It’s just that I think a lot of girls don’t see the consequences of their actions.
Either they keep it to themselves, it comes later, or you might find the wrong women. I see the same with toxic guys.REAL toxic people, they are not sorry about what they do and cannot see their own wrongs and will make it your fault. It's not gender specific.
It’s just that it causes pain. I guess I just have to acknowledge that they are / were toxic. I just wondered if it came later for some women.
It has come later for me if I find out I didn't do wel in a relationshipBut yes, sometimes we just have to acknowledge some people will be toxic and hurt us.Trust me, I just came out of a relaionship where I found myself feeling as if I were crazy.. but it was mostly just because how uncomfortable I was in the relationship and how I got treated
It doesn’t even have to be in a relationship. Thank you so much for this :)Well it’s added quite a chip to my shoulder, so at least there’s that.
This is because women rarely have to suffer the consequences for their actions.
True. We have it harder in that way.
How do we not suffer from our consequences? And how do you?
I think both do but in different ways.
But did you seek out the man/men you tormented to apologize and ask for forgiveness? Didn't think so.
@KrakenAttackin I didn't torment them... I said to an ex I didn't treat him well enough and was sorry.And he said it was okay - but it was not tormenting.I have another ex who got hurt, not something I actively did to him, but because I got in another relationship faster than what he was ready for and still had trouble getting over it. He doesn't speak to me now.
What’s toxic is the girl just thinking of herself and not from the guy’s perspective (at all or very little). But i’m not just referring to guys that a girl’s been in a relationship with. Anyways, great convo guys
The good ones.
They don't exist
You have no idea what you’re talking.
What you’re talking about*
2 anonymous people is this an AA meeting?
Ew. You’re immature.
@WolfyGirl2077 We love AA meeting lol
Good men don’t exist to some girls because they torment them.
That’s what a toxic girl does.
LolMaybe you deserved what happened to you.
No, I don’t take toxic girls seriously. Maybe you are one.
I guess you know a hell lot of those "toxic women", right?
LolWhatever you say.
I do. Do you date men?
I date girls
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I’m not saying that toxic means dumping a guy.
It’s funny how you pin this on me. Women can be toxic and engage in toxic behavior.
Breaking the law.I'm sure you have some copyright protected MP3s on any of your devices, that you listen to, that you have stolen AKA you downloaded / recorded these without buying their music on say Amazon or apple music.You and i are breaking the law and are therefore by your logic toxic. Why bother not being toxic.
@Unit1 What are you talking about I'm so confused why are we talking about music and no actually I pay for my Amazon music account so I get my music legally and if I like a song I buy it even though I pay the extra Amazon fee to listen to it as much as I want to if I like an artist I want to support them so I buy their music I don't steal it I have no idea what your talking about whatsoever I've never even posted anything about music where on Earth do you come off accusing me of Piracy? this person wrote toxic as in heartbreakingThat's exactly what his words on top in the update says this conversation was not at all about musictoxic equals heartbreaking
@askerAs I said in my post that women can behave toxically and I listed what toxic meansIn your update you said toxic = heartbreakNo it doesn'tBeing dumbed = heartacheAnd as I said before if you were dumped by the person that person wasn't meant to be with you don't get stuck on them and don't give yourself tunnel vision if you remain sour your whole personality is going to become sour and it's not going to be good for you you're the one who's going to remain in pain you must heal from this move forward forget the person who left you so that you can open yourself up to someone new that is my exact advice to you that is exactly what I put in my post.You're using strong words and if you keep using those strong words you're just going to remain in pain.
@Unit1I just realized you didn't tag anyone in your response so I have no idea if you were really talking to me or not🤣🤣🤣But just in case I own my music for everyone out there to knowTHIS KITTY OWNS HER MUSIC😄
Alright, fair enough.
You’re a great girl when it comes to dating then :)
That sucks if that’s true.
I asked if a poster below felt bad enough about her toxic behavior to apologize to the person and ask for forgiveness... what did she do? She deleted my post. This says all you need to know about women and their capacity for toxicity.
I still see your post. But I don't know anymore. Women think they can do anything these days.
But you’re a great girl then
Thanks, but reading your replies you've met some nasty people
yeah I’m due
True. But I have contempt for girls with a history of toxic behavior. It’s just inconsiderate
I feel that many girls are.
Stop being with them thenI have done the same thing with guys.
True. It can be sad for the guy
What is sad?
A guy that gets messed up because of a toxic girl.
Toxic guys are very common...
Never said they weren’t.
So are toxic girls...
Probably some guy is even going to comment something toxic on this question.
If you think women are toxic, stop committing yourself with them.
I don’t, but I’m glad that women care.
So what's your point then?
Just differing viewpoints. I think they are toxic. Perhaps they didn’t feel like/care/know that they were at the time. And I’m curious if they will ever feel any different. I’m just curious that’s all.
You can do some introspection and acknowledge it, yes. It happens.