Female friend might like me or am I just dumb virgin?

Question

I've know this girl for about 6 years since high school and we've always been in this friend group, but in the last 2 years she's been I bit more clingy ( linking arms, hand holding) and I'm completely unsure as to whether we're just really close as friends or if the are some signals I'm completely missing. I don't wanna ask directly cuz then it'd be really weird and I like our friendship. My feelings romantically are non-existent but that's not to say I wouldn't be open to it...

Am I just horribly inexperienced or horribly dense?

Dumb af she's into you

Dumb af she's just a friend

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Answer 1

Mr7digits

Xper 2

Dude, 6 years? Time to make a move. Be a man, use your big dick energy and get in there. Whats the worst that could happen? She may have been with many guys since then, so if you don't shoot your shot now, you might be seen as that "good friend" permanently and beau is gonna be that big fish in the sea while zombear's that little guppy stuck in the pond. You're young, make the best out of those years while u can...

zombear

1 mo
I get what ur saying but with her, I'd rather have her as a friend then chance a relationship like that.
Mr7digits

1 mo
If she's really a friend, then she wouldn't be any less of a friend if you attempted to shoot your shot. The real question is, would you regret it in the future if beau's fishing in the sea and you're stuck as the good friend. If none of that concerns you, then disregard this entire conversation, But I'll lay it out as clear as I can for you; friends come and go, relationships are the same, but your own happiness is what matters at the end of the day. You wouldn't be here if you were content...

Answer 2

zombear

I get what ur saying but with her, I'd rather have her as a friend then chance a relationship like that.

Answer 3

Mr7digits

If she's really a friend, then she wouldn't be any less of a friend if you attempted to shoot your shot. The real question is, would you regret it in the future if beau's fishing in the sea and you're stuck as the good friend. If none of that concerns you, then disregard this entire conversation, But I'll lay it out as clear as I can for you; friends come and go, relationships are the same, but your own happiness is what matters at the end of the day. You wouldn't be here if you were content...

Answer 4

Thatsamazing

Guru

She just wants the attention you give her man. Sorry. This is the most likely answer. She enjoys the vibes you give her as someone in her life who pays attention to her. I'm sure you're not doing anything wrong.

Anyway, sure I could be wrong, maybe I am, but I doubt it.

zombear

1 mo
I guess it could be like that. I'm pretty sure I thought I wasn't her type so it feels like I could go either way.
Thatsamazing

1 mo
It's nice that she feels comfortable around you for sure, and yeah she's maybe at least thought about it, but it's far more likely that she has still friendzoned you in her mind, and she is just seeking attention. I suppose if you feel bold enough, you could ask her about it. Maybe I'm mistaken.
zombear

1 mo
Better not to shake the beehive i guess. Im not so curious to possibly make things awkward for no reason

Answer 5

zombear

I guess it could be like that. I'm pretty sure I thought I wasn't her type so it feels like I could go either way.

Answer 6

Thatsamazing

It's nice that she feels comfortable around you for sure, and yeah she's maybe at least thought about it, but it's far more likely that she has still friendzoned you in her mind, and she is just seeking attention. I suppose if you feel bold enough, you could ask her about it. Maybe I'm mistaken.

Answer 7

zombear

Better not to shake the beehive i guess. Im not so curious to possibly make things awkward for no reason

Answer 8

Mithradath

Xper 3

Talk with her goddamn it
she's a friend = meaning no issues, if you tell her: maybe we should hook up, see her reaction, if not good tell her you were joking, simple as that

Answer 9

Anonymous

Hard to tell cuz some girls are just touchy-feely.

zombear

1 mo
Maybe. She's not like that with the rest of the group but it could be because we're the same height tbh

Answer 10

zombear

Maybe. She's not like that with the rest of the group but it could be because we're the same height tbh

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