Do girls ever feel bad about their toxic behavior in the past?

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Toxic girls = heartbreaking. Especially if the guy doesn’t even get the girl. I’m glad most of you feel bad though. You should 😒

Answer 1

Anonymous

I know I do.
When I look bad and see how I shouldn't have done, then I feel bad about it.

I don't want to be a toxic person or someone who doesn't appreciate people.
I try to work on myself constantly and I relfect on my actions.

Asker

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It’s just that I think a lot of girls don’t see the consequences of their actions.
Opinion Owner

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Either they keep it to themselves, it comes later, or you might find the wrong women.

I see the same with toxic guys.
REAL toxic people, they are not sorry about what they do and cannot see their own wrongs and will make it your fault. It's not gender specific.
Asker

28 d
It’s just that it causes pain. I guess I just have to acknowledge that they are / were toxic. I just wondered if it came later for some women.
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Opinion Owner

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It has come later for me if I find out I didn't do wel in a relationship

But yes, sometimes we just have to acknowledge some people will be toxic and hurt us.
Trust me, I just came out of a relaionship where I found myself feeling as if I were crazy.. but it was mostly just because how uncomfortable I was in the relationship and how I got treated
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27 d
It doesn’t even have to be in a relationship. Thank you so much for this :)

Well it’s added quite a chip to my shoulder, so at least there’s that.
KrakenAttackin

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This is because women rarely have to suffer the consequences for their actions.
Asker

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True. We have it harder in that way.
Opinion Owner

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How do we not suffer from our consequences? And how do you?
Asker

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I think both do but in different ways.
KrakenAttackin

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But did you seek out the man/men you tormented to apologize and ask for forgiveness? Didn't think so.
Opinion Owner

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@KrakenAttackin I didn't torment them...
I said to an ex I didn't treat him well enough and was sorry.
And he said it was okay - but it was not tormenting.

I have another ex who got hurt, not something I actively did to him, but because I got in another relationship faster than what he was ready for and still had trouble getting over it. He doesn't speak to me now.
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What’s toxic is the girl just thinking of herself and not from the guy’s perspective (at all or very little). But i’m not just referring to guys that a girl’s been in a relationship with. Anyways, great convo guys

Answer 2

Asker

It’s just that I think a lot of girls don’t see the consequences of their actions.

Answer 3

Opinion Owner

Either they keep it to themselves, it comes later, or you might find the wrong women.

I see the same with toxic guys.
REAL toxic people, they are not sorry about what they do and cannot see their own wrongs and will make it your fault. It's not gender specific.

Answer 4

Asker

It’s just that it causes pain. I guess I just have to acknowledge that they are / were toxic. I just wondered if it came later for some women.

Answer 5

Opinion Owner

It has come later for me if I find out I didn't do wel in a relationship

But yes, sometimes we just have to acknowledge some people will be toxic and hurt us.
Trust me, I just came out of a relaionship where I found myself feeling as if I were crazy.. but it was mostly just because how uncomfortable I was in the relationship and how I got treated

Answer 6

Asker

It doesn’t even have to be in a relationship. Thank you so much for this :)

Well it’s added quite a chip to my shoulder, so at least there’s that.

Answer 7

KrakenAttackin

This is because women rarely have to suffer the consequences for their actions.

Answer 8

Asker

True. We have it harder in that way.

Answer 9

Opinion Owner

How do we not suffer from our consequences? And how do you?

Answer 10

Asker

I think both do but in different ways.

Answer 11

KrakenAttackin

But did you seek out the man/men you tormented to apologize and ask for forgiveness? Didn't think so.

Answer 12

Opinion Owner

@KrakenAttackin I didn't torment them...
I said to an ex I didn't treat him well enough and was sorry.
And he said it was okay - but it was not tormenting.

I have another ex who got hurt, not something I actively did to him, but because I got in another relationship faster than what he was ready for and still had trouble getting over it. He doesn't speak to me now.

Answer 13

Asker

What’s toxic is the girl just thinking of herself and not from the guy’s perspective (at all or very little). But i’m not just referring to guys that a girl’s been in a relationship with. Anyways, great convo guys

Answer 14

Anonymous

Do men do?

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The good ones.
Opinion Owner

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They don't exist
Asker

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You have no idea what you’re talking.
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Asker

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What you’re talking about*
Opinion Owner

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I do
WolfyGirl2077

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2 anonymous people is this an AA meeting?
Asker

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Ew. You’re immature.
Opinion Owner

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@WolfyGirl2077 We love AA meeting lol
Asker

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Good men don’t exist to some girls because they torment them.
Asker

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That’s what a toxic girl does.
Opinion Owner

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Lol
Maybe you deserved what happened to you.
Asker

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No, I don’t take toxic girls seriously. Maybe you are one.
Opinion Owner

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I guess you know a hell lot of those "toxic women", right?
Asker

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You’re cringe.
Opinion Owner

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Not even
Asker

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Lol
Whatever you say.
Opinion Owner

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Whatever lol.
Asker

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:)))
Opinion Owner

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I do. Do you date men?
Asker

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I date girls

Answer 15

Asker

The good ones.

Answer 16

Opinion Owner

They don't exist

Answer 17

Asker

You have no idea what you’re talking.

Answer 18

Asker

What you’re talking about*

Answer 19

Opinion Owner

I do

Answer 20

WolfyGirl2077

2 anonymous people is this an AA meeting?

Answer 21

Asker

Ew. You’re immature.

Answer 22

Opinion Owner

@WolfyGirl2077 We love AA meeting lol

Answer 23

Asker

Good men don’t exist to some girls because they torment them.

Answer 24

Asker

That’s what a toxic girl does.

Answer 25

Opinion Owner

Lol
Maybe you deserved what happened to you.

Answer 26

Asker

No, I don’t take toxic girls seriously. Maybe you are one.

Answer 27

Opinion Owner

I guess you know a hell lot of those "toxic women", right?

Answer 28

Asker

You’re cringe.

Answer 29

Opinion Owner

Not even

Answer 30

Asker

Lol
Whatever you say.

Answer 31

Opinion Owner

Whatever lol.

Answer 32

Opinion Owner

I do. Do you date men?

Answer 33

Asker

I date girls

Answer 34

meetkitty123 | 68 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Explorer

Toxic doesn't mean dumping a guy! That's a
Ridiculous concept.

TOXIC IS THE FOLLOWING:

getting drunk constantly
starting fights
breaking the law
sleeping around without protection
being a Parent who doesn't take care of their kids
Using drugs
Emotionally or physically abusing someone
Inflicting self harm

Choosing to break up with a man is not a toxic act and sometimes we have to break up with the man because their behavior is toxic

You are thinking too negativity. Using the word
TOXIC is over dramatic.

You need to reframe your thinking
The power of language is so severe it can make you believe that your situation is far worse than what it really is.

Your question should have been...

Do girls feel remorse after breaking up with a guy?That is the correct way to ask this question not overdramatize like it.

Some of my favorite quotes from Dr phil

"If you realize how powerful your thoughts are you would never think negatively again".

"You can't change the things that have happened in your life but you can decide how to interpret and respond to them"

"Being a victim and angry is the weakest you'll ever be in your life"

In other words you are incomplete control of your actions your life and how you respond to it.

Never mind how the woman feels. move on be true to yourself. Don't allow yourself to Fester.
it won't do your spirit any good.

Clearly that person was not the one for you and the one who is, is out there waiting but if you give yourself tunnel vision you'll never find her.

Asker

27 d
I’m not saying that toxic means dumping a guy.
Asker

27 d
It’s funny how you pin this on me. Women can be toxic and engage in toxic behavior.
Unit1

27 d
Breaking the law.

I'm sure you have some copyright protected MP3s on any of your devices, that you listen to, that you have stolen AKA you downloaded / recorded these without buying their music on say Amazon or apple music.

You and i are breaking the law and are therefore by your logic toxic. Why bother not being toxic.
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meetkitty123

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@Unit1
What are you talking about I'm so confused why are we talking about music and no actually I pay for my Amazon music account so I get my music legally and if I like a song I buy it even though I pay the extra Amazon fee to listen to it as much as I want to if I like an artist I want to support them so I buy their music I don't steal it I have no idea what your talking about whatsoever I've never even posted anything about music where on Earth do you come off accusing me of Piracy?
this person wrote
toxic as in heartbreaking
That's exactly what his words on top in the update says this conversation was not at all about music
toxic equals heartbreaking
meetkitty123

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@asker
As I said in my post that women can behave toxically and I listed what toxic means
In your update you said toxic = heartbreak
No it doesn't
Being dumbed = heartache
And as I said before if you were dumped by the person that person wasn't meant to be with you don't get stuck on them and don't give yourself tunnel vision if you remain sour your whole personality is going to become sour and it's not going to be good for you you're the one who's going to remain in pain you must heal from this move forward forget the person who left you so that you can open yourself up to someone new that is my exact advice to you that is exactly what I put in my post.
You're using strong words and if you keep using those strong words you're just going to remain in pain.
meetkitty123

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@Unit1
I just realized you didn't tag anyone in your response so I have no idea if you were really talking to me or not
🤣🤣🤣
But just in case I own my music for everyone out there to know
THIS KITTY OWNS HER MUSIC
😄
Unit1

27 d
Alright, fair enough.

Answer 35

Asker

I’m not saying that toxic means dumping a guy.

Answer 36

Asker

It’s funny how you pin this on me. Women can be toxic and engage in toxic behavior.

Answer 37

Unit1

Breaking the law.

I'm sure you have some copyright protected MP3s on any of your devices, that you listen to, that you have stolen AKA you downloaded / recorded these without buying their music on say Amazon or apple music.

You and i are breaking the law and are therefore by your logic toxic. Why bother not being toxic.

Answer 38

meetkitty123

@Unit1
What are you talking about I'm so confused why are we talking about music and no actually I pay for my Amazon music account so I get my music legally and if I like a song I buy it even though I pay the extra Amazon fee to listen to it as much as I want to if I like an artist I want to support them so I buy their music I don't steal it I have no idea what your talking about whatsoever I've never even posted anything about music where on Earth do you come off accusing me of Piracy?
this person wrote
toxic as in heartbreaking
That's exactly what his words on top in the update says this conversation was not at all about music
toxic equals heartbreaking

Answer 39

meetkitty123

@asker
As I said in my post that women can behave toxically and I listed what toxic means
In your update you said toxic = heartbreak
No it doesn't
Being dumbed = heartache
And as I said before if you were dumped by the person that person wasn't meant to be with you don't get stuck on them and don't give yourself tunnel vision if you remain sour your whole personality is going to become sour and it's not going to be good for you you're the one who's going to remain in pain you must heal from this move forward forget the person who left you so that you can open yourself up to someone new that is my exact advice to you that is exactly what I put in my post.
You're using strong words and if you keep using those strong words you're just going to remain in pain.

Answer 40

meetkitty123

@Unit1
I just realized you didn't tag anyone in your response so I have no idea if you were really talking to me or not
🤣🤣🤣
But just in case I own my music for everyone out there to know
THIS KITTY OWNS HER MUSIC
😄

Answer 41

Unit1

Alright, fair enough.

Answer 42

Anonymous

I try to be a good person but I'm human and mess up sometimes and can't tell all the time if something I do is toxic. Like some people are hypersensitive and I won't feel bad if I don't think I did anything wrong until they call me out on it. So yes I feel bad about what I did if the other person tells me they're hurt or if they get mad/ say I was toxic. Otherwise no unless it was obvious to me too

Asker

27 d
You’re a great girl when it comes to dating then :)

Answer 43

Asker

You’re a great girl when it comes to dating then :)

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KrakenAttackin | 331 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Yoda

Fuck no. When have you EVER heard a female take responsibility for her toxic, crazy-ass, actions?

Think about this. Do women ever admit to being wrong?

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That sucks if that’s true.
KrakenAttackin

27 d
I asked if a poster below felt bad enough about her toxic behavior to apologize to the person and ask for forgiveness... what did she do? She deleted my post. This says all you need to know about women and their capacity for toxicity.
Asker

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I still see your post. But I don't know anymore. Women think they can do anything these days.

Answer 45

Asker

That sucks if that’s true.

Answer 46

KrakenAttackin

I asked if a poster below felt bad enough about her toxic behavior to apologize to the person and ask for forgiveness... what did she do? She deleted my post. This says all you need to know about women and their capacity for toxicity.

Answer 47

Asker

I still see your post. But I don't know anymore. Women think they can do anything these days.

Answer 48

GeneralHunter

Xper 1

Yes, It's the only thing that keeps me up at night thinking about

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27 d
But you’re a great girl then
GeneralHunter

27 d
Thanks, but reading your replies you've met some nasty people
Asker

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yeah I’m due

Answer 49

Asker

But you’re a great girl then

Answer 50

GeneralHunter

Thanks, but reading your replies you've met some nasty people

Answer 51

Asker

yeah I’m due

Answer 52

Gavilar1

Xper 5

Past is the past, leave it there. You'll be digging a lot of problems doing that
Nobody wants to be reminded over something horrible they did

Answer 53

WolfyGirl2077

Xper 5

if i haven't fucked up their life completely then no
If i however have done that then im gonna feel bad

Answer 54

Anon123456789101112

Xper 4

What do you consider to be "toxic behavior"?

Need more info on this question

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msc545 | 118 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Explorer

most girls with a history of toxic behavior never learn good behavior.

Asker

26 d
True. But I have contempt for girls with a history of toxic behavior. It’s just inconsiderate

Answer 56

Asker

True. But I have contempt for girls with a history of toxic behavior. It’s just inconsiderate

Answer 57

Anonymous

Yes, if it was indeed toxic.

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28 d
I feel that many girls are.
Opinion Owner

28 d
Stop being with them then
I have done the same thing with guys.
Asker

28 d
True. It can be sad for the guy
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Opinion Owner

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What is sad?
Asker

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A guy that gets messed up because of a toxic girl.
Opinion Owner

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Toxic guys are very common...
Asker

28 d
Never said they weren’t.
Asker

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So are toxic girls...
Asker

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Probably some guy is even going to comment something toxic on this question.
Opinion Owner

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If you think women are toxic, stop committing yourself with them.
Asker

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I don’t, but I’m glad that women care.
Opinion Owner

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So what's your point then?
Asker

28 d
Just differing viewpoints. I think they are toxic. Perhaps they didn’t feel like/care/know that they were at the time. And I’m curious if they will ever feel any different. I’m just curious that’s all.
Opinion Owner

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You can do some introspection and acknowledge it, yes. It happens.

Answer 58

Asker

I feel that many girls are.

Answer 59

Opinion Owner

Stop being with them then
I have done the same thing with guys.

Answer 60

Asker

True. It can be sad for the guy

Answer 61

Opinion Owner

What is sad?

Answer 62

Asker

A guy that gets messed up because of a toxic girl.

Answer 63

Opinion Owner

Toxic guys are very common...

Answer 64

Asker

Never said they weren’t.

Answer 65

Asker

So are toxic girls...

Answer 66

Asker

Probably some guy is even going to comment something toxic on this question.

Answer 67

Opinion Owner

If you think women are toxic, stop committing yourself with them.

Answer 68

Asker

I don’t, but I’m glad that women care.

Answer 69

Opinion Owner

So what's your point then?

Answer 70

Asker

Just differing viewpoints. I think they are toxic. Perhaps they didn’t feel like/care/know that they were at the time. And I’m curious if they will ever feel any different. I’m just curious that’s all.

Answer 71

Opinion Owner

You can do some introspection and acknowledge it, yes. It happens.

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SphynxUK | 56 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Xper 6

Do men?

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I do

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Rose00 | 496 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Xper 7

No I don’t have any

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Rachel4ever

Xper 5

Yes we do.

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JosyJosy | 1.2K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

Master

Sometimes.

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