I didn't mean to suggest ALL women are this way. But like for example if rhe vast majority are rhis way it's just easier to make rhe blanket statement.
First of all i believe you.Second of all it's called a partnership for a reason. It's not as simple as her getting it for herself. You know as well as i do she'll resent him for it. I can even understand that to a point (as women unfairly on the average make less than a man) but being a partner doesn't make that man a caterer to all her whims just because she has a need to compete with all her girlfriends. She'll call him lazy but in reality she's just a gold digger now isn't she. Get it?
It depends on the person.If she wants all those things but wants to be able to get them by herself, that's not a gold digger. If she wants it and wants to contribute to that, then it's not a gold digger.If she wants it and expects the man to use his money on all those things, while not doing anything other than give him sex, then that is a gold digger.
Like i already said it's called a " partnership" for a reason. I'm guessing you've never been married. His and hers gets pretty blurred after a while. But if she's pushing to keep up with the jonses. If she calls him lazy because he's not as materialistic as her. I rhink he has every right to call her a gold digger.
I've never been married or lived with anyone before.I wouldn't call that being a gold digger. Rather it is unrealistic, unreasonable, and that they want two different lifes then.
I agree they don't want the same things. But as i said if she calls him lazy he should call her gold digger.We'll just have to agree to disagree on that paticular point.
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So material things give you that?
Not alone no but do they not add to ones life
So what you're saying is you're not a gold digger first you just throw rhat in free of charge later?Because this is my point. You may originally have feelings for the guy but later when the newness wears off and you start getting judgmental you complain about all the stuff he DOESN't provide you with. True?
No because if I wanted such things it would also be down to me to be able to have them
"If" key word.