Why is she okay with me complimenting her, but not saying she'd be cool to hang with?

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I once worked with her, though I was more friends with her best friend than her. She's married and very religious. She was always quiet and very humble. She was cool and I told her that But she got mad, saying she was not going to allow me to ruin her marriage. Didn't get that, but I backed way off.

I hadn't spoken to her in like a year. Now I see pictures of her, and I compliment her. She loves it. Why is me telling her, indirectly, that she's attractive or I find her attractive okay, but not me saying she's cool and I would have loved to hang with her.

I did say I never asked her because I knew She was not comfortable.
Why is she okay with me complimenting her, but not saying she'd be cool to hang with?
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