore the ring, so many men hit on her. It's odd that it didn't happen that often when she didn't wear the ring though
That’s the internet in general tho. Guys are online because they are more comfortable with the animosity.
And I say*
@Tiffyk If ALL you have is a nice body, that becomes your only value. If you actually have a personality and substance you will be valued quite a bit more.
@KrakenAttackin I got it all, but probably got screwed by living in some douchy cities
yea blame it all on the city and the place you live in
@CasaNorba you haven't travelled much, have you?
looks like you haven't either, otherwise you would of known by now at 30 that the world is not perfect and fucked up people are everywhere. is the world we live in now.and if you have travel by the way then why are you still living in this so called "douchy city?"
@CasaNorba ha, listen boy, I've lived in almost every major city in this nation. I can tell you people are different everywhere.Do you think a surfer in LA is the same as a mafia son in Brooklyn? People are shaped by their environment. When I lived in San Diego, men were very respectful to me. When I moved to boston, it was the opposite. a lot of girls complained. They even call themselves "massholes"
then why didn't you stay in San Diego then?though that sounds like lots of sweeping generalizations alright. since I do got family and friends from Brooklyn and none of them are in any "mafia." so I guess someone needs to do real traveling cause it sounds like the only traveling you've done is change channels in your tv set
@CasaNorba I just told you, the people of massachusetts generalize themselves. They know they are "massholes" and they are proud. Probably why they got bombed.Well my family is old school brooklyn mafia. And I grew up in San Diego bc my dad's in the military. I can tell you Brooklyn people are nothing like San Diego. It might be more so now with gentrification, but the stereotypes were there for a reason.And I stay in Trashachussetts bc the money is good. But I leave on weekends