Do girls ever feel bad about their toxic behavior in the past?

- Anonymous1 yI know I do.
When I look bad and see how I shouldn't have done, then I feel bad about it.
I don't want to be a toxic person or someone who doesn't appreciate people.
I try to work on myself constantly and I relfect on my actions.Is this still revelant?- Show All Show Less
- Opinion Owner1 y
It has come later for me if I find out I didn't do wel in a relationship
But yes, sometimes we just have to acknowledge some people will be toxic and hurt us.
Trust me, I just came out of a relaionship where I found myself feeling as if I were crazy.. but it was mostly just because how uncomfortable I was in the relationship and how I got treated But did you seek out the man/men you tormented to apologize and ask for forgiveness? Didn't think so.
- Opinion Owner1 y
@KrakenAttackin I didn't torment them...
I said to an ex I didn't treat him well enough and was sorry.
And he said it was okay - but it was not tormenting.
I have another ex who got hurt, not something I actively did to him, but because I got in another relationship faster than what he was ready for and still had trouble getting over it. He doesn't speak to me now.
- Anonymous1 yDo men do?Is this still revelant?
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103- Toxic doesn't mean dumping a guy! That's a
Ridiculous concept.
TOXIC IS THE FOLLOWING:- getting drunk constantly
- starting fights
- breaking the law
- sleeping around without protection
- being a Parent who doesn't take care of their kids
- Using drugs
- Emotionally or physically abusing someone
- Inflicting self harm
Choosing to break up with a man is not a toxic act and sometimes we have to break up with the man because their behavior is toxic
You are thinking too negativity. Using the word
TOXIC is over dramatic.
You need to reframe your thinking
The power of language is so severe it can make you believe that your situation is far worse than what it really is.
Your question should have been...
Do girls feel remorse after breaking up with a guy?That is the correct way to ask this question not overdramatize like it.
Some of my favorite quotes from Dr phil
"If you realize how powerful your thoughts are you would never think negatively again".
"You can't change the things that have happened in your life but you can decide how to interpret and respond to them"
"Being a victim and angry is the weakest you'll ever be in your life"
In other words you are incomplete control of your actions your life and how you respond to it.
Never mind how the woman feels. move on be true to yourself. Don't allow yourself to Fester.
it won't do your spirit any good.
Clearly that person was not the one for you and the one who is, is out there waiting but if you give yourself tunnel vision you'll never find her.ReactLike
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Breaking the law.
I'm sure you have some copyright protected MP3s on any of your devices, that you listen to, that you have stolen AKA you downloaded / recorded these without buying their music on say Amazon or apple music.
You and i are breaking the law and are therefore by your logic toxic. Why bother not being toxic.- Show All Show Less
@Unit1
What are you talking about I'm so confused why are we talking about music and no actually I pay for my Amazon music account so I get my music legally and if I like a song I buy it even though I pay the extra Amazon fee to listen to it as much as I want to if I like an artist I want to support them so I buy their music I don't steal it I have no idea what your talking about whatsoever I've never even posted anything about music where on Earth do you come off accusing me of Piracy?
this person wrote
toxic as in heartbreaking
That's exactly what his words on top in the update says this conversation was not at all about music
toxic equals heartbreaking@asker
As I said in my post that women can behave toxically and I listed what toxic means
In your update you said toxic = heartbreak
No it doesn't
Being dumbed = heartache
And as I said before if you were dumped by the person that person wasn't meant to be with you don't get stuck on them and don't give yourself tunnel vision if you remain sour your whole personality is going to become sour and it's not going to be good for you you're the one who's going to remain in pain you must heal from this move forward forget the person who left you so that you can open yourself up to someone new that is my exact advice to you that is exactly what I put in my post.
You're using strong words and if you keep using those strong words you're just going to remain in pain.@Unit1
I just realized you didn't tag anyone in your response so I have no idea if you were really talking to me or not
🤣🤣🤣
But just in case I own my music for everyone out there to know
THIS KITTY OWNS HER MUSIC
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- Anonymous1 yI try to be a good person but I'm human and mess up sometimes and can't tell all the time if something I do is toxic. Like some people are hypersensitive and I won't feel bad if I don't think I did anything wrong until they call me out on it. So yes I feel bad about what I did if the other person tells me they're hurt or if they get mad/ say I was toxic. Otherwise no unless it was obvious to me tooReact
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- Fuck no. When have you EVER heard a female take responsibility for her toxic, crazy-ass, actions?
Think about this. Do women ever admit to being wrong?ReactLike
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I asked if a poster below felt bad enough about her toxic behavior to apologize to the person and ask for forgiveness... what did she do? She deleted my post. This says all you need to know about women and their capacity for toxicity.
- Yes, It's the only thing that keeps me up at night thinking aboutReact
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- Past is the past, leave it there. You'll be digging a lot of problems doing that
Nobody wants to be reminded over something horrible they didReactLike
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- if i haven't fucked up their life completely then no
If i however have done that then im gonna feel badReactLike
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- What do you consider to be "toxic behavior"?
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- most girls with a history of toxic behavior never learn good behavior.React
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- Do men?React
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- Anonymous1 yYes, if it was indeed toxic.React
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- No I don’t have anyReact
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- Sometimes.React
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