True of False. Guys can hang and flirt will girls all day but will always have feelings for one special girl?

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Answer 1

ItsTheNephilim | 475 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Master

Might be true for many guys but definitely doesn't go for every guy.

Asker

1 mo
Good point!
I am confused on my guy friend. I am pretty positive he was infatuated with me for a long time - but aways had a boyfriend. When I compare his behavior from 2 yeas ago- Now... ehh... doesn't show anything like he used to. Do you think he still wants me or no? Here are examples:

2 yeas ago:
-Would tell me i was beautiful often
-A bit touchy
-Asked to go have lunch, the gym, shopping, study
-Said he could treat me better than my boyfriend
- Would mention other girls

Now:
-Only ask me to lunch (alone)
-Can be touchy still
-Tells me everything (per his statement)
-Doesn't compliment me
-Still mentions other girls
ItsTheNephilim

1 mo
He probably thinks you were unavailable (or still are) so even though he likes you, he doesn't think he can have a relationship with you. Still, he does not want to keep his interests solely directed towards you.
Asker

1 mo
Yea I’m still unavailable. But you think he stil has some feels for me?
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ItsTheNephilim

1 mo
I'd say so.

Answer 2

Asker

Good point!
I am confused on my guy friend. I am pretty positive he was infatuated with me for a long time - but aways had a boyfriend. When I compare his behavior from 2 yeas ago- Now... ehh... doesn't show anything like he used to. Do you think he still wants me or no? Here are examples:

2 yeas ago:
-Would tell me i was beautiful often
-A bit touchy
-Asked to go have lunch, the gym, shopping, study
-Said he could treat me better than my boyfriend
- Would mention other girls

Now:
-Only ask me to lunch (alone)
-Can be touchy still
-Tells me everything (per his statement)
-Doesn't compliment me
-Still mentions other girls

Answer 3

ItsTheNephilim

He probably thinks you were unavailable (or still are) so even though he likes you, he doesn't think he can have a relationship with you. Still, he does not want to keep his interests solely directed towards you.

Answer 4

Asker

Yea I’m still unavailable. But you think he stil has some feels for me?

Answer 5

ItsTheNephilim

I'd say so.

Answer 6

Anonymous

False. "Always" never applies to everyone.

Asker

1 mo
Good point!

OhHhhHHh? lol Good to know.

I am confused on my guy friend. I am pretty positive he was infatuated with me for a long time - but aways had a boyfriend. When I compare his behavior from 2 yeas ago- Now... ehh... doesn't show anything like he used to. Do you think he still wants me or no? Here are examples:

2 yeas ago:
-Would tell me i was beautiful often
-A bit touchy
-Asked to go have lunch, the gym, shopping, study
-Said he could treat me better than my boyfriend
- Would mention other girls

Now:
-Only ask me to lunch (alone)
-Can be touchy still
-Tells me everything (per his statement)
-Doesn't compliment me
-Still mentions other girls

Answer 7

Asker

Good point!

OhHhhHHh? lol Good to know.

I am confused on my guy friend. I am pretty positive he was infatuated with me for a long time - but aways had a boyfriend. When I compare his behavior from 2 yeas ago- Now... ehh... doesn't show anything like he used to. Do you think he still wants me or no? Here are examples:

2 yeas ago:
-Would tell me i was beautiful often
-A bit touchy
-Asked to go have lunch, the gym, shopping, study
-Said he could treat me better than my boyfriend
- Would mention other girls

Now:
-Only ask me to lunch (alone)
-Can be touchy still
-Tells me everything (per his statement)
-Doesn't compliment me
-Still mentions other girls

Answer 8

oncpl | 100 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Yoda

It is an absolute truth.

Asker

1 mo
So certain lol

I am confused on my guy friend. I am pretty positive he was infatuated with me for a long time - but aways had a boyfriend. When I compare his behavior from 2 yeas ago- Now... ehh... doesn't show anything like he used to. Do you think he still wants me or no? Here are examples:

2 yeas ago:
-Would tell me i was beautiful often
-A bit touchy
-Asked to go have lunch, the gym, shopping, study
-Said he could treat me better than my boyfriend
- Would mention other girls

Now:
-Only ask me to lunch (alone)
-Can be touchy still
-Tells me everything (per his statement)
-Doesn't compliment me
-Still mentions other girls
oncpl

1 mo
Unfortunately it is difference between girls' and guys' psychology that when latter find things they have been wishing and struggling for, their love slowly declines. They wish for another considering that one they have got, would remain attached no matter what their behavior is. Same is with you.
Asker

1 mo
Gotcha. So he now just sees me as a buddy?
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oncpl

1 mo
I don't want to get you confused or raising any trust issue with your guy, but it seems so. He is in search of other girls for sex.
Asker

1 mo
Cool. Got it.
Here is how he behaved last time I saw him. Which is why I got worried again lol

Guys, if my friend starts touching me more- does it mean he is now interested in me romantically or is he just comfrotable? ↗
oncpl

1 mo
Touching you more, no doubt, is a sign of romantic feeling, but some clever guys do so just to assure girls that they love them.
Asker

1 mo
Yeh he’s confusing the hell out of me lol

Sometimes I feel like he just sees me as a very close friend. Then bam- he gets very touchy. Then it will be nothing again. Lol.
oncpl

1 mo
Because he has many other activities (girls etc) in mind which get him confused. At the same time he doesn't want to lose you either.
Asker

1 mo
Hmmmm. Okay so what is your final verdict lol
oncpl

1 mo
You have put me in an embarrassing position. However, being myself a guy I know that you are seriously in love and have great attachment, while he has lesser mental attachment than sexual one.
Asker

1 mo
Lol no worries at all. I like bluntness.
And him and I have been very close for several years. And even if I was single I wouldn’t date him.
oncpl

1 mo
Can you have some adventure with another guy?
Asker

1 mo
Oh no I’m taken lol.
oncpl

1 mo
So you wish to remain attached with him.
Asker

1 mo
Oh yes lol.
oncpl

1 mo
OK. I wish your happiness.
Asker

1 mo
Thanks. Still weird to think my friend wants to have sex with me lol.
oncpl

1 mo
I don't know if you have any inclination towards your friend who wants to have sex with you. Explore your mind, and decide.

Answer 9

Asker

So certain lol

I am confused on my guy friend. I am pretty positive he was infatuated with me for a long time - but aways had a boyfriend. When I compare his behavior from 2 yeas ago- Now... ehh... doesn't show anything like he used to. Do you think he still wants me or no? Here are examples:

2 yeas ago:
-Would tell me i was beautiful often
-A bit touchy
-Asked to go have lunch, the gym, shopping, study
-Said he could treat me better than my boyfriend
- Would mention other girls

Now:
-Only ask me to lunch (alone)
-Can be touchy still
-Tells me everything (per his statement)
-Doesn't compliment me
-Still mentions other girls

Answer 10

oncpl

Unfortunately it is difference between girls' and guys' psychology that when latter find things they have been wishing and struggling for, their love slowly declines. They wish for another considering that one they have got, would remain attached no matter what their behavior is. Same is with you.

Answer 11

Asker

Gotcha. So he now just sees me as a buddy?

Answer 12

oncpl

I don't want to get you confused or raising any trust issue with your guy, but it seems so. He is in search of other girls for sex.

Answer 13

Asker

Cool. Got it.
Here is how he behaved last time I saw him. Which is why I got worried again lol

Guys, if my friend starts touching me more- does it mean he is now interested in me romantically or is he just comfrotable? ↗

Answer 14

oncpl

Touching you more, no doubt, is a sign of romantic feeling, but some clever guys do so just to assure girls that they love them.

Answer 15

Asker

Yeh he’s confusing the hell out of me lol

Sometimes I feel like he just sees me as a very close friend. Then bam- he gets very touchy. Then it will be nothing again. Lol.

Answer 16

oncpl

Because he has many other activities (girls etc) in mind which get him confused. At the same time he doesn't want to lose you either.

Answer 17

Asker

Hmmmm. Okay so what is your final verdict lol

Answer 18

oncpl

You have put me in an embarrassing position. However, being myself a guy I know that you are seriously in love and have great attachment, while he has lesser mental attachment than sexual one.

Answer 19

Asker

Lol no worries at all. I like bluntness.
And him and I have been very close for several years. And even if I was single I wouldn’t date him.

Answer 20

oncpl

Can you have some adventure with another guy?

Answer 21

Asker

Oh no I’m taken lol.

Answer 22

oncpl

So you wish to remain attached with him.

Answer 23

Asker

Oh yes lol.

Answer 24

oncpl

OK. I wish your happiness.

Answer 25

Asker

Thanks. Still weird to think my friend wants to have sex with me lol.

Answer 26

oncpl

I don't know if you have any inclination towards your friend who wants to have sex with you. Explore your mind, and decide.

Answer 27

RobAngus88

Xper 2

True if you have that special one no one compares

Asker

1 mo
I agree :)
I am confused on my guy friend. I am pretty positive he was infatuated with me for a long time - but aways had a boyfriend. When I compare his behavior from 2 yeas ago- Now... ehh... doesn't show anything like he used to. Do you think he still wants me or no? Here are examples:

2 yeas ago:
-Would tell me i was beautiful often
-A bit touchy
-Asked to go have lunch, the gym, shopping, study
-Said he could treat me better than my boyfriend
- Would mention other girls

Now:
-Only ask me to lunch (alone)
-Can be touchy still
-Tells me everything (per his statement)
-Doesn't compliment me
-Still mentions other girls

Answer 28

Asker

I agree :)
I am confused on my guy friend. I am pretty positive he was infatuated with me for a long time - but aways had a boyfriend. When I compare his behavior from 2 yeas ago- Now... ehh... doesn't show anything like he used to. Do you think he still wants me or no? Here are examples:

2 yeas ago:
-Would tell me i was beautiful often
-A bit touchy
-Asked to go have lunch, the gym, shopping, study
-Said he could treat me better than my boyfriend
- Would mention other girls

Now:
-Only ask me to lunch (alone)
-Can be touchy still
-Tells me everything (per his statement)
-Doesn't compliment me
-Still mentions other girls

Answer 29

In_Trance | 755 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Guru

false

Asker

1 mo
OhHhhHHh? lol Good to know.

I am confused on my guy friend. I am pretty positive he was infatuated with me for a long time - but aways had a boyfriend. When I compare his behavior from 2 yeas ago- Now... ehh... doesn't show anything like he used to. Do you think he still wants me or no? Here are examples:

2 yeas ago:
-Would tell me i was beautiful often
-A bit touchy
-Asked to go have lunch, the gym, shopping, study
-Said he could treat me better than my boyfriend
- Would mention other girls

Now:
-Only ask me to lunch (alone)
-Can be touchy still
-Tells me everything (per his statement)
-Doesn't compliment me
-Still mentions other girls
In_Trance

1 mo
are you saying this guy is bi? Is that correct?
Asker

1 mo
Ummm no lol
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In_Trance

1 mo
Sorry, I misread... you had a boyfriend

It's possible his infatuation ended, yes. Especially if he mentions other girls. What girl wants to hear about that?
Asker

1 mo
lol I was wondering where you got bi from. hehe.

He's ALWAYS mentioned the girls from day one. lol So that never changed...
He just stopped complimenting me and asking me to anything other than lunch
In_Trance

1 mo
Maybe he was attracted to the fact that you were unavailable and he wanted to appear that way himself. People do dumb shit when they have no game.
Asker

1 mo
lol I am still taken...
I just wish I knew what he was feeling
In_Trance

1 mo
Oh that changes everything. Does your boyfriend know you're meeting this guy for lunch and the nature of your conversations?
Asker

1 mo
Yeah- they're actually related (by law not blood) that is how we met. lol
I dont tell him about his comments...
In_Trance

1 mo
Yeet!! I think it's time to wash your hands of this
Asker

1 mo
well--- if he only sees me as a buddy why cut off a 3 year friendship?
In_Trance

1 mo
oh make no mistake about it; if you offered, he'd smash. I don't think this is a friendship
Asker

1 mo
He'd smash? So he only wants sex?
In_Trance

1 mo
Well he can't have you for himself so what else could he possibly want from you?
Asker

1 mo
He won't get sex---and he knows that. haha.
Maybe he does have romantic feels then...

Answer 30

Asker

OhHhhHHh? lol Good to know.

I am confused on my guy friend. I am pretty positive he was infatuated with me for a long time - but aways had a boyfriend. When I compare his behavior from 2 yeas ago- Now... ehh... doesn't show anything like he used to. Do you think he still wants me or no? Here are examples:

2 yeas ago:
-Would tell me i was beautiful often
-A bit touchy
-Asked to go have lunch, the gym, shopping, study
-Said he could treat me better than my boyfriend
- Would mention other girls

Now:
-Only ask me to lunch (alone)
-Can be touchy still
-Tells me everything (per his statement)
-Doesn't compliment me
-Still mentions other girls

Answer 31

In_Trance

are you saying this guy is bi? Is that correct?

Answer 32

Asker

Ummm no lol

Answer 33

In_Trance

Sorry, I misread... you had a boyfriend

It's possible his infatuation ended, yes. Especially if he mentions other girls. What girl wants to hear about that?

Answer 34

Asker

lol I was wondering where you got bi from. hehe.

He's ALWAYS mentioned the girls from day one. lol So that never changed...
He just stopped complimenting me and asking me to anything other than lunch

Answer 35

In_Trance

Maybe he was attracted to the fact that you were unavailable and he wanted to appear that way himself. People do dumb shit when they have no game.

Answer 36

Asker

lol I am still taken...
I just wish I knew what he was feeling

Answer 37

In_Trance

Oh that changes everything. Does your boyfriend know you're meeting this guy for lunch and the nature of your conversations?

Answer 38

Asker

Yeah- they're actually related (by law not blood) that is how we met. lol
I dont tell him about his comments...

Answer 39

In_Trance

Yeet!! I think it's time to wash your hands of this

Answer 40

Asker

well--- if he only sees me as a buddy why cut off a 3 year friendship?

Answer 41

In_Trance

oh make no mistake about it; if you offered, he'd smash. I don't think this is a friendship

Answer 42

Asker

He'd smash? So he only wants sex?

Answer 43

In_Trance

Well he can't have you for himself so what else could he possibly want from you?

Answer 44

Asker

He won't get sex---and he knows that. haha.
Maybe he does have romantic feels then...

Answer 45

sydneykittyyyy

Xper 1

Sometimss

Asker

1 mo
Yeh. I think it depends for sure.
I am confused on my guy friend. I am pretty positive he was infatuated with me for a long time - but aways had a boyfriend. When I compare his behavior from 2 yeas ago- Now... ehh... doesn't show anything like he used to. Do you think he still wants me or no? Here are examples:

2 yeas ago:
-Would tell me i was beautiful often
-A bit touchy
-Asked to go have lunch, the gym, shopping, study
-Said he could treat me better than my boyfriend
- Would mention other girls

Now:
-Only ask me to lunch (alone)
-Can be touchy still
-Tells me everything (per his statement)
-Doesn't compliment me
-Still mentions other girls
sydneykittyyyy

1 mo
Maybe he got tired of waiting on you or something
sydneykittyyyy

1 mo
Maybe u need to put yourself out there more
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Asker

1 mo
Oh but I’m still unavailable.
So he can’t lol

Answer 46

Asker

Yeh. I think it depends for sure.
I am confused on my guy friend. I am pretty positive he was infatuated with me for a long time - but aways had a boyfriend. When I compare his behavior from 2 yeas ago- Now... ehh... doesn't show anything like he used to. Do you think he still wants me or no? Here are examples:

2 yeas ago:
-Would tell me i was beautiful often
-A bit touchy
-Asked to go have lunch, the gym, shopping, study
-Said he could treat me better than my boyfriend
- Would mention other girls

Now:
-Only ask me to lunch (alone)
-Can be touchy still
-Tells me everything (per his statement)
-Doesn't compliment me
-Still mentions other girls